Post: #28926

(04-28-2019 12:27 PM)Veloce Wrote:  Not going to repeat that again. If it doesn't work out, fine, but I'm being much more careful with this one. Her being feminine, I know she wants dominance, honesty, integrity, with just the slightest bad boy edge. I threw her on the back of my bike and drove us out to the desert last night and fucked her under the stars, it was glorious.

Post: #28927

So I'm pretty lost guys, I've been improving I all manners such as game, strength, mental health, testosterone, and even overall intelligence (although i'm slacking in the grammar department) But My brother whom I shared the knowledge with and helped in life jus decided to settle down.

Long Story
He sucked with women. I had decent skills with women. Took him under my wing. He finally met a girl. They fucked the first night but he wanted more. He fell for her, and they started dating. She cheated on him and gave him a curable. He moved to Maryland. I discovered this forum and sent him helpful advice. He did no fap the last 2 months he was in Maryland. He came back to Alabama. As I learned from this forum i spread the knowledge to him and we both pursued women. We used to smoke cigars, drink whisky, read books, talk abotu game and conquest of women plan world domination (and our harem of women of exotic races we would soon have). He had a desperate night and ended up calling his ex (the one I mentioned) They slowly got back together. She didn't want him hanging with me because she thought I was a "womanizer (which admittedly I felt I sucked with women back then). He ended up dating her again. She cheated on him AGAIN. He forgave her. He ended up getting her pregnant which now she's 6 months.


Actual Question
So basically I lost a brother, and Im lost as to what to do next. He works Constantly and his free time goes to her. Now I wouldn't mind because I'm usually a lone wolf BUT he had many dreams that he gave up for her and its obvious he's not happy. He wanted his own barbering monopoly, a harem of women, and many other things. HELL he's even getting fat and settling for this life.

Do I just abandon my brother, or what?

This girl has ALL the red flags by the way.

Post: #28928

(04-29-2019 05:10 PM)Donfitz007 Wrote:  Do I just abandon my brother, or what?

This girl has ALL the red flags by the way.

You have to do you and focus on things within your control. Your brother is just one of many people you are close to or love that will leave you in one way or another in this life. Your brother has made his choices and it sounds like he may really look back and regret them one day, however its his life, choices, and decision... not yours.

I'm not trying to sound like a hardass... but life is far too short to stressing out over things that are not within control

Also I just have to say it about your bro and giving him advice.... You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink

Post: #28929

You can lead a horse to water indeed...
Not to mention the 'pearls before swine' element.

Question would be; if your brother continues to become fat & beta, will that chick stick around?

If he won't leave her, allow or foster a situation to where she leaves him & then perhaps you can build up your brother again?

Post: #28930

All men are destined to become the patriarch of their own tribes or to become secondary chieftains to the clan leader.

I have witnessed this play out time and time again. Sometimes wolves have to rise up and challenge for dominance of the pack or split from the pack for everyone's good and hopefully form their own.

Become the clan leader or split from the pack and start your own. Nobody is obligated to take advice from a nobody, even if that nobody is their own brother. Take control or relinquish attachment.

Post: #28931

Of course you don’t abandon your brother. Slap yourself just for thinking that is an option. But he is now in the shit. You can only do so much for him.

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Post: #28934

(04-29-2019 05:10 PM)Donfitz007 Wrote:  So I'm pretty lost guys, I've been improving I all manners such as game, strength, mental health, testosterone, and even overall intelligence (although i'm slacking in the grammar department) But My brother whom I shared the knowledge with and helped in life jus decided to settle down.

Long Story
He sucked with women. I had decent skills with women. Took him under my wing. He finally met a girl. They fucked the first night but he wanted more. He fell for her, and they started dating. She cheated on him and gave him a curable. He moved to Maryland. I discovered this forum and sent him helpful advice. He did no fap the last 2 months he was in Maryland. He came back to Alabama. As I learned from this forum i spread the knowledge to him and we both pursued women. We used to smoke cigars, drink whisky, read books, talk abotu game and conquest of women plan world domination (and our harem of women of exotic races we would soon have). He had a desperate night and ended up calling his ex (the one I mentioned) They slowly got back together. She didn't want him hanging with me because she thought I was a "womanizer (which admittedly I felt I sucked with women back then). He ended up dating her again. She cheated on him AGAIN. He forgave her. He ended up getting her pregnant which now she's 6 months.


Actual Question
So basically I lost a brother, and Im lost as to what to do next. He works Constantly and his free time goes to her. Now I wouldn't mind because I'm usually a lone wolf BUT he had many dreams that he gave up for her and its obvious he's not happy. He wanted his own barbering monopoly, a harem of women, and many other things. HELL he's even getting fat and settling for this life.

