Post: #1

I've been on quite a roll as of late, but I'm running into a serious issue. As soon as I'm about to start tagging the chick, I go for the condom and its like kyrptonite on my shit - i go totally soft.

Anyone have any tips to get over this deal? It just baffels me. Sometimes it doesn't bother me, but its been creeping in a lot now. I just can't believe I have a smokin hot chick in my bed totally ass naked and I can't tag it. It's been happening with more than one chick too.

Has to be some tips to get over this. Just can't believe i'm not fucking these chicks with more ease.

Post: #2

I don't understand what you are seeking help with. Are you saying that you're afraid to fuck or something? You get the condom out and don't put it on?

Post: #3

yoyo, if these girls are younger well maintained university/professional types from good families OR anything close to that! then you should be fucking them the old fashioned way...but , if you wanna get better results from your condom heres how to it......1. Use a larger condom(experiment with different brands, I use Trojan Magnum Ectacsy). 2. Get some water based lubricant and "Pre-Lube" your dick BEFORE the condom goes on. 3. More lube outside of condom. 4. "Practice" this method when you are "Alone" and be sure to "Finish" the "Drill" .......Play around with that and find a style that works for you.....Advanced Techniques that i like include: Making her do all the work in putting the condom on (have her grab the condom, open it, apply the lube, put it on), Having her say things like "hurry up and fuck me big daddy", Watching Porn (my porn always matches my girl, thin blond girl = thin blond porn, thick latina girl = thick latina porn, etc. , and my favorite method to make sure that the condom never bothers me......press 'record' on my digital HD camcorder!

Post: #4

Viagra.

Post: #5

2 word solution: Okamoto Crown.

Post: #6

Are you by chance allergic to latex? Try sheep skin condoms instead, or try a different kind of condom with/without lubricant already in it. I had a problem where certain already lubricated condom brands was causing me to lose my erection after putting it on or they would irritate my skin a little bit. I just tried different ones until I found one that works pretty good for me. If that's not the problem then you need to see a psychologist. Could be gay or something.

Post: #7

unable to sustain erection after trying to put condom,or even after you have put it,is a erection syndrome..and dysfunctional...it could be pyshical or psychological...but most of the cases...its psychological because you are already getting the erection.

do you get the full erection in the morning after wake up?

Post: #8

Only put it on at the absolute height of arousal.

Otherwise i guess you gotta go raw.

Post: #9

(11-09-2009 01:48 AM)speakeasy Wrote:  2 word solution: Okamoto Crown.

Hey you stole my thunder!! haha

Post: #10

Words of caution: the only condoms that have ever broken on me were both Japanese brands... Crown being one of them.

Post: #11

(11-10-2009 07:55 PM)kerouac Wrote:  Words of caution: the only condoms that have ever broken on me were both Japanese brands... Crown being one of them.

Yes.

And their sister brand Beyond Seven are also very breakable.

Aloha!

Post: #12

(11-10-2009 07:55 PM)kerouac Wrote:  Words of caution: the only condoms that have ever broken on me were both Japanese brands... Crown being one of them.

I use crowns almost exclusively. They've never broken on me during sex and my penis is about average size. If you're doing anything else, like dry humping (eg, you slip the condom on, but there's still some resistance on her part) there's a good chance of breakage.

Post: #13

I've never had a condom of any brand break on me. I wonder what people are doing to break them.

Post: #14

The most reliable condom I have used has been Lifestyles. As the Dos Equis guy would say:
"I don't normally wear condoms, but when I do I prefer Lifestyles."

Post: #15

I've never had a condom break on me either and I only use ultra mega thin condoms. Now I've actually had one just slip all the way the fuck off though. There was too much lube on the inside of it and the chick squeezed down and on the out stroke I came out but the condom stayed in.

