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RE: White american woman complains about dating in HK
(03-10-2015 04:39 AM)Go-getter Wrote: I was 25 when I moved from New York to Hong Kong, a city that, despite an obsession with new architecture and modern infrastructure, still classifies unmarried foreign women as “spinsters” on official visa documents.
"The point is, marriage is stupid. Every year there are a million hot, new 22-year olds going into bars, and call me glass-half-full, but I think they're getting dumber." -Barney Stinson
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(03-10-2015 11:58 AM)RioNomad Wrote: This comes up a lot on threads like this, but I never felt like that in the west.
I think the guys who feel like that back home are basically doing the same things these girls in Asia are doing. Not taking pride in their apperance. Even in the west if you are in shape, dress well and have game you can do well for yourself and you won't be invisible. Just like I know some attractive white women in Bangkok who get plenty of attention because they go to the gym, do their hair and makeup, and dress feminine.
The dating market is definitely skewed back home and more difficult, but if someone is doing as poorly as these white chicks in Asia, it's because they don't have their shit together.
Absolutely agree with this. I can speak from experience. When I was an athlete and in shape in my early twenties, I was regularly approached and opened by women and even had several directly ask me out. I was in an LTR for 5 years and basically let myself go and have to work much harder to get attention from women these days. Time to go to the gym juice I guess.
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RE: White american woman complains about dating in HK
It's amazing what 6 months focusing in the gym, kitchen and wardrobe can do for a man.
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RE: White american woman complains about dating in HK
(03-10-2015 06:50 AM)Parlay44 Wrote: I was at a party one time and talking to a girl there. She was about 38. Kinda slutty. Always saying sexual things for attention kinda girl. I told her that I find braces attractive. And she says "Ohh you like younger girls huh". I had to scratch my head for a second. Is there any other choice? 
So then I came to the realization that women categorize men and can find any male quality attractive. Money, looks, experience, game, older guys, younger guys etc.
+1 for important insight. Because women are inherently passive and virtually never open anyone but out of reach guys, they have to be open to and more alert for mating opportunities.
Hey, she may laugh at you behind your back ( hearing women mock their husbands can be pretty chilling), but also at some level they realize that's the best deal they're going to get.
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RE: White american woman complains about dating in HK
(03-10-2015 11:58 AM)RioNomad Wrote: (03-10-2015 11:43 AM)GlockTrigga Wrote: In Japan Gaijin women are largely ignored. Even as an ESL teacher you get no play. The only time you can score is if you are a Scandinavian girl who is 5'6-5'9 with big ass titties and blonde hair. You have to have insane curves and perfect complexion. Basically you have to look better than a Japanese cosplay girl. Good luck ladies, now you know what it feels like to be a Man in the West!
This comes up a lot on threads like this, but I never felt like that in the west.
I think the guys who feel like that back home are basically doing the same things these girls in Asia are doing. Not taking pride in their apperance. Even in the west if you are in shape, dress well and have game you can do well for yourself and you won't be invisible. Just like I know some attractive white women in Bangkok who get plenty of attention because they go to the gym, do their hair and makeup, and dress feminine.
The dating market is definitely skewed back home and more difficult, but if someone is doing as poorly as these white chicks in Asia, it's because they don't have their shit together.
I really didn't see too many attractive white women at all while in Bangkok. Thai women? Yes. Then again I've been sheltered with family friends & their agendas when I visit that place.
I will however say Hong Kong is a place where the western women there for graduate studies or professional reasons have their shit together. Yeah there are the typical obnoxious fat drunk chicks nobody would touch on LKF, but walk around Central & the eating areas of HK Island during a weekday lunch time. PLENTY of talent whether it be heeled up Asian/Western chicks maneuvering around with a purpose....unlike this 45 year old spinster chubster with short hair.
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RE: White american woman complains about dating in HK
(03-10-2015 01:05 PM)RioNomad Wrote: 5'8" isn't too short. Buy some Wolverine 1000 Mile boots and put some thick insoles inside and you're damn near 5'10" probably.
This attitude is exactly what I love about this forum. Problems are met with solutions, not bitching.
"The point is, marriage is stupid. Every year there are a million hot, new 22-year olds going into bars, and call me glass-half-full, but I think they're getting dumber." -Barney Stinson
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RE: White american woman complains about dating in HK
(03-10-2015 11:43 AM)GlockTrigga Wrote: In Japan Gaijin women are largely ignored. Even as an ESL teacher you get no play. The only time you can score is if you are a Scandinavian girl who is 5'6-5'9 with big ass titties and blonde hair. You have to have insane curves and perfect complexion. Basically you have to look better than a Japanese cosplay girl.
