Post: #1

I just ran across a photo of one of my exes in an online newspaper and was speechless. She must have put on at least 100 pounds since I last saw her. I then googled all of my blue pill day ltrs and not one of them has held up well. I am absolutely disgusted thinking of how I might have ended up marrying and being with "that". Looks like they all hit the wall hard right at 30...
Do some of you guys have similar "dodged bullets" in your past? I am inclined to post photos but not sure if that violates forum policies as they would be off of google without the person's consent...

Post: #2

There was a chick I used to work with about 10 years ago. She was a little overweight, but had a cute face, a fun personality, and more than anything she had this kind of boisterous energy that just made her a ton of fun to be around. Everyone perked up when she was there. She had a crush on me, but there were logistics problems and it never went anywhere.

I ran into her on facebook a few years back, and she'd married, had a kid, and gained 50 pounds. Her face was wrecked. (She'd also named her kid after a Japanese video game character, despite being a well-educated white woman married to a white guy.)

I was literally depressed for a full day after I saw that. It was like somebody took a beautiful painting and just splashed a bucket of paint on it, then went at it with a knife. Like somebody took something beautiful and just wrecked it.

Post: #3

I'm a younger guy but I have no doubt I'll be witnessing the same things if not worse among my blue pill friends and acquaintances. Not only that, but some of these guys even have the nerve to gossip negatively by saying "well so and so isn't even that attractive" about another guy's LTR or EX. It baffles me how their oneitis could cause them to have such terrible standards, yet they will also come out and hypocritically attack another dude's girl. This is the male hamster at work.

Post: #4

Wonder if the wall got shattered when this one hit it...

Post: #5

I've seen it with quite a few chicks who I got LJBF'd by when I was 18-21, most of them have put on the pounds like no business, whilst me I'm looking better day by day, yes it does give me satisfaction

Post: #6

(01-18-2013 10:16 AM)bojangles Wrote:  I've seen it with quite a few chicks who I got LJBF'd by when I was 18-21, most of them have put on the pounds like no business, whilst me I'm looking better day by day, yes it does give me satisfaction

They say living well is the best revenge.

Post: #7

I've ran into two girls in the past 3 months that were some of the hottest girls I went to school with that have taken a turn for the worse. They were commenting on how different I looked, how confident I am and they were qualifying to me and saying stuff like "oh my god I didn't do my hair" "I look awful today" and all that. These girls were just friends in school who got a lot of attention and it's funny to see the tables turned in life where it now matters.

Haha. Slags.

Post: #8

Some women have faces and bodies that can withstand a few pounds. Or they'll get buxom in just the right places.

Other women crash and burn when weight hits. I've seen this too with a few of my exes. One from high school looks so frighteningly bad that I actually refused multiple invitations from her to things I wanted to do because I didn't want to be emotionally crestfallen. It's bad enough having to see the hot girl I dated in high school on Facebook now looking like a school bus driver.

Post: #9

I've only seen a few of mine in the past year, but it makes me now take rejection much more smoothly.
My ex from an LTR went from 140 at 5'3 with big tits a fantastic ass and who cooked/cleaned/etc to 170 with a gut and lazy. Dodged the bullet there.
My first lay is in the lower 300-pound range. LOL.
My old fuckbuddy who eventually pulled the LJBF routine screwed 30 guys in a year, caught the herp, and last I heard was single, fat, and depressed.
Meanwhile I'm 40 pounds lighter and much more muscular. Also infinitely more charismatic.

Post: #10

I'm friends with a few people from high school and junior high on facebook...and wtf.
A girl who i used to have a super beta crush on when i was 14 just got fat. Like there is no other way to describe her. In high school she was 5'5 125 lbs @ 18. Now she's easily 260lbs still at 5'5 but she's 31 now. Married to some loser guy who goes up north every few months. I'm fairly sure she's cheating on him. She asked me to grab a drink one night a few months back. I declined.

A bunch of years ago i was working a retail job. There was this tall ginger girl. 5'9 and very slim. Huge boobs that were very noticeable. I had a make-out with her at work but nothing else ever came from it. Then a few years ago in the summer i ran into her downtown she had put on like 30 pounds. So her tits were even bigger and she wore and extremely tight shirt. Left nothing to the imagination...several muffin tops and all.

