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Million dollar question: Why are American women so hung up on race?
Right now I am in California and here interracial relationships are common but you see a lot more White men with non-White women than the other way around. By American women I mean White women since America is a mostly White country.

As a Black-White mix, I have been rejected at times because of race. It isn't as bad as my Korean friend who was rejected out loud, like women did not even disguise it, just openly said "sorry I don't do Asians" before he even said a word.

Having traveled abroad, I rarely if ever had such issues. Women were more open to being approached and really did not care about race that much, like literally, it was the LAST thing on their mind. Coming back from Sweden I saw Asian guys with beautiful blondes, Brown guys (Arabs, Morroccoans, some looked Hindu) with beautiful blondes too and Black guys too. Not to say you don't see it in California but still it isn't that common here.

If we are such a multicultural country, then why are American women so hung up on race?
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RE: Million dollar question: Why are American women so hung up on race?
yeah, that's america for you.

But on the other side of it, look at it this way: they're letting you know upfront they're not interested, which saves you hours and even money spent on a date only for them to bring up the race thing later on down the line after your sizeable investment.
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RE: Million dollar question: Why are American women so hung up on race?
(04-10-2012 08:35 PM)BossMayne Wrote:  Right now I am in California and here interracial relationships are common but you see a lot more White men with non-White women than the other way around. By American women I mean White women since America is a mostly White country.

As a Black-White mix, I have been rejected at times because of race. It isn't as bad as my Korean friend who was rejected out loud, like women did not even disguise it, just openly said "sorry I don't do Asians" before he even said a word.

Having traveled abroad, I rarely if ever had such issues. Women were more open to being approached and really did not care about race that much, like literally, it was the LAST thing on their mind. Coming back from Sweden I saw Asian guys with beautiful blondes, Brown guys (Arabs, Morroccoans, some looked Hindu) with beautiful blondes too and Black guys too. Not to say you don't see it in California but still it isn't that common here.

If we are such a multicultural country, then why are American women so hung up on race?

I think it depends. Up in the intelligentsia, foreigners and mixed-race people have a lot of attractive value (esp black-white men a la Obama, and Asian-white women who are the natural product of many smart-on-smart couples who met in college/grad school).

Down in the status whoring pit of middle upper class white suburbanites, beach-party girls, they are very big on exclusivity and image and that extends to their mates "looking like them."
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RE: Million dollar question: Why are American women so hung up on race?
I went to UF for 1 year of college, I swear to god it was h3ll for nearly all minorities. The sorority girls do not do anything but White. I got play there still but it was tough to come by. Literally, if a girl was upper middle class and white she would not touch a minority. Sad shit is sad.
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RE: Million dollar question: Why are American women so hung up on race?
White male - Asian female couples outnumber the opposite. Black/Indian male - White/Asian female couples outnumber the opposite. Hispanic - non-hispanic white ratios are even. These are the same in the USA, Canada and Australia. Statistically speaking it's the East Asian males and Black females who have it tough.

Also, often when a girl says she'd never date/fuck a guy of _______ race, she might actually do so later on. When of the most attractive girls I know said she'd only go for white guys (she's white), and not too long afterwards she's dating an older Indian dude. Some girls who haven't interacted with other races much assume that all Asian/Indian guys are pathetic beta nerds. Once a man's displayed that he doesn't fit into that stereotype race stops playing a role in whether he'll be successful or not.

Don't get too hung up about race dude.
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RE: Million dollar question: Why are American women so hung up on race?
How many times are you guys going to fall for this..

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RE: Million dollar question: Why are American women so hung up on race?
I don't know what to say when guys say
'Girls in my state are bitches. Go to FL, CA, NY. There are more women to men and they are friendly'
'Girls in U.S are all bitches'
As you know it just doesn't come out of immigrant guy's mouth. White guys say the same thing which fascinates me.

I've never been to europe. how are they different to minority guys? (except those poor countries. Even as an asian guy, I can go there and get married with model looking girls in a day. I don't know how long they will stick though lol)
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RE: Million dollar question: Why are American women so hung up on race?
America is a country with multiple cultures but by no means is it multicultural in the true sense.

Interracial relationships, BM & WW are still very much taboo and something you do not see too much in the media.

Europeans seem to be more open with this than Americans.