Do I just abandon my brother, or what?

This girl has ALL the red flags by the way.

Your brother is basically fear-first personality (often referred to as blue pill in RVF vernacular). I also refer to it as negative / "fixed" mindset vs positive / "growth" mindset.

In other words his prime directive is what he's afraid of (being alone, not getting laid, not having a "normal" life) rather than what he wants / desires (the business, the women, the fun, etc).

You cant change a fear/ negative/ fixed personality into a desire / positive/ growth driven personality. Only he can make that change.

Unfortunately for most people to make that kind of change their whole life view paradigm has to change...and that almost always takes an external life changing event (divorce, getting cucked, near death, severe illness, job loss etc.)

Thats why its so hard to red pill someone else

Just like a drug addict / alcoholic has to hit "rock bottom" so does your brother. Some never do

All you can do is live your own life as an example to him so that if he ever does get to the point where he's looking to "remodel" his life he'll look at your life and say "that's what I need"

Post: #28935

It sounds like your time with your brother is already drawing to a close.

First, he is having a kid. So from here on out, he will have new priorities. Second, the woman he is with sounds controlling, clear alpha female, so she is going to do her damnedest to keep you away from him. She will retaliate against him if he fails to fall in line, and will make his life a living hell if he doesn't limit his contact with you. These disjointed relationships oftentimes don't work out, to put it simply, a man is not supposed to be dominated by a female, and eventually it ends up leaving him feeling pretty shitty. If the female doesn't even respect him this early in the relationship, things can only go downhill from here.

Something like marriage counseling is not going to help, because it sounds like the relationship is a massively flawed one to begin with. I guess the best thing to do would be to push back on the female, and let her know that he's family and that she is being a shitty person if she limits your families access to him and the kid. You're going to have to find a way to make her lose face and put her in her place within the larger extended family unit. This is an uphill battle, because the female is already holding all the cards at this point.

You should be preparing your brother for the inevitable breakup. And encouraging him to man the fuck up.

Post: #28936

(04-28-2019 04:01 PM)Simeon_Strangelight Wrote:  < Was in Scotland recently - those might have been the only fit slim girls they could find in Scotland.

I was there in late Feb/early March and ran into a handful of very pretty, thin girls in the more rural parts(Hebrides). It was still mostly just fatties and sheep though.

Post: #28937

I wasn't aware that J. Geils (of the J. Geils Band) was found dead two years ago in his home in Groton, Massachusetts. He was 71.

Back then, I remember two popular songs in high school that the J. Geils Band was known for - "Centerfold" and "Love Stinks".








R.I.P.

Post: #28938

The girl I'm seeing told me her Grandfather died last year in the Phillipines, but her family was embarrassed to say why. When I pressed her for more, she said he had a heart attack. I pressed again and she said it was induced by overuse of viagra. Then she told me he was seeing a 20 something year old. At 73.

It's sad that he died, but on the otherhand good for him. I refuse to believe anything other than he died doing what he loved.

G

Post: #28939

He died doing what he loved: 20 year old phillapina girls.

Post: #28940

< According to them he should have died the normal way - in an home high on meds, unable to move or talk and getting his ass wiped by a Philippino nurse - all writing in pain occasionally. Much better.....

Post: #28941

(04-29-2019 03:40 PM)Simeon_Strangelight Wrote:  

(04-29-2019 03:31 PM)keepbalanced Wrote:  I don't have enough posts to start a new thread, but I just saw this news from the BBC:

Sports Illustrated features first burkini cover girl.

https://www.bbc.com/news/48071948

The article says that Somali-American "supermodel" Halima Aden has become the first Muslim model to appear on the cover of Sports Illustrated wearing a burkini.

Aside from virtue signaling and fake Islam pushing it's actually an affront to believing Muslims. Their only value for them is promotion of Islam.

If the society were fully sharia, then her blatant display of a figure-hugging attire and attention-whoring activity would be severely punished.

Western SJWs will love it fully misunderstaning everything about it.

On broader note my first thought was the surprise that Sports Illustrated still exists. My second thought was the surprise that the swimsuit issue still exists. We live in an era in which pornography and self published barley non-pornographic content of beautiful everyday women is readily available on the Internet (Instagram).

Like Time, Newsweek, MAXIM, SI is another relic of mid 20th century American culture that's desperately trying to be relevant again. Well, it's not gonna work.

Post: #28942

When a man cheats on his wife and mother of his child multiple times (at least a morsel of actual relationship) with a hottie who knows his backstory, what is your initial knee-jerk thought?

