Post: #1

I've been flirting with a chick in my course. She's a hot lebanese girl, a bit dumb but who cares right. She doesn't drink (personal choice) and she lives in the suburbs. I live pretty close to the city.

How would you play this?
- step 1. coffee date
- step 2. study date at my place

Not sure if it's worth my time. I don't want to date her. At the moment I just push her around a bit and eye fuck her on a daily basis while she complains that 'i'm mean to her'.

Tips? On sober girls generally.

Post: #2

Girlfriends and fuck buddies aside,

I don't remember any sexual intercourse without at least one drink in the mix.

Is that sad?

Post: #3

(05-24-2012 04:31 AM)pikachufanboy Wrote:  she complains that 'i'm mean to her'.

She likes you. You have to push/pull. Find the balance between sweet talk and teasing. Don't push her too far in either direction or you'll fuck it up.

Too much sweet talk pushes her into pedestalation territory.
Too much teasing or negging will just piss her off.

Go for an adventure date. Do a whole day thing. Hiking or white water rafting. Get her alone somewhere in the woods for lunch and go for the kiss or bang.

Invite her back to your place after for a movie or whatever.

Post: #4

(05-24-2012 11:17 AM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

(05-24-2012 04:31 AM)pikachufanboy Wrote:  she complains that 'i'm mean to her'.

She likes you. You have to push/pull. Find the balance between sweet talk and teasing. Don't push her too far in either direction or you'll fuck it up.

Too much sweet talk pushes her into pedestalation territory.
Too much teasing or negging will just piss her off.

Go for an adventure date. Do a whole day thing. Hiking or white water rafting. Get her alone somewhere in the woods for lunch and go for the kiss or bang.

Invite her back to your place after for a movie or whatever.

I second what Parlay says on this, and I would also add yoga and culinary game to the mix. The girl has to eat, and if you can feed her well or challenge her to feed you well, you have a pretty good shot. Also, most women are into yoga or want to be. If you can teach her something about it, it can create an admiration for you that will make her want to sleep with you. Outdoorsy stuff is always good too. Logistically, it's harder without alcohol, but I've been successful with it for years, and the relations are generally more satisfying.

Post: #5

As odd as this sounds, I've hooked up with a few sober girls and they are outrageously horny. Probably because they have no other release like alcohol, cigs or drugs. I really couldn't believe it, and thought the same things you did - how the hell do you have a date without drinks. Both times that I can think of on the top of my head we either cooked at her place, or picked up food, then put on a movie and went at it.

One of these was the best semi-relationship of my life. I'd go over, eat food, watch Netflix, bone, wake up in the morning and leave. No hangover, well rested and fed and sexually satisfied.

Post: #6

(05-24-2012 03:58 PM)slubu Wrote:  One of these was the best semi-relationship of my life. I'd go over, eat food, watch Netflix, bone, wake up in the morning and leave. No hangover, well rested and fed and sexually satisfied.

I envy this man. Props.

Post: #7

adventure dates are actually more fun than going out for drinks.

rock climbing, hiking, mini golf, canoeing, rafting, something like that. then catch a movie at the end of the night. a lot more fun than something as ordinary and humdrum as grabbing drinks.

Post: #8

(05-24-2012 05:13 PM)HiFlo Wrote:  adventure dates are actually more fun than going out for drinks.

rock climbing, hiking, mini golf, canoeing, rafting, something like that. then catch a movie at the end of the night. a lot more fun than something as ordinary and humdrum as grabbing drinks.

Not only are they more fun, but they build sexual tension and chemistry.

Post: #9

(05-24-2012 11:17 AM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

(05-24-2012 04:31 AM)pikachufanboy Wrote:  she complains that 'i'm mean to her'.

She likes you. You have to push/pull. Find the balance between sweet talk and teasing. Don't push her too far in either direction or you'll fuck it up.

Too much sweet talk pushes her into pedestalation territory.
Too much teasing or negging will just piss her off.

Go for an adventure date. Do a whole day thing. Hiking or white water rafting. Get her alone somewhere in the woods for lunch and go for the kiss or bang.

Invite her back to your place after for a movie or whatever.

Good advice. If you want even more plausible deniability ask her after a test or something to "celebrate"

Post: #10

cheers everyone. apparently there's a friday night special for rock climbing in the city (after 5pm). she drives so she can give me a lift home, i don't live far away.

i'll make her a smoothie.

the most plausibly deniable smoothie ever.

Post: #11

Where u meet girls who don't party like its new years all the time anyway?

Post: #12

I think the best game increases you will make will be on these girls. That being said I've never succeeded without at least some booze.
It's sort of amazing how even one or two drinks will make the whole pickup easier and both of you being dead sober will teach you a lot.

Post: #13

(05-24-2012 06:33 PM)HiFlo Wrote:  Where u meet girls who don't party like its new years all the time anyway?

Everywhere, and they're usually feeling neglected because men devote 90% of their gaming efforts toward activities that revolve around alcohol. A few examples: libraries, hiking trails, churches, art galleries, art films, sierra club hikes, sand volleyball leagues, dog parks, baseball games, yoga studios, book clubs, political campaigns, personal growth seminars, non-profit volunteerism. If you need more ideas, pick up a copy of your local entertainment rag and see what else you can come up with. Most decent sized cities have cool shit to do with plenty of women around if you're willing to look into it and be creative.

Post: #14

I usually bang girls that dont drink or smoke by inserting my penis into thier vagina

Post: #15

(05-25-2012 01:20 PM)Cr33pin Wrote:  I usually bang girls that dont drink or smoke by inserting my penis into thier vagina

i bet you don't.

Post: #16

(05-25-2012 01:20 PM)Cr33pin Wrote:  I usually bang girls that dont drink or smoke by inserting my penis into thier vagina

i bet you've never banged a girl that doesn't drink.

Post: #17

Theres also this new drug I heard from colombia or something..You blow it in the bitches face..and she's do whatever you want.

In all reality..Alcohol isnt a big factor.
You can still hit clubs and not drink.
Take her dancing..something that you can get alot of physical contact with.
If the girl is into you and you can get get to grind on your boner.
youre only a spin away from makin out with her and moving home

Post: #18

I can't remember the last time I banged a girl who didn't drink

Post: #19

Here's what I'd do, although my living situation might be different from yours.

Either a day time adventure date. Hiking, rock climbing, swimming, beach + ice cream etc. Bonus point for first kiss somewhere with a nice view. Then back to yours, movie, sex.

Or a night time campfire date. Campfires are awesome. Same post date shit as before.