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not to hijack the thread but you mentioned in another thread you're in a band...what kind of music/you lead singer or musician?

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I banged an Indian girl from OKCupid last night after banging the lesbian.

Toady, I'm messaging girls on Okcupid. Maybe set up an afternoon date or nighttime thing. Or, I'll hit the bars. Hopefully not to late though because I have a long day on Sunday.

McQueen.. I'm a working guitar player and music producer. I'm a terrible singer. I also started hosting parties last year. I'm actually trying to build to your level as far as quality goes and using promotion/fame to get access those girls.

In the meantime, I'm notching up, getting more experience etc. I feel like I have issues with my game that still need to be worked out. The more I do, the more I realize just how real all this stuff is. It's like this ancient universal language. There are times where I'm talking with girls with my mouth, but we are having a very complicated interaction with our body language.

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Approached a girl at the library today with: "excuse me, can I borrow a pencil?". She didn't hear, so I tapped her on her shoulder (I was sitting next to her), repeating the question. Turned out she was foreign, so I repeated in English. She said: "no, I don't have any". I didn't push any further because it was pretty obvious she had a low interest.

Goal for next one: lengthen the interaction at the cost of possible awkward end, no quitting because she didn't respond positively yet. Better questions that can;t be answered with yes or no probably help as well.

Other errors I make: thinking I need a 'perfectly excusable' opener before I actually open a girl, I end up opening fewer girls as a result.

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(05-25-2013 09:03 AM)GreenGranted Wrote:  Approached a girl at the library today with: "excuse me, can I borrow a pencil?". She didn't hear, so I tapped her on her shoulder (I was sitting next to her), repeating the question. Turned out she was foreign, so I repeated in English. She said: "no, I don't have any". I didn't push any further because it was pretty obvious she had a low interest.

Goal for next one: lengthen the interaction at the cost of possible awkward end, no quitting because she didn't respond positively yet. Better questions that can;t be answered with yes or no probably help as well.

Other errors I make: thinking I need a 'perfectly excusable' opener before I actually open a girl, I end up opening fewer girls as a result.

Library game is hard, focus on nonverbals. I will usually be loud and get her attention, eye fuck the living shit out of her and on my way out I will go up to her and simply say "hey you're cute, lets hang out sometime." and hand her the phone. If she resists at all just say "this isn't the time or place for flirting" and smile. If you read her signals well, you should be in. Half the game is knowing when to step up and the other half is being a boss when you do.
Alternatively, I will throw a piece of paper at them with a note inside, something to open but to be playful. Be mindful of the ones actually there to study and the ones who aren't... Train your eye to notice the ones after the D- They are usually not studying, have good vantage points with a lot of 'traffic' and will look up at you when you enter the room. Magnetize them bitches.

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Picked up my new suit. Suited up, no tie, loud pocket square. Started texting all my friends. McQueen sent me an invite, but I didn't feel like going to Hollywood. I go out every weekend, and MDW in LA is amateur hour. DUI checkpoints all over the place- f that. I kept it local.

Japanese grill for drinks and light food solo. Ran into a good family friend and joined his giant table of 15. Had a great time, shooting the shit, drinking sake, and eating grub. Finished around midnight and nobody wanted to go out after. They all left to a hookah bar.

I hopped to the bar, and tried to get something going. It was rough inside. 5-6 guys to every girl. Still managed to swing a couple light chats w/a few girls. Pocket square was a big hit.

Went outside to prowl the smoking area. Ended up chatting w/these 2 blonde girls who were getting harrassed by a giant black dude. Black dude left after trying to number-close the first one, then when failing the second one. lol. They were trying to hail a cab, and I offered a ride.

Inside of the car, I asked them if they were hungry. We tried IN-N-OUT, but it was closed. I took them to a hookah bar thats open till 5AM (heyo!).

Walked in w/2 blonde girls, and I see the prior group of friends at the hookah bar. The look on some people's face was hysterical- went to the bar for 1 hour, picked up 2 young blonde girls. Priceless moment- Earlier some in the group were saying that bars suck for meeting people. Oh really? =).

Dropped them off after, and # closed the hotter one ( 22 years old). Both of them were very happy at how unexpectedly great of a night they had. We have vague plans to get sushi sometime, or perhaps go clubbing.

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Yesterday afternoon had a drink meeting with an SA girl. 21 year old Blasian with a cute as hell face, nice tits and a bit more of "dat ass" than I like, but I can deal with it. Has a Monroe piercing on each side-made me wonder if she has hidden piercings. A bit nerdy and shy, which I like. Has a web related job.

