Post: #1

This will no doubt stir up some controversial viewpoints...

I've noticed a lot of guys on here seem slightly obsessed with going to foreign countries and banging as many women as possible. Very few are interested in locking down one of these girls for the long-term.

Don't get me wrong, this includes me. I'm as hungry for lots of pussy and variety as the next guy. And in big cities like Bangkok or Chiang Mai, there's never a shortage of cute girls or stunners to distract you from a relationship. When the women around you are actually thin and fit - not to mention exotic to us - the hunger simply never diminishes.

But seeing as how a major theme of this forum is that women in America are ruined, that lack of gender roles have destroyed our culture, and that foreign women are better in every way possible, it doesn't make a lot of sense that we would take an American approach when dealing with them.

Essentially, a lot of are going over there and leveraging our higher incomes and novelty factor to do what we could do right here in America where it's fully accepted (and often more than welcomed) - which is hit and quit.

By bringing this behavior abroad and running through all these foreign girls in a pussy frenzy, aren't we kind of ruining women that embrace feminine roles? And seeing as how relationships with these women can often be fine-tuned to include you keeping a mia-noi or gik, as they say in Thailand, on the side, what is the point?

I've seen Western men who've locked good women down and done very well for themselves, and it does seem to work (as long as the man has a good head on his shoulders and maintains frame-control, which so many Western men struggle to do).

I'm not claiming to be a complete purist, nor am I sold on doing this myself, I'm just curious about how other men rationalize this to themselves and what your opinions are.

Is there an end-game to the foreign pussy parade?

And do we have a right to whine about American women if we can't appreciate women who are more old-school for their own merits? Do we deserve any better?

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #2

(11-23-2012 09:58 PM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  This will no doubt stir up some controversial viewpoints...

I've noticed a lot of guys on here seem slightly obsessed with going to foreign countries and banging as many women as possible. Very few are interested in locking down one of these girls for the long-term.

Don't get me wrong, this includes me. I'm as hungry for lots of pussy and variety as the next guy. And in big cities like Bangkok or Chiang Mai, there's never a shortage of cute girls or stunners to distract you from a relationship. When the women around you are actually thin and fit - not to mention exotic to us - the hunger simply never diminishes.

But seeing as how a major theme of this forum is that women in America are ruined, that lack of gender roles have destroyed our culture, and that foreign women are better in every way possible, it doesn't make a lot of sense that we would take an American approach when dealing with them.

Essentially, a lot of are going over there and leveraging our higher incomes and novelty factor to do what we could do right here in America where it's fully accepted (and often more than welcomed) - which is hit and quit.

By bringing this behavior abroad and running through all these foreign girls in a pussy frenzy, aren't we kind of ruining women that embrace feminine roles? And seeing as how relationships with these women can often be fine-tuned to include you keeping a mia-noi or gik, as they say in Thailand, on the side, what is the point?

I've seen Western men who've locked good women down and done very well for themselves, and it does seem to work (as long as the man has a good head on his shoulders and maintains frame-control, which so many Western men struggle to do).

I'm not claiming to be a complete purist, nor am I sold on doing this myself, I'm just curious about how other men rationalize this to themselves and what your opinions are.

Is there an end-game to the foreign pussy parade?

And do we have a right to whine about American women if we can't appreciate women who are more old-school for their own merits? Do we deserve any better?

Trust me, in these foreign pussy paradises (i.e Colombia, Philippines) the women are getting fucked over by the local men way more than most foreigners. Most gringos are actually duped by these women. So in the end it all reaches a balance.

Post: #3

For me i'm looking for a "diamond in the dirt" women from our home nations ironically game us, so it's only natural, we seek something more accustomed to what we want and feel, I believe i'll probably marry a Latin woman one day.

Post: #4

I'm not seeing how seducing foreign girls "ruins" them. It's a victimless crime. The psychological (and sometimes physical ) scarring of getting played certainly doesn't end up feminizing their societies. Most married couples where I live got that way unintentionally, and that's only because the males are young and stupid and can be threatened into submission by their families when they ignorantly impregnate. More often than not, the girls have already been on an abbreviated cock carousel.

Post: #5

I swear, y'all are so paternalistic and misogynistic that you never ever seem to think these "dumb foreign bitches" have minds of their own.

