Post: #1

I met this chick last weekend at the club.

I was looking for the target. I said 'hey' to this chick. I realized she was walking towards some guy. So I grabbed a chick next to her instead. lol She was all over me within several minutes. it turned out that she had asian ex. (good sign) We kissed and exchanged contact info.

I was txting her today and she said 'if you knew all my baggage right now, you wouldn't want anything to do with me'
I asked her what that meant. she said her husband bailed several months ago. I didn't want to ask in detail. She thought I wouldn't talk to her once she told me that. So I just told her 'I just wanted to hangout with you to see what kind of person you are'
We are going to meet at the bar in couple days.

Have you guys dealt with a chick who recently got dumped, broke up and divorced?
I don't want to listen to their problems. Being a white knight wouldn't help anyways I think. ('Oh I feel sorry for you. he is such an asshole. come here I will give you a hug'
I don't have to feel guilty gaming a chick like that since I am not promising her anything to get down with her?

My plan is just briefly ask her about what happened and tell her 'Past is the past, forget about it and let's have fun like normal people'

was it easier for you to game those kind of chicks? was it worth it?

Post: #2

I just listen to their problems. Girls like when guys listen."what a fucking asshole. Let's drink to a new start baby". Its nice having someone to talk to about things on your mind. I would say some stupid shit like that then proceed to fill her with alcohol. Yeah, its easier when they're fragile and heartbroken or whatever. "Come to daddy. It'll be ok". Try to get her laughing.

Post: #3

Be careful she's not a BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) chick. Search the Game forum for a thread on that. Had a CUNT, and yes I say 'cunt' because that's what she was when the smoke cleared, who I banged for a couple months. She became the devil incarnate. Any bullshit about 'I have a lot of baggage', sounds exactly like what my chick had said but I didn't see the warning signs. Any chick who expresses that she has baggage definitely has an airplane full of baggage guaranteed and it's not worth it. If you do decide to bang her, don't bring her to your pad, don't give her your real ph number and even use an alias if it's not too late.