Post: #1

In my opinion gaming happens face to face. I think it's a commonly accepted notion here that there is nothing really that a guy can do via text or phone that can measure up to a good face to face interaction. Anybody who tells you differently is probably trying to sell you a "how to get the girl through text and phone" product.

I know everyone has a different opinion on here so before we start flaming each other and protecting our own methods and egos, let's keep the conversation civil. Just because my method works for me, it doesn't mean it will work for you and so on.

I won't go into the details of what a good interaction is, since there are multiple threads on here and resources all around the internet on how to game properly.

What I want to touch on in this thread is how to bridge the gap between meetings.

Flaking is a problem that most everyone deals with. In my opinion, in between face to face meetings, less is more. Being unavailable is attractive. That is, I'll only text to set up and confirm meets, text to get her address, call right before we're supposed to meet saying I might be late, and other logistical matters.

Most guys always bombard girls with texts and phone calls. They wait for her contact and get good emotions out of it while she is on the other end probably taking it for granted. When you limit your texts and calls, the script is flipped and she is wondering why you're not doing what 99 percent of other guys are doing. She'll be waiting for you to make contact and will be more eager to meet up.

Any differing opinions and knowledge would be appreciated.

Post: #2

date other girls

Post: #3

(07-31-2012 11:35 AM)Giovonny Wrote:  date other girls

True
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Post: #4

(07-31-2012 11:35 AM)Giovonny Wrote:  date other girls

true.

it sounds silly at first cause you might think how dating other girls would help me to get this one... but there's a bigger picture to it.

the more you care about this one little girl the more you're likely to mess it up. it's kind of fucked up but essentially that's how it works. on one hand no girl wants to know she's lucky number 32 hahhaha, however she responds much much better to a guy who's had 31 girls before her that year (abundance). simply cause by dating and fucking around it's easy to be normal cool and chill with this another girl on date/phone/one on one.

so you probably knows how this translates. when you have other girls to hook up with you just contact her whenever YOU want without thinking too much about it. you give less of a fuck than her. when she can't meet up for whatever reason you just say bye and game other girl you know. meanwhile you hook up with others she will eventually come out. and if she doesn't then i don't think you could get some with some shtick or by sending her cute little text messages as others do.

that's how you flip the script. by caring less and working volume that she doesn't have.

Post: #5

I always have a "team" in place. Whatever city you are based in, if you don't have a set of f-buddies then something is wrong. As stated before, you won't get hung up on meeting up with the one you are trying to pursue. I hate being flaked on and sometimes try to analyze why. Does it matter why you are flaked on? Do you really know what's going thru that birds head? Just because you might have wine and dine her, does that mean she should value your time? Fuck no.

You have a good team of five that handles all your needs then the others you try to put on are just +'s.

When I was in Bville going to school full-time, I had a girl who was a nurse and had her own shit. She had her own place, could pay for her own food, 30 something so she loved the dick, good convo, and wasnt looking for anything serious.
Had a girl who was down to fuck after every class. Nothing more nothing less.
Had a girl who I worked out with. I lived across the street from the uni gym. Sex after a workout is the shit.
Had a girl who was just young and dumb, didnt have shit to her name so she valued the time spent with me. Valued the late night tacos.
Had a study buddy.

Point is when I went out or ran game on campus, if they jumped on cool. If I got rejected cool. If they were interested but werent giving the pussy up, thats cool too. I waited my time till they came around. Invited them to a bar, some tacos, or over for some home cooking. If they flaked they flaked. I had 5 on stand-by to give me what I needed.

Im 26 so in 03 when phones just started getting big. I had one senior year of HS. I was rocking the sidekick in 04 (sidekick was DHV haha. they loved the flip action and quick texting). Corpus was slow to jump on the Iphone but now everybody has a smart phone. When I get back I can just imagine the phone epidemic smh. I plan on using a phone for logistics only when I get back. No text message game for me.

Thing is Mexico is just getting on the smartphones. So I may have to get back on the text message game because its so fresh and new out there haha.

Post: #6

(07-31-2012 01:53 PM)XXL Wrote:  

(07-31-2012 11:35 AM)Giovonny Wrote:  date other girls

true.

it sounds silly at first cause you might think how dating other girls would help me to get this one... but there's a bigger picture to it.

the more you care about this one little girl the more you're likely to mess it up. it's kind of fucked up but essentially that's how it works. on one hand no girl wants to know she's lucky number 32 hahhaha, however she responds much much better to a guy who's had 31 girls before her that year (abundance). simply cause by dating and fucking around it's easy to be normal cool and chill with this another girl on date/phone/one on one.

so you probably knows how this translates. when you have other girls to hook up with you just contact her whenever YOU want without thinking too much about it. you give less of a fuck than her. when she can't meet up for whatever reason you just say bye and game other girl you know. meanwhile you hook up with others she will eventually come out. and if she doesn't then i don't think you could get some with some shtick or by sending her cute little text messages as others do.

that's how you flip the script. by caring less and working volume that she doesn't have.

This is exactly how it is.

When you have several girls, you no longer have to act as if you are aloof and unavailable, you actually are aloof and unavailable.

This type of man is very attractive to women because they know he is desired by lots of other women, and women most want to fuck guys that other women want to fuck

Post: #7

It doesn't have to be a grip of chicks you're hanging out with. It could even be one girl. You just have to have things going on more important than her.