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Morocco: Where Rapists Find Immunity Through Marriage
Quote:Article 475 of the Moroccan penal code allows for the "kidnapper" of a minor to marry his victim to escape prosecution, and it has been used to justify a traditional practice of making a rapist marry his victim to preserve the honor of the woman's family.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/03/14...lp00000009
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Basil Ransom
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RE: Morocco: Where Rapists Find Immunity Through Marriage
(03-15-2012 01:15 AM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote: Quote:Article 475 of the Moroccan penal code allows for the "kidnapper" of a minor to marry his victim to escape prosecution, and it has been used to justify a traditional practice of making a rapist marry his victim to preserve the honor of the woman's family.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/03/14...lp00000009
I wouldn't be so quick to criticize the law. Moroccan society is worlds away from our own.
Consider what the link says:
Quote: the family of the victim sometimes agrees out of fear that she won't be able to find a husband if it is known she was raped.
The marriage is then pushed on the victim by the families to avoid scandal, said Fouzia Assouli, president of Democratic League for Women's Rights...
In many societies, the loss of a woman's virginity outside of wedlock is a huge stain of honor on the family.
In many parts of the Middle East, there is a tradition whereby a rapist can escape prosecution if he marries his victim, thereby restoring her honor. There is a similar injunction in the Old Testament's Book of Deuteronomy
Rules like these are thousands of years old. They formed and remained in currency because they served a purpose, because the respective societies found them useful. Maybe it's appropriate to discard them now, but as someone who knows nothing of how Morocco operates, our commentary is worthless.
For instance, as that quote mentions, in societies with such a rule, a woman is unsuitable for marriage if she is not a virgin. It's absolutely ridiculous to subject such a society to the same set of rules as one where women rack up several sexual partners before tying the knot. There is almost zero overlap between us and them. You can't even begin to imagine what your life would look like if that were the case. When you realize that a woman once penetrated outside the bounds of marriage is sexually worthless, some of that 'oppression of women' stuff, i.e. the containment of female sexuality, starts to make sense.
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RE: Morocco: Where Rapists Find Immunity Through Marriage
(03-15-2012 03:04 PM)basilransom Wrote: [quote='Hencredible Casanova' pid='179076' dateline='1331792134']
I wouldn't be so quick to criticize the law. Moroccan society is worlds away from our own.
Consider what the link says:
Quote: the family of the victim sometimes agrees out of fear that she won't be able to find a husband if it is known she was raped.
The marriage is then pushed on the victim by the families to avoid scandal, said Fouzia Assouli, president of Democratic League for Women's Rights...
In many societies, the loss of a woman's virginity outside of wedlock is a huge stain of honor on the family.
In many parts of the Middle East, there is a tradition whereby a rapist can escape prosecution if he marries his victim, thereby restoring her honor. There is a similar injunction in the Old Testament's Book of Deuteronomy
Rules like these are thousands of years old. They formed and remained in currency because they served a purpose, because the respective societies found them useful. Maybe it's appropriate to discard them now, but as someone who knows nothing of how Morocco operates, our commentary is worthless.
For instance, as that quote mentions, in societies with such a rule, a woman is unsuitable for marriage if she is not a virgin. It's absolutely ridiculous to subject such a society to the same set of rules as one where women rack up several sexual partners before tying the knot. There is almost zero overlap between us and them. You can't even begin to imagine what your life would look like if that were the case. When you realize that a woman once penetrated outside the bounds of marriage is sexually worthless, some of that 'oppression of women' stuff, i.e. the containment of female sexuality, starts to make sense.
Well then we have an even bigger problem if the society we're dealing with is using a moral system from the 7th century. Human civilization, generally, has been making progress in the moral sphere and it's not too unreasonable to say that we think that people should have basic rights, regardless of what cultural context they come from.
Cultural relativism will be the death of the West. If there's no right and wrong, then anything can be justified.
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RE: Morocco: Where Rapists Find Immunity Through Marriage
(03-17-2012 05:45 AM)houston Wrote: You didn't answer any of my questions which leads to me believe that you've never even been here.
I thought that by saying "if I ever somehow end up being there, I'd kill myself" I made it clear that I never been there and will do my best to never be there. I apologize if this wasn't clear enough.
So now once you're satisfied hopefully you'll be able to get to the point of what I said.
Aren't you guys keep electing extremely religious governors who heavily push religious agenda?
Wasn't it your moronic governor who claimed that "America's issues are not primarily financial, political or moral. Neither does America's hope lie in one leader or institution. Our hope is found in the One who desires for us to turn to Him with all our hearts. This is our response — to call on Jesus on behalf of America"? Hell yeah, why do we even need the elected legislature?
Isn't Rick Perry one of those idiots who want to criminalize gay sex and abortion? Isn't it because as he says the bible condemns it, and therefore it should be the law?
But the situation in Morocci is clearly based on the bible! So why Rick Perry doesn't push for the law like that?
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Excelsior
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RE: Morocco: Where Rapists Find Immunity Through Marriage
(03-17-2012 06:42 AM)ao85 Wrote: Well then we have an even bigger problem if the society we're dealing with is using a moral system from the 7th century. Human civilization, generally, has been making progress in the moral sphere and it's not too unreasonable to say that we think that people should have basic rights, regardless of what cultural context they come from.
Cultural relativism will be the death of the West. If there's no right and wrong, then anything can be justified.
While I see your point, the problem here is that cultural relativism is unavoidable.
The fact is that what is "right and wrong" or "backward", in the context of this and some other posts in this thread, is often determined from a western perspective. We are taking western standards of morality and applying them to very foreign contexts.
We cannot underestimate the significance of this when its comes to how others will perceive western critiques of their culture. Like our own, their rules took thousands of years to form, and have persisted for that long as well. They believe wholeheartedly in these rules, and cling as strongly to them as Americans do to the idea of democracy and limited government (more so, even, since these foreign rules are often much older than the United States itself).
They're about as likely to adopt western morality as Americans are to adopt Sharia law at the federal level. This has to be made clear-not everyone agrees with the west, and many (perhaps even most) of those who currently do not simply never will.
Getting online and creating petitions will not change this.
Know your enemy and know yourself, find naught in fear for 100 battles. Know yourself but not your enemy, find level of loss and victory. Know thy enemy but not yourself, wallow in defeat every time.
(This post was last modified: 03-19-2012 11:17 PM by Excelsior.)
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