Post: #1

I've been training pretty hardcore for about 4 years now. Up until about a year ago I was only concerned with bulk - I had a big chest and a bit of a belly. I have since then been cutting and am in great shape with 8 pack abs etc but am a good 20lbs lighter than I was.

The thing is though is that I seemed to get more attention when I was bulked than I do know, these days unless I'm wearing something fitted then I look just like a normal bloke when I am clothed.

I feel more confident now though in myself because its great when a girl cant keep her hands off you and its almost like a nice suprise for them when you get them home.

Just wondering what you guys experiences are - do you find that bulk over definition gets you more girls?

Post: #2

Not sure if troll or not.

Thing is, if you're ripped rather than being a fat circus strongman, girls can see it in your face and forearms. It is possible that your clothes just don't fit as well now since you have lost weight.

Post: #3

(11-24-2012 06:42 AM)Hades Wrote:  Not sure if troll or not.

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Just asking peoples experiences if they've found they get more attention when they were big and bulky rather than when cut and fit looking? don't see how thats trolling.

Post: #4

(11-24-2012 06:23 AM)lush1 Wrote:  I've been training pretty hardcore for about 4 years now. Up until about a year ago I was only concerned with bulk - I had a big chest and a bit of a belly. I have since then been cutting and am in great shape with 8 pack abs etc but am a good 20lbs lighter than I was.

The thing is though is that I seemed to get more attention when I was bulked than I do know, these days unless I'm wearing something fitted then I look just like a normal bloke when I am clothed.

I feel more confident now though in myself because its great when a girl cant keep her hands off you and its almost like a nice suprise for them when you get them home.

Just wondering what you guys experiences are - do you find that bulk over definition gets you more girls?

Yeah, you just need to dress well for your new physique. You're clearly getting a good response when girls find out as you said, but you need to make it more obvious. It's cold right now, so while you're outdoors there isn't much you can do as you still need to wear a jacket, but in spring-fall you'll see better result I believe. Just make sure to get clothes that fit.

Also, what Hades said. Being lean makes your face look better.

Post: #5

(11-24-2012 08:15 AM)Newb#3 Wrote:  

(11-24-2012 06:23 AM)lush1 Wrote:  I've been training pretty hardcore for about 4 years now. Up until about a year ago I was only concerned with bulk - I had a big chest and a bit of a belly. I have since then been cutting and am in great shape with 8 pack abs etc but am a good 20lbs lighter than I was.

The thing is though is that I seemed to get more attention when I was bulked than I do know, these days unless I'm wearing something fitted then I look just like a normal bloke when I am clothed.

I feel more confident now though in myself because its great when a girl cant keep her hands off you and its almost like a nice suprise for them when you get them home.

Just wondering what you guys experiences are - do you find that bulk over definition gets you more girls?

Also, what Hades said. Being lean makes your face look better.

Definately true - one of the main reasons I started cutting was because my face was looking bloated, but as I say I seemed to get more girls eye fucking me with a massive chest and bloated face.

Post: #6

(11-24-2012 08:19 AM)lush1 Wrote:  

(11-24-2012 08:15 AM)Newb#3 Wrote:  

(11-24-2012 06:23 AM)lush1 Wrote:  I've been training pretty hardcore for about 4 years now. Up until about a year ago I was only concerned with bulk - I had a big chest and a bit of a belly. I have since then been cutting and am in great shape with 8 pack abs etc but am a good 20lbs lighter than I was.

The thing is though is that I seemed to get more attention when I was bulked than I do know, these days unless I'm wearing something fitted then I look just like a normal bloke when I am clothed.

I feel more confident now though in myself because its great when a girl cant keep her hands off you and its almost like a nice suprise for them when you get them home.

Just wondering what you guys experiences are - do you find that bulk over definition gets you more girls?

Also, what Hades said. Being lean makes your face look better.

Definately true - one of the main reasons I started cutting was because my face was looking bloated, but as I say I seemed to get more girls eye fucking me with a massive chest and bloated face.

They may have been eye-fucking you, but are they actually fucking you more? External validation via IOIs is always good, but if you feel more naturally confident being lean, that's infinitely more important. I've trimmed down 31 pounds (all fat) in the last 4 months, and I had a similar question, bulk vs lean. I've decided to go with lean, because I know I will feel more confident with nice abs and a moderately sized chest/arms vs a gut and huge chest/shoulders. Plus it's more congruent (again though, that's just me).

Post: #7

Roosh talks about his here:


https://www.youtube.com/embed/eMvNJXPi7qk?rel=0


I try and wear tight thermals in the winter and where tight t-shirts in the summer.

Anyone else have thoughts?