Sent her on her way, then met a schoolteacher from POF for a first date after we had a short drink meeting last week. 40ish very extroverted and funny. Very slender-I mean model like slender, extremely unusual for a woman her age. Great facial bone structure too-she must have been smoking hot when younger and is still very bangable. Took her a a music club where we sat and a couch and pretty soon she was curled up on me like a kitten. When she went to the bathroom, I checked my texts and had a text from an SA girl I haven't met yet that said " I just saw you at xxx!" Got a nice makeout with the teacher in her car -I could tell she was very close to inviting me home-I hinted indirectly but I didn't want to push it. While we were kissing she stopped, looked at me and said, "You're a little evil..... *giggle*.....I like that."

Tonight going to stay with the redhead I banged for the first time last week. She's into BDSM and wants me to bring my toys of erotic torture and she's going to break out her own too. Good times.......

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Took an ex rotation girl out last night with her friends to the strip. She had a friend for me. She ended up stickin to me the whole night and the friend was bi so she was staring at all the strippers. I talked to two waitresses. One has my number but never stepped up.

My rotation girl was talking about threesomes and getting eaten out. Turned me on. Then she commenced to get shitfaced. Its cool when girls are buzzed but going from buzzed to shitfaced is an ugly sight. If she wasnt shitfaced I might could have got a threesome popped off. O well.

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I had beers with a buddy the other day.

Hes got oneitis for this chick at his work. It sounds like she tries to hint at hanging out outside of work so one day he gave her his number and said if you're bored lets hang out. Not only that he said to me "sucks we can't go for drinks she always says how she gets hammered and does stupid stuff after two drinks"



I told him to ask for her number next time and suggest an actual day/activity ie. lets grab drinks after work thursday. I also told him to slightly start being dismissive of her, but not because she never called him, just more 'professional' at work instead of stopping what hes doing to flirt. Make it so she has to find him.


As for me, I spent all week inside, its always rainy, nothing really to do in this city.

I always catch this girl checking me out at the gym, but shes always jogging on the cardio machines. I'll have to catch her once she gets off of it one day.

I also think something is off in the order of how I work my game. I've been making the mistake of assuming the girl is attracted to me as much as I am to her (or that she wants to bang just as bad as I do), but they can tell I just want to fuck. I think I'm going to rethink the order of my approach. If I had to describe it in one word it would be 'impatient' I'm skipping steps because I can't be bothered to put in the effort to properly game them. If the trend keeps going I'll be apocalypse opening every girl "hey, you wanna bang" "no" "kcya"

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I posted this in the lounge, but I think this is a better place for it:

I went out last night and had the greatest night I've had in a couple months. Don't even know how many girls I approached, I'd estimate between 30-50. Most of them were positive approaches, with a couple being noticeably negative and a small handful being extremely positive (kiss closes, huge attraction displays etc).

When a girl says 'I can't/shouldn't I have a bf' which we hear too well, a lot of the time it is fake. But what if it's after being really direct, and having her go along with it? For instance, I've had a few instances the past couple nights out where I will pull a girl in, bring her close, talk to her ear while pulling her neck towards me and having her come even closer. I might spin her or pick her up and spin her in the air and she gets all excited and tells me she can't because of bf. Or she'll say she has to find her friends and I grab her and pull her in for a kiss and she says bf again, but some times if I'm a little aggressive with this she'll kiss me and then run away.

In the past as soon as I was told bf it killed my momentum entirely. Nowadays I just ignore and escalate. Wondering if this is a sign my game is improving, and these girls do in fact have boyfriends. What do you guys think?

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Just watched the CL final and a girl asked me if I want to go out.
She is a 6 at best but an easy bang.
Not sure if I should, I feel tired

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I asked her what she wanted to do. Her response: "Lets make out and have fun "
K, see you in a bit guys

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Well I just met up with the girl from the previous post.

After some discussion via text I got her to walk to the spot where I wanted to meet her. I said I'd walk half and she the other half when in fact I just walked 10 meters out of my door.

She looked better than I had remembered, a 6 but nothing special. I walked up to her and she said hi. I didn't respond and just grabbed her by the neck and kissed her, so we made out for a minute while I fondled her tits right on the street.
Without saying anything I grabbed her hand and led her to the nearest park. She was talking a lot while we were walking and I mostly didn't respond to her questions and just kept on walking, occasionally negging her.