Ask any Brazilian dude about women in his country, and you're going to find out that these chicks are just as fussy, narcissistic, and emotional as the ones we have here. If you read Ovid or Don Juan, you'll find that bitches have been the same throughout time.

Talk to South East Asian dudes, Middle Eastern Dudes, Eastern Europeans dudes... They will tell you how capricious these bitches are.

Sure, we think they look better than our own lawyer cunts and feminazi's, but the very essence of a chick is still the same.

A lot of these chicks you end up fucking, probably have boyfriends.

And if you look into her history, There was probably some dude in her 8th grade class that wanted to fuck her, and she said no, cause she wanted to fuck the 9th grade football player. And she fucked that footballer, and then cheated on him with the son of the rich business owner.

The same shit Suzy did to you in high school, Mei Ling, Maria, and Priya did to their counterparts.

And even if the culture puts so called limits on sexual activity, lotta them Saudi bitches is still taking it in the ass. (just like American Catholics)

Sex is natural. It happens. It happens all the time. It happens so much that we have 7+ billion people on the planet.

So a foreign chick fucking you, fucking some local, it's all a wash.

That's the nature of women.

Why does a Lion eat the gazelle?

IT'S A FUCKING LION. That's what lions do.

No bitch is so over come by your game that she takes your dick and gives up her life for you. (she'll tell you that, but that's because bitches never like to take ownership of their actions)

"ooh big strong american with shaved pubes and nice wallet is going to save me from a life of toil"

These are choices that she makes.
Choices she might regret, but choices nonetheless.

These bitches ain't little kittens being slaughtered on the dicks of Western men.

They actively choose to get involved with you.

If she didn't want it, she'd walk away.

WIA

Post: #6

(11-24-2012 06:04 AM)chochemonger1 Wrote:  

(11-23-2012 09:58 PM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  This will no doubt stir up some controversial viewpoints...

I've noticed a lot of guys on here seem slightly obsessed with going to foreign countries and banging as many women as possible. Very few are interested in locking down one of these girls for the long-term.

Don't get me wrong, this includes me. I'm as hungry for lots of pussy and variety as the next guy. And in big cities like Bangkok or Chiang Mai, there's never a shortage of cute girls or stunners to distract you from a relationship. When the women around you are actually thin and fit - not to mention exotic to us - the hunger simply never diminishes.

But seeing as how a major theme of this forum is that women in America are ruined, that lack of gender roles have destroyed our culture, and that foreign women are better in every way possible, it doesn't make a lot of sense that we would take an American approach when dealing with them.

Essentially, a lot of are going over there and leveraging our higher incomes and novelty factor to do what we could do right here in America where it's fully accepted (and often more than welcomed) - which is hit and quit.

By bringing this behavior abroad and running through all these foreign girls in a pussy frenzy, aren't we kind of ruining women that embrace feminine roles? And seeing as how relationships with these women can often be fine-tuned to include you keeping a mia-noi or gik, as they say in Thailand, on the side, what is the point?

I've seen Western men who've locked good women down and done very well for themselves, and it does seem to work (as long as the man has a good head on his shoulders and maintains frame-control, which so many Western men struggle to do).

I'm not claiming to be a complete purist, nor am I sold on doing this myself, I'm just curious about how other men rationalize this to themselves and what your opinions are.

Is there an end-game to the foreign pussy parade?

And do we have a right to whine about American women if we can't appreciate women who are more old-school for their own merits? Do we deserve any better?

Trust me, in these foreign pussy paradises (i.e Colombia, Philippines) the women are getting fucked over by the local men way more than most foreigners. Most gringos are actually duped by these women. So in the end it all reaches a balance.

Yeah in a lot of those societies, dudes with gfs are still able to sleep around outside of the relationship if they want to not to mention single chicks are getting played by the local players anyways. It all kinda balances itself out.

Post: #7

(11-23-2012 09:58 PM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  This will no doubt stir up some controversial viewpoints...

I've noticed a lot of guys on here seem slightly obsessed with going to foreign countries and banging as many women as possible. Very few are interested in locking down one of these girls for the long-term.

Don't get me wrong, this includes me. I'm as hungry for lots of pussy and variety as the next guy. And in big cities like Bangkok or Chiang Mai, there's never a shortage of cute girls or stunners to distract you from a relationship. When the women around you are actually thin and fit - not to mention exotic to us - the hunger simply never diminishes.

