Post: #1

I notice this girl at my dance class.
We switch partners throughout the 1 hour class and i get to dance with her a few times.
I pickup this vibe from her and i plan to hit on her once the class finishes and the party starts right after.

The class is over and consequently the lights are turned to disco lights pointing out that the party has started.
I ask her to dance and we dance this very emotional sexual dance, I know this is not a regular dance since i have experience for over 1 year and a half of dancing with girls this way.
the song ends, she takes my hand as if im her boyfriend kind of thing and walks me to her purse, she then says that she wants to have a shot at the bar so we walk there.
while waiting there the dj put this really good song so i talk her to dance it, she agrees and we leave the bar before getting our drink. so we dance, but the dance wasn't that good since it was a type of music that i'm not too familiar with.

we walk to the room where we danced, and along the way some other chick comes and says hello to me (kiss hug) and during this 10 seconds interaction i lose the chick.
Im thinking to myself, ok im gonna let her dance with a few other guys and then come strong.

so im letting her dance with other guys (its a social dance club).
I then make eye contact and tell her through body language to come seat next to me.
she comes and i tell her that she owes me a dance. we talk for a little bit before dancing.
we dance and this time i escalate even further, while i put my hand on her waist she puts her hand on my neck which is something people dont do in this kind of dance.

basically after the songs finishes she needs to go with a collective ride she took with other people from her town. I tell her to give me her number before she leaves and shes saying she is seeing someone.
In order to leave the door open for future interaction, i continue to be playful with her.


this is basically the story. it started great and i think the second dance wasnt a good idea of mine since i wasnt familiar with the kind of dance and it kind of ruined a little bit of the early magic.
Im not sure if the fact that she is going out with someone is real or not.

Since we study at the same university and attend the same dance club ill probably see her in the near future.

So basically my question is what did i do wrong here? and how should i react the next time i see her?

Post: #2

doesnt really seem like you did anything wrong. a lot of times, things just dont happen the way you want them to happen, & it seems like u did the best u could in this situation.

next time, pretend it didnt happen, meaning there was nothing sexual or whatever. be friendly at first, then escalate and ramp up her emotions as the night progresses, and then go for an aggressive kill.

chances are if she's a pretty girl she's gonna forget all about the sexy emotions she experienced last night between then and the next time you see her. You, however, are probably going to keep revisiting them in your head, and this is how one-itis develops, and how you always fuck it up the next time you see a girl.

Post: #3

tip for the next dance partner. look for dilated pupils/puppy eyes as a sign of interest.