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Sex for the sake of sex?
I've got this girl who wants to come over Saturday night that I haven't seen in a few weeks. I've hit it before, she's English and a 7. Not my ideal type but she was great in bed.

I liked the idea of it the other day but since then I've had a few doubts as to whether I should or not. I've got back to the gym today and yesterday for the first time in 4 weeks and I was chatting to a Polish girl in the gym who was switching with me for the abs machine at the end of my work out. She's more my type, I didn't grab her number because I didn't have my phone with me (I go to work out, not to pull girls) but she said she'll see me tomorrow or Thursday when she's next in.

I'll grab her number when I next see her, she's more my type and definitely hotter than the English girl. I'm also meeting an 18 year old next week that is hotter than the girl who wants to come over on Saturday. I've propositioned the 18 year old to come over this weekend but she's out of town.

So, I've got this girl coming round that I'm not really feeling anymore. Do I have sex with her for the sake of it? It's not a new notch or anything but it's guaranteed. I won't be going out on Saturday night because I'm out Friday night and money is tight at the moment, so it's an option to have her. Is it worth it? Has anyone been in the same position?

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Don't throw away a sure thing just because you are more attracted to other girls. Keep her simmering on the back burner as a backup plan in case something doesn't pan out with the other two and you find yourself horny. If it takes having sex with her again soon to make that happen, well, that's not exactly a tragic thing, is it? You could always employ a false time constraint to get her in and out of your place within a couple of hours, so it doesn't interfere with your gaming.
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RE: Sex for the sake of sex?
Seems kind of silly to ask if you should fuck a girl, especially if youve already fucked her.

Do you want to have sex? If yes then bang her if no hold off till you want to have sex.
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I originally dropped her because she hasn't got any mates that my mates can game. Either way, I'm really not arsed if she comes round or not. It honestly would just be for the sake of having sex.

I don't think it's a silly question, it's just not that important to me at the moment. I won't feel good or bad if it happens, it'll just be what it is. The only headache I will get is getting her more attached to me. Is there a point to it or not do you think?

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(03-04-2013 11:58 AM)MattC Wrote:  I originally dropped her because she hasn't got any mates that my mates can game. Either way, I'm really not arsed if she comes round or not. It honestly would just be for the sake of having sex.

I don't think it's a silly question, it's just not that important to me at the moment. I won't feel good or bad if it happens, it'll just be what it is. The only headache I will get is getting her more attached to me. Is there a point to it or not do you think?

If you've been fucking her and then out of nowhere you stop dealing with her, THEN she'll get more attached to you..

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Sex begets sex. Money begets money. Success begets success.

When you're consistently having sex with multiple girls you will get more girls.

Have her over, bang her until she can't walk and go on with life.
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(03-04-2013 10:07 AM)MattC Wrote:  I've got this girl who wants to come over Saturday night that I haven't seen in a few weeks. I've hit it before, she's English and a 7. Not my ideal type but she was great in bed.

She was great in bed, she wants to come over, you don't seem like you have anything better you want to do that is a sure thing. What else is there to know? Get laid

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(03-04-2013 11:27 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:  Seems kind of silly to ask if you should fuck a girl, especially if youve already fucked her.

Do you want to have sex? If yes then bang her if no hold off till you want to have sex.

Yeah, these threads are just getting stranger and stranger.

Are people really asking the forum whether or not they should have sex?

I mean, this is a question you should be able to answer for yourself, no?

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(03-04-2013 02:44 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  
(03-04-2013 11:27 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:  Seems kind of silly to ask if you should fuck a girl, especially if youve already fucked her.

Do you want to have sex? If yes then bang her if no hold off till you want to have sex.

Yeah, these threads are just getting stranger and stranger.

Are people really asking the forum whether or not they should have sex?

I mean, this is a question you should be able to answer for yourself, no?

These threads are getting odd. New Thread coming soon!!

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(03-04-2013 02:44 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  
(03-04-2013 11:27 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:  Seems kind of silly to ask if you should fuck a girl, especially if youve already fucked her.

Do you want to have sex? If yes then bang her if no hold off till you want to have sex.

Yeah, these threads are just getting stranger and stranger.

Are people really asking the forum whether or not they should have sex?

I mean, this is a question you should be able to answer for yourself, no?
You're right these threads are getting very strange these days. I honestly am at a loss for words half the time.