1. What a bitch! Proving pre-selection, she ignores all the available guys trying to take her out just to go break up a family.
or
2. What a jerk! Women are weak, men should be more responsible. Even in the barren wasteland of fatherhood with a small child, don't go chasing other puss.
or (edited, had to add)
3. No reaction. It's natural. Life is a comedy/tragedy, the world keeps spinning and people keep fuckin.

I get there's always tons of unknown details, and I get that it's never 100% his or her fault. I get the "whatever you want bro, just be able to pay the $". I get all that...

But what's your 1 millisecond, deep, reptile-brain visceral reaction?

(note how a well-versed feminist, in their all-knowing wisdom will be backed into a corner with this direct question)

My follow up thoughts...
If you choose 1 or 2, how much is simply out of jealousy. I think #1 is the more honestly jealous answer, because it's hating on the object your at least somewhat jealous for. I think #2 means you're sublimating a certain amount of jealousy, and whatever jealousy is there is passive aggressiveness. I think #3 might actually be the most honest response, although watch out for the slippery slope of nihilism.

Thursday thoughts.

Post: #28943

Good one, but those options should be given to women to mull over.

The reality is that women will forgive more Alpha men while using such behavior of a lesser man as an excuse to do the divorce she was already considering.

I saw this replicated in my own life with guys I know multiple times. The women married to Alpha attractive men were incredibly forgiving while other guys got divorce-raped for nothing really.

Biologically speaking women feel much less shame in poaching the husbands of other women. A man has preselection while seducing the woman of another man is at best a power-play and many guys shy away from those especially when they know the other guy.
In contrast I found girls to be fucking their best friends' boyfriends constantly which makes sense from their evoluationary standpoint.

Our answere here would likely be: "Men will be men and women will be women."

Our responsibility as men is limited to stopping other men from raping or harrassing women. Their responsibility is to simply say no to the advances of other men. Usually the saner old societies were stricter on married women cheating due to them having then kids from other men. Some were executing them without qualm for this reason. At least a man cannot make you pregnant with another woman's DNA.

Post: #28944

Iran is losing the war on globohomo. Thot patrol needs to be hardened.

https://twitter.com/AlinejadMasih/status...9126403072

Edit: how do I embed twitter posts? the embed feature from twitter doesn't work.

Post: #28945

use [ t] twitter link [ /t] without the spaces

Post: #28946

So many guys come to the forum complaining that they don’t get 8 and 9s easily. That obtaining only low quality girls such as a 6 or 7 is somehow the countries fault. Some posters are worse than females thinking they deserve better. Not wanting to put the work in or thinking their looks and value is actually higher than it really is. Two weeks going to X country and pulling a few HB 6,34 or 7,21 and then hating on the country they visited. We say women’s entitlement has skyrocketed in the last decade but it seems men have the same problem as .

Post: #28947

Hm - who would have thought that the everybody-gets-a-trophy mindset had negative results on men as well:



Everyone should get a pussy. In some incel forums they had guys making threads that the government should give each incel a state-sponsored pussy.







At 0400 you see guys of an incel forum saying weird stuff. One guy reports having approached 2000 girls - all while not having worked on his haircut, his athletic body or on basic Game. "Women should like me for what and who I am."

Post: #28948

(05-02-2019 11:49 AM)Simeon_Strangelight Wrote:  At 0400 you see guys of an incel forum saying weird stuff. One guy reports having approached 2000 girls - all while not having worked on his haircut, his athletic body or on basic Game. "Women should like me for what and who I am."

His delusions aren't all that far from fat chicks who expect men to love them for their curves. The difference is that government and media support deficient women, not so much with men.

Post: #28949

(05-02-2019 11:38 AM)Mentavious Wrote:  So many guys come to the forum complaining that they don’t get 8 and 9s easily. That obtaining only low quality girls such as a 6 or 7 is somehow the countries fault. Some posters are worse than females thinking they deserve better. Not wanting to put the work in or thinking their looks and value is actually higher than it really is. Two weeks going to X country and pulling a few HB 6,34 or 7,21 and then hating on the country they visited. We say women’s entitlement has skyrocketed in the last decade but it seems men have the same problem as .

Most men like you said don't want to put in the work, they want the quick fix, an elixir.

Most men inflate their ego, their ratings, etc.

Complaining isn't going to do anything, grinding and learning is the only way to get head.

There isn't going to be any sympathy from the forum if you travel to a certain country and expect 8 and 9's to drop their panties for you and they don't and you get all mad.

Men who are entitled and assume things are on the same subpar level that females who act like that are.

Post: #28950

How to spot a vegan:





It's funny that ex-vegans tell of very similar health problems - long-term vegans have those coat-hanger shoulders, lack of collagen tissue (sagging asses and tits with women), massive amount of mental issues (vegetarians alone have almost 300% more instances of depression than average Americans all despite being more healthy, of higher socio-economic status).