Post: #1

Had sex with her December 15 in Manila and the condom broke and I kept on going, 3 weeks later I get a text saying she took the birth control test and is positive. I told her ok what do you want to do about it? we came to the conclusion that it will be aborted, she came down to the city where I was living in, took a pregnancy test in front of me and it was positive, asked for the abortionist to come and I payed for it, I came inside of the room after the procedure and there was some bloody shit on the garbage and bloody shit on the toilet (which ended up being Betadine).. she was acting weird laying down in bed and something was not right.. she did not seem sad at all.

I thought to myself.. Hmmm this girl just had a abortion and she is not sad at all? so i used some reverse psychology methods on her and she ended up telling me she did not have it and she lied to keep the baby alive. I was like great.. then this is on you and put her back on a plane to Manila the next morning.

Now months have passed and she showed me some pics of her that were iffy and did not look like her and has showed me a bunch of other pics of her baby bump and all.

This are the problems,

She would not let the abortionist check her in front of me, I had to leave the room or they will not do the procedure.

Abortionist told me she did not let her check the fetus (by putting the hand in her vagina or whatever)

She does not ask me for money, does not ask me for anything, we talked a few times got into arguments she says she does not need me.

When she does hit me up she uses words to make me feel guilty and responsible, she even said what would i get by lying and saying is yours?

she has sent some pics of a baby bump but it does not look to me like a 7 month pregnancy?

She has some foreigners in her facebook friends list which look like straight up sex tourists.

We always get into arguments when i ask her for facts after she attempts to try to make me feel sad or responsible, she says I don't need you and will not initiate a conversation with me for weeks or months.

But wait.. how can this woman not need me? she lives in manila and has no job what so ever and is supposedly pregnant by me?

When we do talk is her trying to make me feel like shit and is a instant argument 15 minutes later.

What do you guys think about this, my friend just tells me shes holding a knife and you are repeatedly walking into it.. this bitch only contacts me to make me feel like i'm going to have a baby crawling around a dumpster.

Post: #2

What do you want to happen?

I wouldn't be paying anything unless I had a dna test. If she doesn't want to start providing some proof, then walk and stop talking to her until she does.

There is no point in talking with her until then.

Post: #3

just forget about it.

Stop contacting the bitch, and push it out of your mind. Lets say she really is still pregnant (very unlikely), you still did everything in your power to make the right choice to have an abortion.

If she's got old dudes in her photos, she's fucking sex tourists and is probably a part time freelancer. Especially if they are old and grimy. Follow your intuition on that one.

Post: #4

Cut off all contact. Block her from your instant messaging and your phone.

You took responsibility in bringing her to the clinic. Take her on her word - she doesn't need you.

And I'm sure you must have noticed you don't need a woman like that in your life.

Post: #5

Yeah I tried, I just felt a bit bad about her initially due to the circumstances, don't want to add a baby roaming around in garbage in the slums of manila to my list. But this is probably the #1 hustle for this type of women, i have not sent any money all i did was pay for the Abortion she did not have which was 6,000 pesos, I did it to clean my conscience.. i figured i gave her a choice.

Now my hands are washed, i'm going to screen out her calls and blocked her from facebook so i dont keep hearing all this sad shit.

Post: #6

she has sent some pics of a baby bump but it does not look to me like a 7 month pregnancy?

She has some foreigners in her facebook friends list which look like straight up sex tourists.

she lives in manila and has no job what so ever and is supposedly pregnant by me?

Sounds like a good if icky business model to me. Sex tourist dollars in (non-existent)-child support would sure go a long way in the Third World.

Post: #7

It's shit like this that makes me paranoid about women when I'm abroad in poorer countries. There's a lot of incentive for these girls with no money and not much future to make up some bullshit or try and extort money from you or even try and get pregnant by you in order to trap / extort you. I haven't had it happen yet but I feel it's only a matter of time.

Some things you can do to avoid it is not giving them your FB. You're giving them access to all your friends / family and a means to contact them as well as you at any point. It serves no purpose them having it anyway. Also make sure if they have your email addy it doesn't contain your full name, create a new one if need be. Don't give them your full name, just let them know your first name or a nickname. If you're using online dating site then make sure not to put your proper name and email in there.

Sometimes if a girl who I think might be up to no good or a bit sketchy texts me to ask if I'm still in town I'll lie and say I've left or gone somewhere else, moved apartment etc just to throw them.

Post: #8

I don't get how these broads can even find guys that "may" have knocked them up.

Why give them your real name, contact info, etc? Planning to bring them home to mom or something?

Makes no sense to me. Burner phone, web based free email. Simple. You are anonymous and pretty much untraceable to some slut looking for a payout.

Post: #9

(07-03-2012 03:22 PM)AlphaTravel Wrote:  It's shit like this that makes me paranoid about women when I'm abroad in poorer countries. There's a lot of incentive for these girls with no money and not much future to make up some bullshit or try and extort money from you or even try and get pregnant by you in order to trap / extort you. I haven't had it happen yet but I feel it's only a matter of time.

Would you prefer to knock them up in Canada?

Post: #10

she can't legally give this baby my surname unless i sign for that right? which of course i won't.

Post: #11

Kill her allegedly.

Post: #12

(07-03-2012 08:06 PM)FilMor Wrote:  she can't legally give this baby my surname unless i sign for that right? which of course i won't.

What she names the child doesn't determine who the father is. Only a DNA test can do that. I'm not sure if the father has to sign to have a child take his surname though. All I can find is info on how to change a child's surname (permission is required from the father for that), but nothing on the naming of the child initially.

Post: #13

I never give girls (overseas) my last name, or add them to facebook. I always figured that it was a really easy way to brew up some "he raped me" and "he knocked me up" trouble. Not to mention the fact that I'm pretty cool with not making my third world banging very public (as I type this on a forum open to the general public). My family and people around my town just think that I love traveling the world to take pictures of old churches and eat foreign cuisine.

Post: #14

Quote:Would you prefer to knock them up in Canada?

What has Canada got to do with it?

Obviously I'd prefer not to knock a girl up anywhere but there's more chance of a poor girl in SE Asia pulling off a stunt like this for financial gain than from the West...probably!

Post: #15

(07-03-2012 08:06 PM)FilMor Wrote:  she can't legally give this baby my surname unless i sign for that right? which of course i won't.

Dude, this bitch doesn't have enough money in three months of income to afford a plane ticket out of her shitty island country.

I would know....a girl made these claims against me. I ain't worried bro. what is she gonna do? NOTHING.

You're fine. You literally have nothing to worry about. cut off all contact, and relax.

Post: #16

(07-04-2012 11:06 AM)AlphaTravel Wrote:  

Quote:Would you prefer to knock them up in Canada?

What has Canada got to do with it?

I think dude was referencing this thread...

Man Flees Canada, Vows 'Will Never Return'