This dude doesn't know if he's going to be horny, the other isn't happy about getting laid WTF? Another thing I don't understand is the younger dudes losing stamina and wondering about testosterone.
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(03-04-2013 10:07 AM)MattC Wrote:  I've got this girl who wants to come over Saturday night that I haven't seen in a few weeks. I've hit it before, she's English and a 7. Not my ideal type but she was great in bed.

I liked the idea of it the other day but since then I've had a few doubts as to whether I should or not. I've got back to the gym today and yesterday for the first time in 4 weeks and I was chatting to a Polish girl in the gym who was switching with me for the abs machine at the end of my work out. She's more my type, I didn't grab her number because I didn't have my phone with me (I go to work out, not to pull girls) but she said she'll see me tomorrow or Thursday when she's next in.

I'll grab her number when I next see her, she's more my type and definitely hotter than the English girl. I'm also meeting an 18 year old next week that is hotter than the girl who wants to come over on Saturday. I've propositioned the 18 year old to come over this weekend but she's out of town.

So, I've got this girl coming round that I'm not really feeling anymore. Do I have sex with her for the sake of it? It's not a new notch or anything but it's guaranteed. I won't be going out on Saturday night because I'm out Friday night and money is tight at the moment, so it's an option to have her. Is it worth it? Has anyone been in the same position?

A hamster in the hand is worth two in the bush. Sounds like you're getting overconfident and raising your standards too quickly while rationalizing that you don't really need automatic sex anymore because you could just bang one of these two girls you just met.

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(03-04-2013 02:44 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  
(03-04-2013 11:27 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:  Seems kind of silly to ask if you should fuck a girl, especially if youve already fucked her.

Do you want to have sex? If yes then bang her if no hold off till you want to have sex.

Yeah, these threads are just getting stranger and stranger.

Are people really asking the forum whether or not they should have sex?

I mean, this is a question you should be able to answer for yourself, no?

I think people are getting to meta with the threads or are sub-consiously (or maybe consciously) trolling.
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The Alphas on RVF are so aloof, they don't even want sex anymore. Everyone knows it's more fun to spit game than to lay pipe, right?
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(03-04-2013 02:50 PM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  
(03-04-2013 02:44 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  
(03-04-2013 11:27 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:  Seems kind of silly to ask if you should fuck a girl, especially if youve already fucked her.

Do you want to have sex? If yes then bang her if no hold off till you want to have sex.

Yeah, these threads are just getting stranger and stranger.

Are people really asking the forum whether or not they should have sex?

I mean, this is a question you should be able to answer for yourself, no?

These threads are getting odd. New Thread coming soon!!

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A friend of mine's girlfriend had slamming tits, and he would never touch them because he thought he was still gaming her because every other guy probably goes for her tits! If you are fucking the girl, the seduction is over and you can go for the tits.

Maybe it worked a little? Even she asked him why he didn't touch her tits.
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(03-04-2013 02:53 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  You're right these threads are getting very strange these days. I honestly am at a loss for words half the time.

This dude doesn't know if he's going to be horny, the other isn't happy about getting laid WTF? Another thing I don't understand is the younger dudes losing stamina and wondering about testosterone.

Glad it's not just me since I don't have much experience here. I was hungover last night from drinking the night before. My FWB came over and I went with friends to the hot tub after a huge meal. Came back, stayed up late watching The Ring with the FWB (when I should've just gone straight to bed) so I was extra tired. Went to bed with the FWB, was warm in bed, eyes nearly closed for good, then I thought about the ass on my buddy's girl from the hot tub (she's a trainer, crazy nice ass, impossible to miss), roused the FWB for some 69 (she always comes hard this way), then held her down until I was finished.

But I got her some paper towels for her to clean herself up with afterwards AND threw them away for her afterwards.

Was this beta? Should I have slept like an Alpha?

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Haha, rinsed.

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If you cum in her face throw a towel at her face after. It's being 'nice' with a twist.

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You went out Friday, and aren't going out Saturday. A girl you've smashed before wants to come over, and doesn't have the expectation of you taking her out. It seems to me she wants to come over for some dick. You say she's good in bed, even though she doesn't really move you overall. Unless you absolutely don't want to be bothered, I'd say yeah, beat it up again. Unless she annoys you in some way, have a chill night in with her. Fuck multiple times. Let her sleep over if she wants (or you want). Fuck again in the morning.

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(03-04-2013 03:19 PM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  If you cum in her face throw a towel at her face after. It's being 'nice' with a twist.

The look they have will tell you everything. It's priceless.

They aren't worth using my deluxe Walmart brand high thread count towels on. RIP Assanova. He used to call it the shock and aww.