But seeing as how a major theme of this forum is that women in America are ruined, that lack of gender roles have destroyed our culture, and that foreign women are better in every way possible, it doesn't make a lot of sense that we would take an American approach when dealing with them.

Essentially, a lot of are going over there and leveraging our higher incomes and novelty factor to do what we could do right here in America where it's fully accepted (and often more than welcomed) - which is hit and quit.

By bringing this behavior abroad and running through all these foreign girls in a pussy frenzy, aren't we kind of ruining women that embrace feminine roles? And seeing as how relationships with these women can often be fine-tuned to include you keeping a mia-noi or gik, as they say in Thailand, on the side, what is the point?

I've seen Western men who've locked good women down and done very well for themselves, and it does seem to work (as long as the man has a good head on his shoulders and maintains frame-control, which so many Western men struggle to do).

I'm not claiming to be a complete purist, nor am I sold on doing this myself, I'm just curious about how other men rationalize this to themselves and what your opinions are.

Is there an end-game to the foreign pussy parade?

And do we have a right to whine about American women if we can't appreciate women who are more old-school for their own merits? Do we deserve any better?

Most have no choice since if they bring to girl over here they will be up shits creek.Read what happens in the marriage forums.

Post: #8

- young
- cute
- subservient
- knows how to cook and isn't a gold digger

Older beta guys tend to go to these "poosy paradises" and they get chosen by girls who have their own agenda, since these guys have no game they happily take these scrub girls..

I, don't take these semi pro hoodrats.. I go to these places because I want the girls of my dreams, the type of girls I can't get in western society

Post: #9

Foreign women are fun, exotic and have the allure of the unknown, the novelty. To me they are not relationship material because I quickly lose sexual interest in an individual (usualy after 5 to 10 sexual encounters) and do not offer much intellectual stimulation or companionship, either because of the language barrier (could be overcome) or because their background is so radically different, there are very few experiences and viewpoints that overlap. Also, some cultures just do not foster companionship but have genders live "next to one another" in a relationship, each having its role and place which is a very technical and cold arrangement in my eyes.
Foreign women are a bit like methadone: they ease the pain of what feminism and western culture have created but they aren't a full substitute.

Post: #10

-Exotic looks
-Exotic accents
-Appreciative of other cultures/cuisines
-Appreciative of travels that count
-Sense of humor
-Pulls me into her culture
-Gives me an excuse to travel

At age 28 about to quit my job, live in Brazil while going back to grad school to pick another career afterwards, I'm not exactly looking to settle down with anyone domestically in the US or internationally as I clearly don't have that foundation of being able to provide yet. What is it more than 50% of marriages result in divorce anyways in the US now too?

But here are reasons why I don't want to settle with a 26-30 year old in my area right now:

- They insist on leading shitty quality lives while living vicariously through celebrities to ease the burden of their daily routine instead of having any sort of desire to come up with real feasible happy mediums or solutions
- While guys my age attend friend's weddings to celebrate the next movement of others & capitalize on free alcohol, females will drag their dates/boyfriends to these things also aspiring to get married for the sake of doing so in the near future instead of just enjoying the moment.
- Their idea of a vacation is the beach or out of town weddings in general
- Expensive weddings, rings, kids, and overpriced mortgage in their 20's is a sense of security to them
- With the emotions involved in weddings & living vicariously through celebrities as mentioned above, they have a tough time distinguishing between fantasy & reality giving them false expectations of what they should aspire for.

Though my current occupation isn't the long-term career path that I want, I've been lucky to have it because I've been able to travel 20-25% of the year for work while getting an additional 4-5 weeks off for vacation time per year which has resulted in me visiting 17 other countries since 2009 (entailed living below my means at times cause my salary is ok). All this traveling really exposed me to different mentalities, cultures, & perspectives on life that has helped shape my long-term outlook on living/career preferences. I also got the flexibility to enroll in intensive Portuguese/Spanish classes as well since that time, which I'm fortunate for too bc I got to learn about the travel experiences of my professors/students about totally different parts of the world including Mongolia, South Africa, etc. Though I did have some cool overseas travels while younger, 2009 was a moment where I started making these trips alone, which really forced me to step out of my comfort zone to discover more about the world surrounding me.

