Post: #1

I did a few approaches tonight and I think I noticed a fatal flaw in my approaches. I think this flaw has been the reason why I don't get laid that often despite approaching a lot.

As I approached I noticed a feeling inside me that that made me feel like I was intruding. I think this is the way I always feel the moment I'm walking up to the girl before I say anything. I kind of feel like this feeling inside me as killed countless approaches in the past.

I'm wondering if this feeling inside me makes makes women sense weakness in me. Now that I realized this I feel like I must somehow get myself to feel like I'm doing her a favor by approaching. But I think this is a subtle psychological issue that is ingrained in my head.

Anyone else deal with something similar to this? How did you overcome this?

Post: #2

Raise your self esteem and do more approaches. This is completely normal, no worries.

With time and expertise you will begin like me to believe not that you are offending social norms by intruding but would be causing her life a great tragedy by staying away.