Post: #1

Thought experiment..

Let's say that I put you in a brand new city. For one year the rule is that you can only cold approach 5 girls a week. You can't use internet. You can't do typical club or street game where you're doing mass approaches. But you still want to plow through a large number of women. What would you do? How would you adjust your game? What type of lifestyle would you aim for where women are coming to you?

Post: #2

Get a part-time job as a barista (not as Starbucks, local owned place) or as a bouncer/bar-back.

Post: #3

Is an approach if I call them with my index finger across the room or If I nod my head up while smirking and looking at her in the eye across the distance making her come to me?

Post: #4

Roosh it depends on the city. For instance if it's a foreign city the first thing I would do is start teaching English.

If I was in the pacific northwest I'd get a job as a barista.

If all I cared about is getting pussy in L.A. I'd be a bartender. This probably doubles for NY and many other american cities.

Post: #5

Social circle game. I'd look for a niche where I could become well known and liked within that circle and meet girls through that.

Post: #6

Dress as sharply as I can, go out as often as possible (several venues per night if needed) and wait to be approached.

Post: #7

Roosh, what does it mean to cold approach though?

Is asking a girl for the time or directions out of the question?

If I had to limit my approaches to five a week, I'd get a job as a bartender where girls are asking me a lot of questions.

Or, become a stylist or photographer or modelling agent, promoter, etc.

Post: #8

I think thedude3737 is right. What you're really asking is how to generate more girl "hits" if you're not able to do it actively. The best way to do it is to be in an environment where there are lots of girls, and preferably lots of new girls. If you're moving to a foreign country, it can take a long time to develop a social circle, so we want something more fool proof that anyone can do. So I think that would be teaching English and also, if possible, I would see if I could take a class in a different university in something that appeals to girls.

What about working at a makeup counter in the mall? I wonder if there is some non-gay angle that you could use? Another thing to do would be to provide some kind of service to girls that they need. Suppose you can do their make up for a photo shoot for free? Maybe shoot the photos yourself. Enroll in beauty school? Just trying to think outside the box.

Post: #9

(11-25-2012 08:56 PM)Roosh Wrote:  Thought experiment..

Let's say that I put you in a brand new city. For one year the rule is that you can only cold approach 5 girls a week. You can't use internet. You can't do typical club or street game where you're doing mass approaches. But you still want to plow through a large number of women. What would you do? How would you adjust your game? What type of lifestyle would you aim for where women are coming to you?

I would limit my approaches to the women that we all routinely come into contact with everyday. The girl serving me my coffee, the girl coming into my work that needs help with a product, the clerk that I meet while checking out at the grocery store. I would make it a point to kill two birds with one stone and talk to as many girls that are put in my path via normal, everyday scenarios as possible, while also brushing up on my convo skills at the same time. Isn't that a big part of game in general? Learning to shoot the shit with random strangers and have it flow and not be awkward?

Post: #10

I would work at a resort as a cabana boy.

Post: #11

You could be a personal trainer, masseur, male stripper.
You could put flyers up listing your services.

Post: #12

(11-25-2012 09:36 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  Social circle game. I'd look for a niche where I could become well known and liked within that circle and meet girls through that.

I second this. This is what I thought immediately. Join an EFL group or something and start to plow through.

Post: #13

(11-25-2012 11:09 PM)kickboxer Wrote:  I would work at a resort as a cabana boy.

Someone beat you to it.

Post: #14

^^ LOL

Post: #15

(11-25-2012 08:56 PM)Roosh Wrote:  Thought experiment..

What would you do? How would you adjust your game? What type of lifestyle would you aim for where women are coming to you?

Building a social funnel in a new city?

Assuming you don't want to be the "fixture at the bar" guy, who wins chicks over on false familiarity.(i've seen him 2 times, it must be fate!!!)...

You're really going to have to work hard imo.

The ideal situation is being a bartender @ the hottest night club.
A distant Number 2 would be a barista near the university.

Most of the time, most dudes can't get those jobs. Those are typically, jobs you get cause you know someone, and you can do the work. It's a lot like dj'ing.

Inside the box
- Look for another easy to get high visibility job in a target rich area. Personal Trainer is awesome.

- Take a community college class or the foreign equivalent - access and way in to a social circle (this worked for me in DC. Got my Brazilian, Bulgarian flags, but also a 3yr ltr with a Russian ...)

- Take a regular job and befriend the locals, and horn in on their social circles.

Outside of the box

- Craig's list classified ad - Tutoring, English lessons, et cetera

- Reverse the English Teaching - have them come to you to teach you the native tongue, screen, fuck, and the finagle your way into a social circle. (rehash of some RVF'ers)

- NYC model agency gambit - You need a camera, biz cards, mobile # and email, someone nice with the Photoshop, and a credible looking website. You can tweak that to Playboy or Porn, whatever you think will work. Ad in paper, place to meet the chicks, take some shots, get their contact information, and then set up your casting couch.

