Post: #1

I'm now dating two girls, and things are running in parallel.

They are both equally attractive physically, they're amazing actually. They seem like quality sorts personality wise too. They're both is stable jobs and seem to have friends they care for. On the surface, one of them appears a little more dominant (Ms More Dominant lets call her).

Ms Less Dominant actually introduced me to her friends, which I found odd on a 3rd date. Ms More DOminant is more cagey and challenging.

I've gotten to a french kiss with both of them in the last two days. The kiss close on Less Dominant was really awkward due to her lack of like of kino, I did the "I like this part of the neck the best" and put my hand on it, and then did the "what does your hair smell like, oh do you use that fruity conditioner?" type thing. She dipped her head out of shyness, and I went it anyway, she dipped again, I went in again, and then something clicked, - then (as we say) it was all ON with the kissing. Ms More Dominant basically kissed me, its was extremely mutual, and she's not shy.

I feel like at the moment, they're really turning me on in different ways. One I can be dominant with in a classic way, and she expect me to make 1st moves, the other woman is there to be chased and caught, and can be a bit bitey - which is cool because I like that edge.

For all I know they are seeing other people.

At what point does them not knowing about each other become unethical?

How do I choose? Do I need to choose??

Post: #2

Choosing now would be easier then choosing later.

Post: #3

Quote:At what point does them not knowing about each other become unethical?

You're asking the wrong crowd for that.

Quote:How do I choose? Do I need to choose??

Why choose? Is your schedule so busy you can only see one? Choosing also has its pitfalls... you choose because you like one then you get a tinge more needy with her and she pulls out leaving you with nothing. Ride it out with both, and learn on the way.

Post: #4

i'm going to be riding a tiger, but I'll go with Rooshy.

Post: #5

Unless you actually felt like you had to choose.

I tell my buddies to 'kill'em all and let God sort them out.'

I've probably only met a handful of people, that I can literally count on one hand, that felt this overwhelming compulsion that someone they met is 'the one'. Two of those three got married and are still married to this day. But let's be pragmatic since we're talking about grown adults out of college looking to settle down in life. I wouldn't put much value into younger women that are still out trying to find 'themselves' as a lot of them like to put it.

Yeah, just go with it and let it sort themselves out.

Post: #6

Yeah, lets see how it goes. It'll be obvious soon enough whats working and whats not.