Post: #1

I can't do it, but I know it has to be possible.

Shed some light.

WIA

Post: #2

I have pulled before without using any humor at all and without the girl laughing at all. The pulls I have had without any humor typically involved a make-out that happens fairly quickly.

Also, keep in mind that sometimes a girl will laugh and think you have a really good sense of humor when you really don't. This can happen if she is feeling very attracted to you. It's kind of like you make a statement and her brain will creatively find humor in your statement and incorrectly attribute the humor to you. If this ever happens it's a good sign that you should start escalating.

A major caveat here is that I don't pull that often although I do have an occasional SNL here and there. Many people on this forum have superior skills compared to me so I would like to hear their opinion on this matter too.

Post: #3

I've never tried to pull without humor, but I think it could be done. I use humor to soften all of the arguing I do with the girl. The arguing is to create chemistry of course.

I can only see this working when the girl is already into you just based on looks alone. In that case it's really just a matter of arranging the logistics for the night.

Post: #4

I don't think I can. Maybe not because I don't have the skill, but because humor is something already built in me. I always try to be fun in my conversations, whether this includes funny jokes, comments, remarks, body language, teasing, or etc.

Post: #5

(02-02-2013 07:16 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  I can't do it, but I know it has to be possible.

Shed some light.

WIA

Yes, of course you can. Don't try to force jokes or be the "dancing monkey" or "joker man" because you won't get laid that way. If you are one of those guys that are naturally not funny or just don't enjoy it, the worst thing you can do is force jokes, trying to be funny and being funny is completely different. Now with that said, you can still get laid without humor, there a lots of different kind of alphas, being ICE is a good example of getting laid without humor. You are non reactive to anything and you have a cold icy no love type of attitude where you don't give a fuck about the girl. Certain girls like certain guys.

Post: #6

Hmm.. my personality is quite sarcastic/douchey so that humour is natural but I dare say if you had a look that a girl just fully dug and kept some deep conversation going without any humour (Hard for me!) then sure. It's definitely possible.

Post: #7

Never tried, and probably never will. My gaming style is playful, humorous, and cocky. Trying to pick up without making girls laugh would feel very unnatural to me.

Post: #8

Very hard without humor..." If you can make a girl laugh you can make a girl do anything"... was the best piece advice given to me about women when I was younger by this 10 I was banging at the time..

Post: #9

No. I'm always laughing at girls behind my face.

Post: #10

Outside of talking or conversational game, of course. A very successful dance approach, you might barely have to talk to her at all.

Post: #11

I have, but its uncommon.

As someone up above said, its most likely in those situations when you know its on from minute 1. When you look at a girl and walk right up and kiss her, pull her hair, and assume the role of "the bad man" right from the beginning.

Exceedingly rare, but fun.

Post: #12

No, that's my bread and butter. I'm naturally sarcastic and cracking jokes unless I'm in a bad mood. Another question is what about getting girls with a girl who doesn't think you're funny or like your sense of humor? Personally, I don't even bother. They usually have a stick up their ass and just have a bitchy attitude.

Post: #13

Caveman.

Post: #14

I agree that cavemen or times when the girl is totally into you and wants to fuck quick are the two times when humor isn't needed and in fact would probably be counterproductive

Post: #15

I could, but it wouldn't be as fun(ny)

Post: #16

(02-02-2013 07:56 PM)NoBalls Wrote:  Also, keep in mind that sometimes a girl will laugh and think you have a really good sense of humor when you really don't. This can happen if she is feeling very attracted to you. It's kind of like you make a statement and her brain will creatively find humor in your statement and incorrectly attribute the humor to you. If this ever happens it's a good sign that you should start escalating.

Yep, this is straight standard IOIs. I'm not THAT funny but when a girl starts laughing at stuff I say that I know isn't even a joke... well, time to start the kino if I wasn't yet already.

Post: #17

(02-02-2013 07:56 PM)NoBalls Wrote:  Also, keep in mind that sometimes a girl will laugh and think you have a really good sense of humor when you really don't. This can happen if she is feeling very attracted to you. It's kind of like you make a statement and her brain will creatively find humor in your statement and incorrectly attribute the humor to you.

This. I've never had to worry about if I'm funny or not. besides sometimes if she's not laughing or whatever, the girl just wants to fuck, so she's really just waiting for y you to take her to you place!

Post: #18

I keep seeing the title of this thread out the corner of my eye as "Can you pull-out with out humor"