Kristian
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The First Milestone In Becoming A Man:moving out of your parents home.
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| 04-04-2013 11:55 AM |
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RE: The First Milestone In Becoming A Man:moving out of your parents home.
I read this article when it was first posted, thought it was great. It really is necessary to move out in order to develop your independence.
I lived my first year of college in the dorms. It was great for the experience, although I never took advantage of logistics and not once did I pull a girl, I was still a big newbie. I screwed up some chances, and failed to capitalize on others. At one point a girl I had been flirting with all night agreed to come back to my room after a party and we walked back together, but I just changed my mind for some unknown reason and just took her number and walked her home to her dorm (which was right beside mine) when I could have just taken her to my room..
Now I am in second year and had to live at home due to financial reasons. Not a bad commute, an hour max each way, during which I can get some reading done. I finally got my license, so I am able to drive down on campus bar nights and such. I have actually developed my skillset with girls and have actually been able to pull a few times. Either to my car or to her house from the club.
It would have been amazing to have my own place away from parents, logistics would be 10x better. But at the moment getting girls to take me home by offering to drive them back so we can 'kiss and talk' has been working. Logistics are what you make them to be.
Having said that, I am planning on moving out permanently within 2-3 years or so. Will report back on logistical changes then.
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| 04-04-2013 01:14 PM |
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Kristian
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RE: The First Milestone In Becoming A Man:moving out of your parents home.
(04-04-2013 01:14 PM)Nascimento Wrote: I read this article when it was first posted, thought it was great. It really is necessary to move out in order to develop your independence.
I lived my first year of college in the dorms. It was great for the experience, although I never took advantage of logistics and not once did I pull a girl, I was still a big newbie. I screwed up some chances, and failed to capitalize on others. At one point a girl I had been flirting with all night agreed to come back to my room after a party and we walked back together, but I just changed my mind for some unknown reason and just took her number and walked her home to her dorm (which was right beside mine) when I could have just taken her to my room..
Now I am in second year and had to live at home due to financial reasons. Not a bad commute, an hour max each way, during which I can get some reading done. I finally got my license, so I am able to drive down on campus bar nights and such. I have actually developed my skillset with girls and have actually been able to pull a few times. Either to my car or to her house from the club.
It would have been amazing to have my own place away from parents, logistics would be 10x better. But at the moment getting girls to take me home by offering to drive them back so we can 'kiss and talk' has been working. Logistics are what you make them to be.
Having said that, I am planning on moving out permanently within 2-3 years or so. Will report back on logistical changes then.
2-3 years is a long time my friend
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