Post: #1

So I'm a really great catch, and she knows it, but she's not letting me bang. Worse still, she makes no effort to offer a HJ or a BJ. She even slept here last weekend. I was insulted; I'm too good for that. But she knows that despite how good of a catch I am, I'm not seeing other women. So how do I subtly let her know that I'm going to ditch her unless she bangs the next time we meet?

Matter of fact, I may not even text her again, and if I don't I would at least like her to know the reason why. (She will text.) So a second question: how can I subtly let her know that it was the lack of a bang when she slept here that did her in?

Post: #2

How many dates have you been on? What kind of upbringing did she have, what kind of game have you been running?

Why aren't you seeing any other women?

Not knowing anything I'd say this - have her see you with another girl and slowly start letting her go.

She hasn't told you why she isn't banging you - why would you feel obligated to tell her why you're letting her go? You'd be putting in more effort than she's earned.

Post: #3

You don't. Just vanish. Call her in 3 or 4 weeks. Go out one more time. If you bang then cool, if not next her for good.

Do this a few times with different girls and you'll probably notice that new girls stop pulling this kinda shit. It's an attitude thing that you can only learn by doing it.

Post: #4

Been out about 4 times over a period of a couple months.

Long story why I'm not seeing other women.

Last week she said some family situation was weighing on her. Well, at one time she also said she wasn't ready. This is a divorced woman in her early 30s BTW.

I have vanished before. Did not text her for weeks, and she was the one who restarted communication.

Post: #5

(03-01-2013 12:34 AM)storm Wrote:  How many dates have you been on? What kind of upbringing did she have, what kind of game have you been running?

Why aren't you seeing any other women?

Not knowing anything I'd say this - have her see you with another girl and slowly start letting her go.

She hasn't told you why she isn't banging you - why would you feel obligated to tell her why you're letting her go? You'd be putting in more effort than she's earned.

I forget about this part of your response. It's not that I feel obligated to let her know, it's that I want her to know the mistake she made. I would get satisfaction out of that.

Post: #6

(03-01-2013 01:27 AM)More and more Wrote:  

(03-01-2013 12:34 AM)storm Wrote:  How many dates have you been on? What kind of upbringing did she have, what kind of game have you been running?

Why aren't you seeing any other women?

Not knowing anything I'd say this - have her see you with another girl and slowly start letting her go.

She hasn't told you why she isn't banging you - why would you feel obligated to tell her why you're letting her go? You'd be putting in more effort than she's earned.

I forget about this part of your response. It's not that I feel obligated to let her know, it's that I want her to know the mistake she made. I would get satisfaction out of that.

Quote:Been out about 4 times over a period of a couple months.

Long story why I'm not seeing other women.

Last week she said some family situation was weighing on her. Well, at one time she also said she wasn't ready. This is a divorced woman in her early 30s BTW.

I have vanished before. Did not text her for weeks, and she was the one who restarted communication.

The lack of other women in your life is messing up your game. If you had three other girls, she would know that you'll ditch her if she didn't bang. You wouldn't need to tell her - your body language would do it for you.

You are, essentially, asking how to fake that. At this stage, you'd need to cut off all contact. Four months and no bangs is well past the line for anyone who is willing to ditch her. That you haven't yet tells me you're not really ready to ditch her. Are you ready? Be honest.

Post: #7

There's a passage in "Bang" about this.

I'm not going to dig it up, though.

But Roosh basically has some line like, "I notice physical intimacy is what takes my relationships to the next level" or some BS like that. It's fantastic.