Post: #16

(11-10-2009 09:08 PM)basilransom Wrote:  I use crowns almost exclusively. They've never broken on me during sex and my penis is about average size. If you're doing anything else, like dry humping (eg, you slip the condom on, but there's still some resistance on her part) there's a good chance of breakage.

You might be right. I remember the Crown brand was not nearly as lubricated as Lifestyles or the other brands.

Post: #17

Trojan ultra thin lubricated. anything ultra thin.

Post: #18

I use Trojan Magnum and no matter what condom I use I end up breaking it. Not sure why, not only that I can't get off usin the rubber, mostly when I'm drunk which happens often, kinda sucks. That's somethin that I can't figure out, also when sober I got the same prob, my shit gets limp!!!

Post: #19

I used to have this same problem. It's because you're used to tagging without a jimmy. You have seen from the top of the mountain and now you're trying to go back to the valley.

I got over it because my girl at the time was changing birthcontrol and we could only fuck with condoms for a couple weeks. You just have to train your mind to it.

Post: #20

(11-08-2009 10:20 PM)yoyo Wrote:  I've been on quite a roll as of late, but I'm running into a serious issue. As soon as I'm about to start tagging the chick, I go for the condom and its like kyrptonite on my shit - i go totally soft.

Anyone have any tips to get over this deal? It just baffels me. Sometimes it doesn't bother me, but its been creeping in a lot now. I just can't believe I have a smokin hot chick in my bed totally ass naked and I can't tag it. It's been happening with more than one chick too.

Has to be some tips to get over this. Just can't believe i'm not fucking these chicks with more ease.

I believe condoms are a good thing but I have heard there is a cream you put on your member and it wards off all diseases. Just do not remeber the name. That should help your limp problem. Eidoos77.

Post: #21

(11-10-2009 11:03 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  I've never had a condom of any brand break on me. I wonder what people are doing to break them.

Neither any condom broke on me, and I use Crown Skinless a lot. Maybe some extra lube helps here?

Post: #22

I used to have the same problem, it's psychological, you feel pressure to perform and you start feeling that she will judge your performance against the hundred of cocks she's seen before!

The way I improved was
1) try to not care and not see it as a competition, see it as mutual pleasure. If she gives you a hard time and wants to see it as a competition or as a one way street where it's all about her pleasure and not yours, she's not the one for you
2) try to be relax as much as you can and take your time on your pace, dont be in a rush. it's anxiety and nervousness that block the small arteries of your penis due to adrenaline release...so relax and breath and just take your time and take control of the situation.
3) open the condom box and leave it on the side and after a lot of foreplay, put it on. (avoid ultra thin and medium size condoms, they'll put too much pressure on your dick. get the large ones for comfort)
4) I get an erection quite fast if she sucks me off, so let her do it. if she doesnt want to suck you then maybe she aint the one for you
5) if you want to be fail safe, get half or even a quarter of a pill of viagra only for the first time with a girl, it will just help you overcome this block. you can go raw dawg, but you have to weigh the risks.

Post: #23

(09-23-2010 07:44 AM)metalhaze Wrote:  5) if you want to be fail safe, get half or even a quarter of a pill of viagra only for the first time with a girl, it will just help you overcome this block. you can go raw dawg, but you have to weigh the risks.

That right there is my prob, I raw dawg when its not the smartest thing...

Post: #24

I don't encourage anyone to be doing it raw if they're playing the field. You may be poisoning the pool. Wrap it up boys, I don't want to catch your STDs by proxy.

Post: #25

(09-23-2010 07:44 AM)metalhaze Wrote:  5) if you want to be fail safe, get half or even a quarter of a pill of viagra only for the first time with a girl, it will just help you overcome this block. you can go raw dawg, but you have to weigh the risks.

Ive had the same psychological problems in the past, and it comes in waves for me. Never a problem going without a glove but sometimes finding the thing, unwrapping it, making sure it rolls the right way feels like a race against the clock!

For those who've gone down the viagra path, does it become a necessity?