I think this is an exaggeration. White girls are perfectly competitive if they don't have problems. A healthy one averages bigger tits and ass, fairer skin, sometimes perks like blue eyes, and longer legs than a Japanese girl. However problems are very common: bad attitude, fatness, appearance (hair/clothes etc), higher chance of being too tall, too large, having big noses etc. When they don't have problems, Japanese girls are only really beating them on face (average a bit prettier) and personality (feminine and 'soft').
And perhaps more importantly, there is the ease of sale issue. A Japanese girl thinks you are better than a western white girl does. As a decent western man, it takes more to brighten the eyes of a western girl than a Japanese one. Guys aren't going to bother approaching a plain white girl who will snub them if there is an attractive Japanese girl next to them who won't.
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An attractive, fit western woman would kill it anywhere in Asia. She'd have high-value local men with unlimited money after them, as well as most of the expats. Most western men, even with foreign options, will still marry their own kind if they perceive it to be a good investment. An attractive, fit, feminine western woman with a sweet disposition, while rare, is the holy fucking grail for the vast majority of western men. Think back to what western women were like decades ago.
This just goes to show this woman is a shriveled up hag who grew up in an environment where she was pedestalized by thristy betas. Instagramming and facebooking images of her "exotic, adventurous life abroad" has lost its novelty. She'll end up back in America in less than a year with a self-concocted saga of her Asian journey and a shittier than usual attitude as she now deems herself 'well-traveled'. Betas will orbit her with false smiles and feigned interest of the 'worldliness' she acquired avoiding local people, complaining about uninterested white men and drinking alone while bitching on WSJ, just for the chance of dipping their non-worldly dicks into her used-up snatch. Then she'll acquire cats and write another article about how frumpy, 'Everyone Loves Raymond'-esque American men don't do it for her either.
Oh, and of course, WNB.
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RE: White american woman complains about dating in HK
(03-10-2015 02:05 PM)Phoenix Wrote: (03-10-2015 11:43 AM)GlockTrigga Wrote: In Japan Gaijin women are largely ignored. Even as an ESL teacher you get no play. The only time you can score is if you are a Scandinavian girl who is 5'6-5'9 with big ass titties and blonde hair. You have to have insane curves and perfect complexion. Basically you have to look better than a Japanese cosplay girl.
I think this is an exaggeration. White girls are perfectly competitive if they don't have problems. A healthy one averages bigger tits and ass, fairer skin, sometimes perks like blue eyes, and longer legs than a Japanese girl. However problems are very common: bad attitude, fatness, appearance (hair/clothes etc), higher chance of being too tall, too large, having big noses etc. When they don't have problems, Japanese girls are only really beating them on face (average a bit prettier) and personality (feminine and 'soft').
And perhaps more importantly, there is the ease of sale issue. A Japanese girl thinks you are better than a western white girl does. As a decent western man, it takes more to brighten the eyes of a western girl than a Japanese one. Guys aren't going to bother approaching a plain white girl who will snub them if there is an attractive Japanese girl next to them who won't.
And pussies.
Asian girls have prettier pussies.
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Whites that move to non-white countries for work: Expats
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RE: White american woman complains about dating in HK
(03-10-2015 11:58 AM)RioNomad Wrote: This comes up a lot on threads like this, but I never felt like that in the west.
I think the guys who feel like that back home are basically doing the same things these girls in Asia are doing. Not taking pride in their apperance. Even in the west if you are in shape, dress well and have game you can do well for yourself and you won't be invisible. Just like I know some attractive white women in Bangkok who get plenty of attention because they go to the gym, do their hair and makeup, and dress feminine.
The dating market is definitely skewed back home and more difficult, but if someone is doing as poorly as these white chicks in Asia, it's because they don't have their shit together.
Agreed. It is HARD to look at yourself in the mirror and say, "wow. I'm fucked up and need to work on things."
As we've all started, this chick is busted. She's 25 going on 45. She could lose 10 pounds, grow out her hair, eat right and be cool and that would give her quite a jump on the other girls--most especially those chicks who aren't doing those 4 things.
Same goes for guys. We all know that guy who is overweight, bad hair, bad teeth, no game but he doesn't work on anything day in or day out and wonders why nothing goes anywhere.
Don't be that guy.
Don't be that girl.
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