Post: #1

This topic got touched on here: /thread-10796-...67431.html

But I thought it deserved its own thread for clarification. Here is how I do it:

1. This move is best in what I call "closed environments" ie Weddings, Cocktail Parties, High End House Parties, Mansion Parties, Dope Corporate Events, Dinner Parties, Art Gallery Openings, Soft Restaurant Openings, The Turf Club of The Race Track etc. You get the picture.

Ignoring girls is a bad move in "open environments" ie nightclubs, bars etc.

If you ignore a girl in an open nightclub, she might just vanish.

2. This is an Advanced Game move. Don't use this as an excuse when you are coming up in The Game to not spit. Veterans Only.

You have to be in control. No weakness here.

You have to be coming from a position of strength, as this is a "take away" of sorts.

3. Make and introduction and cut out. But come strong to the hoop. Land some hard shots. Don't linger. There are going to tons of other cats "punching themselves out". Let them. The beauty of the closed environment is she is not going anywhere (generally speaking, sometimes you lose one).

Drop some "blood" in the water for her to grasp on. In your brief introduction, mention you were just in Colombia "doing business".

Or you "spent last summer at the beach in Spain".

Something to re-connect with her later on, and pivot.

That is the true beauty of this International Playboy Lifestyle that no one talks about: it is a Self-Fulfilling Prophecy.

Here is an example: The Del Mar Racetrack: Swooping The Top Tier Girls http://www.thegmanifesto.com/2011/07/the...girls.html

4. This move creates an air of "mystery" around you. She thinks, "Why isn't he talking to me like all the other guys?" This is a good thing.

5. You either need to already have the spot on lock, have Juice, or be prepared to take over the joint. When she looks over at you, she should be seeing you with other groups, other girls, the center of attention.

6. A Custom Suit never hurt. In fact, many of these "closed environments" are jacket required. So Dress Sharp as broken glass.

7. When the time is right, make your move and isolate her. You guys already know how I like to do that: With a Smoke and a Zippo.

8. Your opportunity may not present itself. In this case, you have to make your opportunities. You may have to get in the trenches. Trade some body shots. Push off with your elbow. Don't be afraid to get dirty.

9. When you do have your chance, close the show. And close it hard. Be dope, be interesting, Be The G.

Close like this:





Any questions? Feel free to ask.

For the experienced cats, hopefully this helped.

For the younger cats, you can start incorporating this into your Game.

You will be at this level soon enough.

Post: #2

Two things.

This is an advanced move. When you get good and comfortable with game (which includes having a travel repertoire), you can really have fun with your imagination. I walked up to a stunner in SF recently and told her she looked like someone I met in Rome recently. She was thrilled and had actually been in Rome and Ravenna last summer for school. Easy opener.

With the nightlife venue, notice I said in the other thread that you gotta make impact with a socialite in the club. You know, the types that have bottle service and have a bunch of thirsty guys around them. When you have game, you can leave them alone and focus on the other girls and make your presence known. Take care of the bartender and open a group and command the show.

When you do this around the socialites, they will take notice. That's when you can make your approach without regard. Even if she's gone or doesn't recognize, you have other chicks in the stable so that it's of no consequence. This mindset helps your inner game.

Post: #3

Paying as little attention as possible to the hot girl always works well in social circle situations. Isn't this true for all men?


If there are any analogies to boxing, it would be to "play defensively until your opponent has worn themselves out".

Post: #4

The take home is it has to be closed environment, which really is the best for aloof game. The closest I've done to this is hostel dorm rooms in South America where I could make a series of calculated plays over hours and days.

Even though I want to be aloof in the bar, if I walk away there will be 5 aggressive guys will follow me, and in 15 minutes her friend is going to drag her to another bar. There is no "seduction" in regular nightlife spots.

Post: #5

(02-27-2012 12:45 AM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  Two things.

This is an advanced move. When you get good and comfortable with game (which includes having a travel repertoire), you can really have fun with your imagination. I walked up to a stunner in SF recently and told her she looked like someone I met in Rome recently. She was thrilled and had actually been in Rome and Ravenna last summer for school. Easy opener.

Yeah, this is where the International Playboy Lifestyle becomes a Self-Fulfilling Prophecy that I was talking about.

Post: #6

Question:

I'm going through this predicament on another thread. Going after a 9, my first big prize. We've met twice, got her number, if you want more specifics ask me. My question is, do you think the odds are greater in pulling aloof game in a closed environment, or pulling tight seduction game in an open one?

I should add, I don't consider myself advanced by any means...but there's a first time for everything

Post: #7

Question:

I'm going through this predicament on another thread. Going after a 9, my first big prize. We've met twice, got her number, if you want more specifics ask me. My question is, do you think the odds are greater in pulling aloof game in a closed environment, or pulling tight seduction game in an open one?

Post: #8

(02-27-2012 01:08 PM)thedude3737 Wrote:  Question:

I'm going through this predicament on another thread. Going after a 9, my first big prize. We've met twice, got her number, if you want more specifics ask me. My question is, do you think the odds are greater in pulling aloof game in a closed environment, or pulling tight seduction game in an open one?

Hard to compare.

Personally, I like "pulling aloof game in a closed environment" more these days.

Although it is sometimes difficult to find yourself at dope "closed environments" with fly girls non-stop.

I mean, how many really dope Weddings does one go to in one's life?

I have been to at least 3 mindblowing ones, but that is about it.

That being said, you can always work to find yourself at more of them.

Much of this is dependent on ones work and lifestyle as well.

