Post: #1

Hey guys. I have been hooking up with this girl but I find her friend a lot more attractive. I have been talking with her over text (she initiates usually). We have been having good conversations for the last two weeks and we have a good connection. She has also not told her friend that we are talking. Ive tried initiating hanging out about twice but both times she changed the subject, or seemed oblivious. She seems really interested in me but she doesn't show signs that she wants to hang out. Is this girl just a tease?

Post: #2

Probably just using you for attention. 2 Possible modes of action.

1) Make a definite plan to hangout "lets go X on day Y at time z" if she flakes out just stop talking to her. Make sure it includes alcohol.
2) Subtly mention 3somes to the main girl, maybe watch vicky christina barcelona and say something that hints you want a 3some. If she reacts well either ask if she wants one or invite her and her friend out to get drunk somewhere and go for a 3some.

Post: #3

one thing you could say as a pretext for getting her to hang at your place is: "hey i wanna talk to you about my relationship with <her name>. I need an ear. Can u come over?"

it also sounds like maybe you should end it with your gf because you're not that into her.