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RE: Million dollar question: Why are American women so hung up on race?
(04-10-2012 08:52 PM)P Dog Wrote:  White male - Asian female couples outnumber the opposite. Black/Indian male - White/Asian female couples outnumber the opposite. Hispanic - non-hispanic white ratios are even. These are the same in the USA, Canada and Australia. Statistically speaking it's the East Asian males and Black females who have it tough.

Also, often when a girl says she'd never date/fuck a guy of _______ race, she might actually do so later on. When of the most attractive girls I know said she'd only go for white guys (she's white), and not too long afterwards she's dating an older Indian dude. Some girls who haven't interacted with other races much assume that all Asian/Indian guys are pathetic beta nerds. Once a man's displayed that he doesn't fit into that stereotype race stops playing a role in whether he'll be successful or not.

Don't get too hung up about race dude.

In California, the only Indian dudes I saw dating attractive girls that weren't Indians were doctors (with blonde wives) and even then everyone knew she was cheating on him while he was off to work.

Everyone else stuck to themselves. Even being half black half white myself, I had my struggles. For all people said about California, the only couples I saw regularly were White guys with either Latin or Asian chicks. White women in my area (OC) pretty much stuck to White guys, dated a Latino (white looking) here and there.

Then we go to Sweden and completely different experience, you saw couples there you would not see in a million years in Los Angeles.
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(04-10-2012 09:28 PM)Sebastian Wrote:  I don't know what to say when guys say
'Girls in my state are bitches. Go to FL, CA, NY. There are more women to men and they are friendly'
'Girls in U.S are all bitches'
As you know it just doesn't come out of immigrant guy's mouth. White guys say the same thing which fascinates me.

I've never been to europe. how are they different to minority guys? (except those poor countries. Even as an asian guy, I can go there and get married with model looking girls in a day. I don't know how long they will stick though lol)

From what I hear, very friendly to minority guys. My Puerto Rican/Mexican mixed friend (thin hair and brown skin) could not get laid at UCLA or after college in California by anything other than a mexican or black chick. Went to France and was dating a cute redhead from there. Told me he saw a lot of Black male - White girl couples and no one made a big deal, said he saw quite a bit of brown men (Arabs, Morrocco, Algerians) with White wives too and no one cared.

It is like this. In Europe, with my game at its best, style in check, everything in order, on a good night I will be able to smash a 9/10. SRSLY. In the US, with all that in check, I would be lucky to land a 7/10.

Now factor location into all that, in the dixie that 7/10 turns into a 5/10, the 7/10 stays a 7/10 in NYC and California. In the Midwest and stuff, maybe a 6/10.
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RE: Million dollar question: Why are American women so hung up on race?
Did the banhammer swing already? That was quick.

Anyway, the question has been answered a million times here. America is a nation founded on a racial hierarchy. It has spent its entire history (nearly four centuries if you include the colonial era) maintaining that hierarchy, and didn't even begin trying to chip away at it until about four decades ago.
You can imagine, then, that some racial hang ups would remain. You see less evidence of this in other places because of the absence of the same rigid hierarchy. Simple as that.

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Is this the Indian troll guy? I wonder....
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RE: Million dollar question: Why are American women so hung up on race?
Actually in USA I saw the most interracial pairs.There is no other country with affirmative action by the way(except from Britain).
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(04-11-2012 01:18 AM)Greek kamaki Wrote:  Actually in USA I saw the most interracial pairs.There is no other country with affirmative action by the way(except from Britain).

Can you say France as well, maybe? In France I saw many mixed people (mixed with African and French most likely).

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(04-10-2012 08:52 PM)P Dog Wrote:  Statistically speaking it's the East Asian males and Black females who have it tough.
From living in NYC, which has plenty of interracial dating, this has been my impression as well.

It'd all be good if we could get East Asian males and black females to date each other, but a more unlikely pairing I could not imagine.
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(04-11-2012 07:28 AM)assman Wrote:  
(04-10-2012 08:52 PM)P Dog Wrote:  Statistically speaking it's the East Asian males and Black females who have it tough.
From living in NYC, which has plenty of interracial dating, this has been my impression as well.

It'd all be good if we could get East Asian males and black females to date each other, but a more unlikely pairing I could not imagine.

The question is, do they like each other? I have some East Asian friends and we always enjoy candid convo about each other's culture. All of them hum and hah with political correctness when I ask them the question, by and large, they have no interest in black lizards.

