Post: #1

So i was slacking on ok cupid one day then all of a sudden boom i get messaged by a chick who just happens to be my cup of tea.

So we met up one night, our first time meeting, i had finished work looking a little scrubbed out no problem. Told her we can go to my place and watch some funny stuff. Get to my place i start setting the mood, lay on the bed turn on the movie start to lay down with each other, shes up against me pretty much... i know where this is going.. start to kiss her. eventually im inside her it was good no problem.

She came over the other day this was during day time. Get her all aroused and REALLY wet, ( told me im really good with my hands )
but i had a bit of sexual anxiety? i couldn't get it up, there was like no blood flow going to my balls or buddy boy, NOTHING. I got it up for a bit then i dont know maybe my mind was thinking too much? I did end up successfully fucking her one time within the 4 hours we chilled.. but i know my self i usually could of done her a good 2-3 more times min. I've had this ONCE before with a girl who was also kinda easy... but ive had many easy girls why just these 2 ? i hope next time i will be a champ like the first time we fucked..



heres the log just to see how it went down when we first started talking.


I definitely noticed your eyes first


haha thanks you're quite gorgeous your self!
you like edm and breaking bad on top of that? where have you been my whole life lol
nice to meet you i'm



Never met a girl who likes breaking bad?? Man you hang around the wrong sort of people hahah
My names girl, who are your favourite djs?



haha i guess so!
girl, what a pretty name.
I like shogun, a/b, porter robinson, w/w of course! i love moscow haha
armins pretty good live, tiesto, hardwell/axwell, theres a lot!
dont tell me you're going to a/b in feb?



Of course I am, wouldn't miss it!! Can't wait to hear to hear hardwell live <3 and a&b of course! Are you going?



I really want to!
But I think I may be stuck at work..
So jealous haha
You go to a lot of events?


Aw shitty! Nah not really, this ones going to be my third. I only go to ones where my favourites will play which ones have you been?



yea
i'll try my best to go haha
i've been to the big raves when i was younger.
i go to shows here and there when i got time.
i went to a/b in the summer at celeberties it was amazing
we like a lot of the same edm artist's so im sure will end up at a show together : P



Haha hopefully! Not too many guys are into edm on here. I'm going to cosmic gate the weekend after a&b, wish they weren't so close together but I don't wanna miss either of em haha


haha i see, gonna be a lot of partying for you the next couple of weeks!
would you like to exchange numbers?
mine is 243


Mine is 4453

Post: #2

Common problem.
You can turn her on, but she can't turn you on.

Chemistry to the rescue - take a pill of some sort, a pharmacological hack.

RVF Standard Solution - work out (lift heavy/full body movements/emphasizing the leg muscles especially), eat right, take supplements, avoid porn - all to return to a horny teenager state. This is the biological hack. For some guys, this is all they need. A return to a more vigorous form is more than enough. But the more sex you have with more chicks, the less "release" you get when you bed a new one. Especially if they pretty much fall into your bed in a textbook fashion.

There is also a psychological hack.

Now that you've seduced her, you (subconsciously?) want her to seduce you.

People make millions on lingerie and sex toys which basically use the eyes to seduce, or raw physical stimulation.
You want your chick to hit you in that Reptillian brain.
This is the area of sapio-sexuality, i.e. sex games, finding someone's mind sexy. (sounds corny until it works, much like game)

It may be as simple as putting your hands around her neck, and making the foreplay rough.
Or the shit could get super complicated but have a devoted internet community.

Either way, with a new lay, you have to add a new mental element.
With a chick you been fucking, you have to explore her shit - but get her to think on her own about what might turn you on. (good luck my friend, there's a reason that women didn't invent the iron or the dishwasher)

WIA

Post: #3

Looks to me like because she was so easy, your mind is starting to try and calculate just how many dicks she's had. Easy fix: STOP CARING!

This is an internet chick, she shouldn't mean shit to you. In fact, IMO online chicks should be nothing but dryspell/boredom busters. They add little value to your overall game, and are usually lower quality. Doesn't mean you shouldn't bang them from time to time, but it DOES means while you're plowing this girl, you should be setting up new prospects so you can dispose of her quickly.

Post: #4

I've had this happen to me when they just spread their legs too easily...I think to myself, "this is bullshit, what the fuck, she just opened her legs without so much as me even asking her to."

the only way I've been able to overcomb is exactly as WIA describes: 1) viagra, or 2) be extremely rough, choking, grabbing her, throwing her in different positions. This probably speaks volumes about my psychological disposition, lol.

Usually I need to do both.

Post: #5

I think this is an issue unique to you. I love a chick that doesn't play games, in that if she says yes to your invitation to come over, she's doing it because she wants to fuck. If I find her attractive, the ease with which I get the ass is not problematic for me. Maybe you should spend more time with foreplay, and just exploring this chick's body. Do that G-spot thing and try to get her to squirt...

Post: #6

I struggle with this too. I try to just imagine how good I will be feeling, rather than thinking about her. As mentioned above, she is just an internet chick...use her to please you and don't over-think it.

Btw, any natural supplements or herbs that have viagra-like effects? Maybe try something natural before jumping to a prescription med.

Post: #7

From the way you talk it seems to me you're trying to please her sexually. Personally the only way I please a girl sexually is by doing what I want, and not thinking about her. I fuck her good, the way I want it. Sometimes it's good for her, sometimes not quite, but strangely she's always satisfied regardless...

Post: #8

(02-10-2013 01:15 PM)Pappy Wrote:  From the way you talk it seems to me you're trying to please her sexually. Personally the only way I please a girl sexually is by doing what I want, and not thinking about her. I fuck her good, the way I want it. Sometimes it's good for her, sometimes not quite, but strangely she's always satisfied regardless...

This. Well said.

Fuck her like a pornstar.

Post: #9

No porn and compound exercises will do the trick.

Also like others wrote, fuck her only thinking of yourself, women love to be a servants to their men in that way and it turns them on.

Post: #10

UPDATE**

hey guys i appreciate all you're feedback.

So if you read our convo.. we ended up going to the rave and took her to my place after banged her like +5 times no problem... guess it was just that one time !

i also call her a dirty slut and bad names now cause i jumped on the dominate ladder. It seems to have helped a bit. As for disregarding, yup you're right just an internet chick... but i do have to say for an E chick she is 8.5/10 seriosuly NICE ass, body and tall like 5'8. Great thigh gap and ass. face also pretty.

Post: #11

I've been turned off by girls being too aggressive... it took me off-guard and once I started thinking I lost it. And sometimes I'm just not in the right frame of mind for some reason. Sometimes little things like clothes getting caught on something to kill the moment. Sometimes her movements are jerky and distractingly unsexy. Sometimes I start thinking too much about the mechanics of trying to please her instead of just manhandling her because I want to and I get turned off. Although sometimes stuff like this happens and it doesn't even phase me.

As others have mentioned, best bets are lifting, exercise, not masturbating, and following your sexual impulses in the moment as much as possible.

Glad to hear things worked out for you.