Post: #1

For the record, I banged 3 girls in 4 years of College.

I even went to a big party school for a while (Suny Albany), and I worked out after class like a demon.

To this day, I still say not getting laid in College was the best thing that every happened to me. It made me SUPER motivated after College to get my shit together, and by age 30 I was blowing away my peers that got laid frequently.

I refused to settle with one girl later in life, and I noticed that most of the guys who got laid often either got married early and/or gained a lot of weight.

Did anyone on here get laid a lot in College? I feel that it got me really motivated to kick ass in my 20's, and it gave me a fear of commitment that still haunts me today.

Captain P

Post: #2

I didn't get laid much in college. I sure wish I did though.

The optimal route would have been getting laid a lot in college, then getting laid a lot post-college too.

But you can't look back, only forward.

Post: #3

I went out drinking 3x a week for 4 years of College and these were my totals:

one girlfriend bang
2 one night stands
2 bj's

By age 30 that would be a good week ; )

Post: #4

Can't say I did. I don't cry over spilled milk anyways. My game sucked (and still does), and the only thing I can do is to get better. That's it.

Post: #5

just started school, getting surprisingly little from it. Takes too much effort and too much dumbing myself down to talk to these chicks. But it's a shitty 2-year commuter school.

Post: #6

I did decently with about 20 bangs and a dozen or so BJs. Mostly 7s, some 8s, and a few 6s sprinkled in there. One yucky 5 freshman year.

I'm doing slightly worse in the States now as I did when I was in college, despite sharper game. Hell, I don't even do as well now when I visit college campuses for parties as I did back then--(lack of) social proof and vibe will do that to you.

I'm stuck on the hedonic treadmill when it comes to girls. I have no problem focusing on family, work, and working out, but in the back of my mind my id craves more girls, in quality and quantity.

By junior year I was banging more and better girls than I did freshman year, but I didn't feel any happier. I suppose unrealized hope is more elating than realized success.

What keeps me motivated now is wanting to dominate in the States as I did in Saigon, for instance, or at least as well as I did in college.

Post: #7

This is pretty much my mindset right now. It keeps the hunger and drive alive inside of you, otherwise your like a well fed house cat and get lazy cause you feel like you dont need to look good or be in shape to get laid (and many people don't) but then one day you wake up look in the mirror and you got a beer gut and realize you look like shit