Post: #11

I wish there was a way to search for people on Facebook bu graduating year of high school. I'm just waiting for the reunion. "Sir, this is a 25 year reunion. Are you even 25?". "I'm 45. Let me in the door"

Post: #12

It's funny going to college and see this happen to girls from freshman to senior year.

Even the ones that didn't get fat went from soaking in attention from upperclassmen and ignoring their thirsty classmates to being shunned and shoved off into the corner as seniors, cat fighting amongst themselves and "slut-shaming" the freshman girls and each other.

You'd think they would learn a valuable life lesson about where a woman's value lies and not to wait until they hit the wall, but sadly none of them did. Instead of becoming more pleasant, dressing better, and getting fit they mostly got bitter, drank more alcohol, and binged on macaroni and ice cream after rejection at the bar.

Post: #13

Back when I had Facebook, I used to see my high school classmates on there. It was pretty depressing. Most of the girls seemed to become single moms within 5 years. A few got married, and some are divorced. Being 25-26, most have started to hit the wall. I think this is exaggerated for poorer/rural girls, because they don't have the diet or the elaborate beauty regimen to counteract the effects of age.

Post: #14

A lot of girls I fucked back in school are fat now with kids. But the 2 girls I actually dated in my 20's are both still smoke shows. One is 34 and the other is 31 and they are both in great shape with big real boobs, bubble butts and no wrinkles.

I got them both in their prime time years. I would still fist them both in a heartbeat

Post: #15

(01-18-2013 09:47 AM)Asaxon Wrote:  Wonder if the wall got shattered when this one hit it...

Do you guys not see the irony in this?

Post: #16

This is a major reason why I wont ever marry somebody close to my age. If you time it right, the wife will hit the wall right when your plumbing is all leaked up anyway. And by that point the only thing I'd care about is a home cooked meal.

Post: #17

Ali, the statement or the photo, handing out food to the "hungry" just when the media come around on christmas day?

Post: #18

No, a big fat bitch feeding the hungry. Lol. I'd go outside and start a rumor in the soup line that she ate all the turkey and get a riot started.

Post: #19

Typical female behavior is what this is: she donates enough money so she can "serve" on xmas day and feel good about herself (you literally have to be a big donor to be allowed to hand out food on holidays, lots of people competing to ease their conscience). Not once does she do this during the rest of the year, it is all about the "xmas tradition of giving". She definitely has the double-handed food slinging down very well. Lots of practice...

Post: #20

(01-18-2013 11:26 PM)Asaxon Wrote:  Typical female behavior is what this is: she donates enough money so she can "serve" on xmas day and feel good about herself (you literally have to be a big donor to be allowed to hand out food on holidays, lots of people competing to ease their conscience). Not once does she do this during the rest of the year, it is all about the "xmas tradition of giving". She definitely has the double-handed food slinging down very well. Lots of practice...

Big wallet or big boned, all comers welcome to have a go!

Post: #21

Walderschmidt, good one. The guy next to her is her brother and he is at least twice her size. Scary genetics (or maybe family dinner habits)... very keen to see if she ever finds her "marriage material" chubby chaser. I need to post more to get above the status "chubby chaser" on this forum before she ever sees it...

Post: #22

(01-18-2013 09:47 AM)Asaxon Wrote:  Wonder if the wall got shattered when this one hit it...

I think I just threw up a bit in my mouth

Post: #23

(01-19-2013 10:43 AM)TheMan Wrote:  

(01-18-2013 09:47 AM)Asaxon Wrote:  Wonder if the wall got shattered when this one hit it...

I think I just threw up a bit in my mouth

I feel bad for the wall.

   

Post: #24

(01-19-2013 10:47 AM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

(01-19-2013 10:43 AM)TheMan Wrote:  

(01-18-2013 09:47 AM)Asaxon Wrote:  Wonder if the wall got shattered when this one hit it...

I think I just threw up a bit in my mouth

I feel bad for the wall.

She hit that wall harder than the Kool-Aid man.