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(04-11-2012 09:13 AM)Moma Wrote:  The question is, do they like each other? I have some East Asian friends and we always enjoy candid convo about each other's culture. All of them hum and hah with political correctness when I ask them the question, by and large, they have no interest in black lizards.
I think the disinterest runs in both directions, which is why I said the pairing is very unlikely. But ask black lizards - I'd bet that, on average, they deem East Asian men the least attractive. This has been my impression from talking about interracial dating with black women.
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Some symptoms of race trolling:

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2. Posts a thread devoted to race rather than a comment within a thread.
3. Creates multiple threads implicating race, even though he has very few posts total.
4. Replies quickly and frequently to bites to his race thread.
5. Discusses his own race or his "friend's" race as "evidence" for his conclusions.

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I caught him in his other thread /thread-12008.html


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(04-11-2012 12:27 PM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  I caught him in his other thread /thread-12008.html

You gotta hit that report button. Either Roosh or I will drop 'em before they lure unsuspecting guys to fill up their threads.

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No. My signature was inspired by a random post that said "I love game" or something to that effect. Right around then, I was thinking "for the love god" about something unrelated, and that turned into "for the love of game!" I made myself laugh and though it was worth reusing. I didn't realize someone had written something kind of similar. I'm trademarking the line for myself.

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I don't think this dude is a race troll since what he's saying is true.

Race trolls purposely try to instigate problems by sensationalizing nebulous issues that appear to be correlated to race (think Matt Drudge). Most race trolls are beta sympathizers or jezebel cunts.
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(04-11-2012 11:00 AM)assman Wrote:  
(04-11-2012 09:13 AM)Moma Wrote:  The question is, do they like each other? I have some East Asian friends and we always enjoy candid convo about each other's culture. All of them hum and hah with political correctness when I ask them the question, by and large, they have no interest in black lizards.
I think the disinterest runs in both directions, which is why I said the pairing is very unlikely. But ask black lizards - I'd bet that, on average, they deem East Asian men the least attractive. This has been my impression from talking about interracial dating with black women.

Surprisingly enough, it seems that a few others have realized the potential for a match here. There has been a small but noticeable movement promoting the rise of black female-asian male pairings.

Here is a tumblr devoted to it, plus a couple of articles that promote the subject as well.

Africa has become an intriguing area for these relationships as well. There have been quite a few Chinese migrant workers settling on the continent in the past decade (some say potentially up to 1 million), and a lot of them are taking African wives. This fits nicely with local demographics, since women outnumber men in much of sub-saharan Africa.

I'm quite ecstatic about this, and I am happy to see more potential inter-cultural marriages in the future. I personally hope to see this pairing become much more common both here and abroad in coming decades, and I think it is very likely it will.

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(04-11-2012 01:18 AM)Greek kamaki Wrote:  Actually in USA I saw the most interracial pairs.There is no other country with affirmative action by the way(except from Britain).

You can find Affirmative Action in Canada, Brazil, Israel, China, Malaysia, Germany, Norway, Macedonia, Sweden, and South Africa.

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One thing I have not seen mentioned in this or other race threads is; While she may not have a problem with bringing a guy from another race home, her parents might.

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(04-11-2012 01:39 PM)Athlone McGinnis Wrote:  
(04-11-2012 11:00 AM)assman Wrote:  
(04-11-2012 09:13 AM)Moma Wrote:  The question is, do they like each other? I have some East Asian friends and we always enjoy candid convo about each other's culture. All of them hum and hah with political correctness when I ask them the question, by and large, they have no interest in black lizards.
I think the disinterest runs in both directions, which is why I said the pairing is very unlikely. But ask black lizards - I'd bet that, on average, they deem East Asian men the least attractive. This has been my impression from talking about interracial dating with black women.

Surprisingly enough, it seems that a few others have realized the potential for a match here. There has been a small but noticeable movement promoting the rise of black female-asian male pairings.

Here is a tumblr devoted to it, plus a couple of articles that promote the subject as well.

Africa has become an intriguing area for these relationships as well. There have been quite a few Chinese migrant workers settling on the continent in the past decade (some say potentially up to 1 million), and a lot of them are taking African wives. This fits nicely with local demographics, since women outnumber men in much of sub-saharan Africa.

I'm quite ecstatic about this, and I am happy to see more potential inter-cultural marriages in the future. I personally hope to see this pairing become much more common both here and abroad in coming decades, and I think it is very likely it will.

Good news indeed. They'll be making kids, mostly female, and it is known that Mixed-race women tend to have the nicest bodies.
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