Though I've dated around since 09 too, compromising with most serious American gfs, fiancees, wives = pressure into spending more vacation time on weddings, ring, wedding expenses, overpriced mortgage, etc. It's funny how I read about all the nightmarish compromises people have had to make during marriages/post-marriage on this forum when I couldn't even fathom the expensive obligations of pre-marriage now at age 28. Even if I had a lucrative career path that I was already very happy with, a serious commitment to a brainwashed significant other in North Texas would've eaten away at precious years in my 20s, which is something I can never have back.

In addition to being better in the sack, that's probably why I like independent thinking divorced cougars so much more in their 30s & above because they pro-actively endorse how I've made the most out of my situation in the life I lead whereas most American girls in their 20s are merely just byproducts of their immediate social circles, as those are the types whom end up being divorced anyways....

Post: #11

Personally, I think foreign women are more feminine and interesting than American girls. I like them for their companionship more than anything, to be honest. I travel alone most of the time and it's nice to have a cute girl to do stuff with.

Post: #12

In the end... I want a a woman I find gorgeous, is in shape, has water blue eyes, adores me, cares for me, and supports me, and of course can produce and raise healthy blue-eyed good-looking Asian children.

But that's years from now, most likely in my late 30s. Right now I just want to bang pretty girls that are sweet and feminine... and I while I didn't fully realise it until recently, I did discover back in high school that I had already been finding that in the foreign-born girls. Stateside-born girls raised by FOB parents folllow in my memory...

Post: #13

(11-25-2012 10:23 PM)Fujiwara Wrote:  In the end... I want a a woman I find gorgeous, is in shape, has water blue eyes, adores me, cares for me, and supports me, and of course can produce and raise healthy blue-eyed good-looking Asian children.

But that's years from now, most likely in my late 30s. Right now I just want to bang pretty girls that are sweet and feminine... and I while I didn't fully realise it until recently, I did discover back in high school that I had already been finding that in the foreign-born girls. Stateside-born girls raised by FOB parents folllow in my memory...

If you have brown eyed babies will you get rid of them?

Post: #14

@ WIA "boys will have their toys, and girls will find some more boys"

@Asaxon- bwahaha, methadone. My god what a drug. In dental school, some patient was on this drug. Lunch break, She fell asleep sitting upright with a spoon in her hand eating jambalaya in the school cafeteria. The shrimp/sausage dripped down her hand and fell on her shirt. She stayed like that for 30 mins until somebody woke her up. Methadone is a helluva drug.

@yb13- just went to a marriage this weekend. Marriage is brutal, fat dudes w/overweight wives/GF stuffing their faces w/alcohol and food. Horrible dancing. Loud music. Parents. My version of suburban dystopian hell.

Post: #15

I'm as jaded as the next guy by the dating scene in North America and find it refreshing to date women in foreign countries although I don't feel too guilty about pumping and dumping while abroad because I'm straight up with the women I meet.

I don't lie to them to get into their pants, I flat out tell them that I"m only here temporarily and not to expect anything long term, sometimes they accept that and we continue seeing each other, sometimes not, then its on to the next one.

I went through a stage a few years back where I actively sought a long term relationship back home and it just didn't happen (for obvious reasons), hence my jaded outlook on NA women. Sometimes when I meet a girl abroad and she has all of the qualities I would have sought in potential wife, I think to myself "damn, good thing we didn't meet five years ago or I would have married this one!"

I also agree that what we're doing, for the most part, pales in comparison to the treatment these girls receive from the local men.

Post: #16

(11-25-2012 10:32 PM)murrb Wrote:  

(11-25-2012 10:23 PM)Fujiwara Wrote:  In the end... I want a a woman I find gorgeous, is in shape, has water blue eyes, adores me, cares for me, and supports me, and of course can produce and raise healthy blue-eyed good-looking Asian children.

But that's years from now, most likely in my late 30s. Right now I just want to bang pretty girls that are sweet and feminine... and I while I didn't fully realise it until recently, I did discover back in high school that I had already been finding that in the foreign-born girls. Stateside-born girls raised by FOB parents folllow in my memory...

If you have brown eyed babies will you get rid of them?

LOL I'll cross that bridge when I get there.