Some will just like you, others you can manipulate, "If I submit too many women, my guys won't respect my judgment, I will only send 3 head shots, but you were my #4 pick..." (rehash and tweak of something else I read here)

- The Spectacle - This is a hood special, and might not work in Uzbekistan, but has worked for me in US apt complexes with single moms. You have to be seen by the kids in the apt complex doing something cool. Cool Bicycle, working on your car, shooting a bow and arrow - kid's curiosity brings in the single moms. Before you know it, she's coming to your spot for a cup of sugar... This works well, but the fall out is tremendous. (somebody back in the mASF days used this, and I found it worked quite well, too well actually)

- RVF Special aka the Jim Jones - aka the Shaza Zulu from a Different World tech - again, you need a media outlet, like a school newspaper/craig's list.

You throw a Seminar for Women about on how to Catch a Man, and how to Screen Them. Lay on thick the "compliment and cuddle", but include the edge to sub-communicate to the hot chicks. Becoming a Guru in any of the womanly arts (yoga, astrology, palm reading, anything spiritual) has always been a gold mine for poon hounds.

- Church Game - There are a lot of sinners in Church, it's pretty easy to penetrate and do your screening. Question always is, 1-2 hours of Jesus talk worth 45 minutes of random poon? This works particularly well with black women and redneck chicks. Nothing wrong with catching Jesus' trickle down hoes imo.

WIA

Post: #16

(11-25-2012 08:56 PM)Roosh Wrote:  Thought experiment..

Let's say that I put you in a brand new city. For one year the rule is that you can only cold approach 5 girls a week. You can't use internet. You can't do typical club or street game where you're doing mass approaches. But you still want to plow through a large number of women. What would you do? How would you adjust your game? What type of lifestyle would you aim for where women are coming to you?

One more.

If it's a US city, go to a strip club, have a drink, watch the game, pay no attention to them sluts, but have your phone ring incessantly.

It's one of the things coke head strippers look fo/notice when trying to find a boyfriend or a score.

WIA

Post: #17

Go hardcore with the social circle. Get involved with as many as possible. Do things like volunteering, theatre troup, activism, reading groups, etc.

I'm connected to some scenes (different towns, sub-cultures, interests etc) And it is all about social circle. Thing is, you see how STUCK people are in their social circles. To them, cold approaching is almost alien. A friend told me how he approached a girl on a tram. It was a big deal to him, but she didn't remember him when she called. But this guy, he did very well through social circle. but it is a big deal for them, I remember once, at a party, he was with a "hot girl" and looked freaked out, because he didn't want to introduce me to her or lose her to me!

As mystery said on VH1 funnily enough, cold approaching is not an ideal way to meet females, being introduced at a party is. Even then, you can literally get stuck in these circles and it is in a sense, a place of scarcity. That is why people stay in relationships for so long and get married. They find someone that works well enough, and do not necessarily see anyone else in their social circles they want to be with. I know couples who stick it out for the same reason! If I look at females who are alone, they just are not good connectors, do not have a good social circle. They might be cool, but just not aware of the power of social circles.
And you know in places like eastern europe, it is all about social circle.

Just meeting the right person can lead to another who can lead you to another and then to a ever widening circles. You just need to add value. It is not like you just barge you way into these circles and plunder the babes.

Post: #18

Get a really cute dog and take it for walks in the local park every day.

That dog will become the most walked dog in the city

Post: #19

Open a pet shop.

Post: #20

I used to work at a swimming pool and I got to interact with a lot of girls since they had to talk to me. Also there was a lot of flirting between co-workers since you would be with them the most of the day. though th pay wasnt that great, It was useful socially.

Post: #21

What would you do?
I'd approach 5 HOT girls a day, befriend them and network. With time it would snowball from there.

How would you adjust your game?
I wouldn't at all. My nightclub/daytime/social circle game looks the same.

What type of lifestyle would you aim for where women are coming to you?
I wouldn't have to do anything extra. Being good friends with hotties who know other hotties is more than enough for having other hot women coming in.

Post: #22

OK, you couldn't learn how to do this well in a year, but I think the best "job" for attracting girls that isn't something ridiculous like "Rock Star" has to be street magician. Better than almost anything else by several orders of magnitude.

The thing is you could even do it in cities where you didn't know the local language since a lot could be achieved by gestures. Girls are involved, having fun and you're demonstrating that you're a master at something very demanding. Think someone like Chris Angel, but obviously without the camera's and fame - to keep it real.

Honestly, for a young man around 15/16 who imagines he wants to become a top player and daygamer, he should concentrate on this. Will likely take years to get really good.

Post: #23

Start a band and start booking shows on college campuses and local clubs. Have a strong online presence.

Or, Become a mime..



University campus by day.

Busy nightlife area at night.

Or,

Bartender.

Or,

Work at a strip club!!!

Or,

Weekly Youtube show!

All of the above?

Post: #24

Anyone looked into Braddock's "social circle mastery?" I haven't yet, but it looks very interesting and I like his writing and general style - natural, not forced.

his free 167 page ebook is worth a look too. get it from here.

http://www.lovesystems.com/team-bios/braddock