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(03-04-2013 03:23 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  You went out Friday, and aren't going out Saturday. A girl you've smashed before wants to come over, and doesn't have the expectation of you taking her out. It seems to me she wants to come over for some dick. You say she's good in bed, even though she doesn't really move you overall. Unless you absolutely don't want to be bothered, I'd say yeah, beat it up again. Unless she annoys you in some way, have a chill night in with her. Fuck multiple times. Let her sleep over if she wants (or you want). Fuck again in the morning.

The thing is, I'm just not overly arsed about it as I said. I've not felt this way before when presented with this situation. Just wondering if anyone else has felt like that? I can't remember who wrote the thread about it but having that rare personal time seems more appealing than having sex right now. Does anyone else not get that?

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(03-04-2013 03:19 PM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  If you cum in her face throw a towel at her face after. It's being 'nice' with a twist.

The look they have will tell you everything. It's priceless.

Haha I read that on Chateau Heartiste months ago and used it to good effect since.

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(03-04-2013 03:30 PM)MattC Wrote:  
(03-04-2013 03:23 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  You went out Friday, and aren't going out Saturday. A girl you've smashed before wants to come over, and doesn't have the expectation of you taking her out. It seems to me she wants to come over for some dick. You say she's good in bed, even though she doesn't really move you overall. Unless you absolutely don't want to be bothered, I'd say yeah, beat it up again. Unless she annoys you in some way, have a chill night in with her. Fuck multiple times. Let her sleep over if she wants (or you want). Fuck again in the morning.

The thing is, I'm just not overly arsed about it as I said. I've not felt this way before when presented with this situation. Just wondering if anyone else has felt like that? I can't remember who wrote the thread about it but having that rare personal time seems more appealing than having sex right now. Does anyone else not get that?

Jokes aside I get your point. I've been on such a roll lately I haven't spent a night alone in 6 out of the last 7 nights. My cock hurts, I'm exhausted, and I have business shit that HAS to get done this week so I'm going off the grid with my women until Wed.

Are you getting laid every night though? If you're only getting laid 1-2x a week I wouldn't turn it down.
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You're just tired of the girl, not necessarily tired of sex.

Drop her and keep moving.
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(03-04-2013 03:34 PM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  
(03-04-2013 03:30 PM)MattC Wrote:  
(03-04-2013 03:23 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  You went out Friday, and aren't going out Saturday. A girl you've smashed before wants to come over, and doesn't have the expectation of you taking her out. It seems to me she wants to come over for some dick. You say she's good in bed, even though she doesn't really move you overall. Unless you absolutely don't want to be bothered, I'd say yeah, beat it up again. Unless she annoys you in some way, have a chill night in with her. Fuck multiple times. Let her sleep over if she wants (or you want). Fuck again in the morning.

The thing is, I'm just not overly arsed about it as I said. I've not felt this way before when presented with this situation. Just wondering if anyone else has felt like that? I can't remember who wrote the thread about it but having that rare personal time seems more appealing than having sex right now. Does anyone else not get that?

Jokes aside I get your point. I've been on such a roll lately I haven't spent a night alone in 6 out of the last 7 nights. My cock hurts, I'm exhausted, and I have business shit that HAS to get done this week so I'm going off the grid with my women until Wed.

Are you getting laid every night though? If you're only getting laid 1-2x a week I wouldn't turn it down.

It's 1-2 girls a week at the moment, normally at weekends since I work late hours Monday-Thursday. So although I'm not swimming in pussy, I feel perhaps a break one week will restore a bit of hunger but I like the point about continuation, and some of the responses speak for themselves in terms of what the general consensus is.

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(03-04-2013 03:07 PM)soup Wrote:  
(03-04-2013 02:50 PM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  
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(03-04-2013 11:27 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:  Seems kind of silly to ask if you should fuck a girl, especially if youve already fucked her.

Do you want to have sex? If yes then bang her if no hold off till you want to have sex.

Yeah, these threads are just getting stranger and stranger.

Are people really asking the forum whether or not they should have sex?

I mean, this is a question you should be able to answer for yourself, no?

These threads are getting odd. New Thread coming soon!!

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Having sex is beta!

A friend of mine's girlfriend had slamming tits, and he would never touch them because he thought he was still gaming her because every other guy probably goes for her tits! If you are fucking the girl, the seduction is over and you can go for the tits.

Maybe it worked a little? Even she asked him why he didn't touch her tits.

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