Post: #9

(02-27-2012 08:38 AM)Roosh Wrote:  The take home is it has to be closed environment, which really is the best for aloof game. The closest I've done to this is hostel dorm rooms in South America where I could make a series of calculated plays over hours and days.

Even though I want to be aloof in the bar, if I walk away there will be 5 aggressive guys will follow me, and in 15 minutes her friend is going to drag her to another bar. There is no "seduction" in regular nightlife spots.

Yeah, Closed Environments are better for "seduction" in the classic Giacomo Casanova sense.

More of a Chess Match.

Post: #10

Ignoring game only works when you're the most interesting man in the room.

The guy in the corner, to a woman, is either a creepy loser or a mystery man.

If you're wearing a suit, good looking, drinking or smoking by yourself, and not TWITCHING (what is up with guys looking all spazzy when alone at the bar?), then she'll wanna know the most important question a man must be prepared to answer:

"What's his story?"

Post: #11

(02-27-2012 06:25 PM)MikeCF Wrote:  Ignoring game only works when you're the most interesting man in the room.

The guy in the corner, to a woman, is either a creepy loser or a mystery man.

If you're wearing a suit, good looking, drinking or smoking by yourself, and not TWITCHING (what is up with guys looking all spazzy when alone at the bar?), then she'll wanna know the most important question a man must be prepared to answer:

"What's his story?"

Yeah, that is true.

You have to own the room. Or more or less own the room. Definitely have to be the 1% (of cool cats that is).

For instance, there can be people with way more dough that you, or better looking, but if you are smoother dressed and are more interesting/dope, then you can play Ignore Game.

Post: #12

On the complete other side of the coin, what are your chances when you see a girl, intense eye contact and all but you did not approach her? I have had cases where girls moved themselves close to me just to strike a conversation but I just ignored them. Is there a second chance the next time you meet or is the attraction value you hold over her completely gone? I am talking in the context of college.

Due to some other issues, you are not in the mood or a sudden attack of AA, you didn't know how to open (though this is not an excuse when she is very much interested). How does one handle the next meeting? What is her reaction going be the next time you see her? I usually try my best not to make it awkward for the both of us and make it seem like I did not notice her but chances are the damage is already done.

I am guessing it is going to be normal for her to be closed off the next time because she might feel rejected but is she still going to be receptive to an approach another time?

Cheers guys. This has happened quite a few times when I am just not in the mood for girls at that moment.

Post: #13

(02-27-2017 05:48 AM)Hazaer Wrote:  On the complete other side of the coin, what are your chances when you see a girl, intense eye contact and all but you did not approach her? I have had cases where girls moved themselves close to me just to strike a conversation but I just ignored them. Is there a second chance the next time you meet or is the attraction value you hold over her completely gone? I am talking in the context of college.

Due to some other issues, you are not in the mood or a sudden attack of AA, you didn't know how to open (though this is not an excuse when she is very much interested). How does one handle the next meeting? What is her reaction going be the next time you see her? I usually try my best not to make it awkward for the both of us and make it seem like I did not notice her but chances are the damage is already done.

I am guessing it is going to be normal for her to be closed off the next time because she might feel rejected but is she still going to be receptive to an approach another time?

Cheers guys. This has happened quite a few times when I am just not in the mood for girls at that moment.

Any suggestions will be appreciated guys.

Post: #14

Quote:Is there a second chance the next time you meet

Probably not. I've been "ignoring" girls for years and they just ignore right back.

Post: #15

(02-28-2017 05:56 AM)Hazaer Wrote:  

(02-27-2017 05:48 AM)Hazaer Wrote:  On the complete other side of the coin, what are your chances when you see a girl, intense eye contact and all but you did not approach her? I have had cases where girls moved themselves close to me just to strike a conversation but I just ignored them. Is there a second chance the next time you meet or is the attraction value you hold over her completely gone? I am talking in the context of college.

Due to some other issues, you are not in the mood or a sudden attack of AA, you didn't know how to open (though this is not an excuse when she is very much interested). How does one handle the next meeting? What is her reaction going be the next time you see her? I usually try my best not to make it awkward for the both of us and make it seem like I did not notice her but chances are the damage is already done.

I am guessing it is going to be normal for her to be closed off the next time because she might feel rejected but is she still going to be receptive to an approach another time?

Cheers guys. This has happened quite a few times when I am just not in the mood for girls at that moment.

Any suggestions will be appreciated guys.

You will never know if you don't try.

It may be she feels rejected and is protecting her ego by shutting you down. It may be she felt it that day and today she doesn't, or last night she got back together with an old boy friend.

It may also be that she is still living in hope you will talk to her, and if you do she will light up.

It is never over unless you want it to be or she has unequivocally let you know that it is.

It is up to you, bro. Don't try to read her mind. If you want to talk to her, do it.

Post: #16

Depends on if you are 6'4", ripped and look like Elvis.

My wingman is, and he ignores them but they approach him in an orderly queue.

If I ignore them, I am going home alone......

Post: #17

I guess what I want to know is how is she going to feel the next time I see her when I decide to approach barring her meeting somebody else. Would she see have dismissed the guy as a failure and desperate when he tries to talk to her the next time? Or maybe me trying to talk might seem as making amends and so she doesn't feel it anymore. I am thinking most girls would probably feel the same thing after such things happen.

I have done this to quite a few girls who I keep running into. Hurting them is the last thing I want to do. I am guessing the more inexperienced girls would have a harder time interacting with such a guy again?

Post: #18

It works if you...

- make a good impression
- have time on your hands
- she is not going anywhere (closed environment)

In this case you can approach and reapproach many times ignoring her in the meantime like you push/pulling her.