When we got to the park, I pushed her down on the grass, got on top of her and started making out. She was a bit resistant but I physically dominated her, which she seemed to like. I undressed her and started playing with her tits. Suddenly she got up and got dressed again. I didn't even bother to get up and just sat there. Then she told me to come with her into town again because she didn't want to have sex in a park. I got up and just pushed her on the grass again, this time she didn't resist. A few seconds later I had my hand down her pants and started fingering her. She had a weird vagina. Really big lips, it took me almost 10 seconds to get my fingers in. And it smelled weird.
You know that smell girls have when they haven't showered for a day? That mixture between pussy juice and sweat? It really turned me off, I couldn't get hard and in that moment I knew I couldn't bang her. It's the fourth time this year my dick has let me down, I seriously need to stop masturbating. I kept on fingering her while she begged me to fuck her. I just choked her and fingerbanged her harder. A bit later she came and afterwards got dressed again.

I told her to suck my dick but she said she didn't like blowjobs. I tried pushing her to do it but she wouldn't, so I said I'd go home now. She begged me to stay. I said only if she sucked my dick. She agreed but in the last minute she refused. After a 10 minute long hassle in which I was being as alpha and aloof as I could, she came running back all the time which made me smile.
Ultimately though, she didn't suck it so I said "Ok, I'll go home now" and walked away. The look on her face...She looked like I just fingerbanged her cat.

5 Minutes later I got a text: "I hate you"
Oh well, guess it is Pink Floyd and a nice J for me tonight then

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(05-25-2013 07:23 PM)little wing Wrote:  You know that smell girls have when they haven't showered for a day? That mixture between pussy juice and sweat? It really turned me off, I couldn't get hard and in that moment I knew I couldn't bang her. It's the fourth time this year my dick has let me down, I seriously need to stop masturbating.

how old are you? how often do you rub one out? did you rub one out before the date?

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I'm 17 and probably every other day or so. No but I rubbed one out in the morning.

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^^^To be 17yo again and have access to this forum...nice.

Watch out for the smelly vagina girls.
A. It's gross
B. It's generally a sign of an STD.
C. If you do insist on fucking her, wrap it up.

Go into the world and lay away young grasshopper.

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(05-25-2013 01:24 PM)TexasMade Wrote:  Took an ex rotation girl out last night with her friends to the strip. She had a friend for me. She ended up stickin to me the whole night and the friend was bi so she was staring at all the strippers. I talked to two waitresses. One has my number but never stepped up.

My rotation girl was talking about threesomes and getting eaten out. Turned me on. Then she commenced to get shitfaced. Its cool when girls are buzzed but going from buzzed to shitfaced is an ugly sight. If she wasnt shitfaced I might could have got a threesome popped off. O well.

Natural order of heavy drinking for girls- 1) Mixed drinks 2) Mixed shots 3)Water 4) Champagne. There is a reason for this. Check it.

If need be, cut this chick off.

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I'm taking soups advice and striking while the iron is hot on POF, I'm going for no date, straight to bang.

Edit: She just sent me a pic of her pussy and I'm 100%sure shes a SIF.

should I bang?

Pros:
no effort
get to bust a nut
probably anal too

Cons:
15 minute drive
shes a fatty

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(05-25-2013 09:24 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:  I'm taking soups advice and striking while the iron is hot on POF, I'm going for no date, straight to bang.

Edit: She just sent me a pic of her pussy and I'm 100%sure shes a SIF.

should I bang?

Pros:
no effort
get to bust a nut
probably anal too

Cons:
15 minute drive
shes a fatty

What does your dick say?

There's the the 1-10 rating system that applies to society, and there is the much more simple rating system for these kinds of moments that is kind of like the boner test..

Here's the equation: What are your immediate options (an option has to pass the boner test)? If it's binary, like your situation, I'd say go fuck that girl.

For example, what we'd normally consider a 5 can up her value in this system by making herself more available, and actually beat the 8 girl to your dick.

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Closing in on a nurse. She works operations.

Helped a girl move into my apartment complex the other day. I was taking out the trash and saw her and her parents trying to move shit into her apartment. I offered my services. Afterwards, she said to come by sometime.

Also, met another girl yesterday at my apartment complex. She was walking her puppy. Those are the easiest girls to open. She's moving out soon.

I fucked this girl for one last time last Monday. I wish I was recording because I worked in a few compliment and cuddle jokes when she said I never cuddle with her. Deleted her number and put her on the block list on my phone I'll never see her again!

Still working on the girl from iran
I might see her today.

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(05-26-2013 11:20 AM)soup Wrote:  What does your dick say?

There's the the 1-10 rating system that applies to society, and there is the much more simple rating system for these kinds of moments that is kind of like the boner test..

Here's the equation: What are your immediate options (an option has to pass the boner test)? If it's binary, like your situation, I'd say go fuck that girl.

For example, what we'd normally consider a 5 can up her value in this system by making herself more available, and actually beat the 8 girl to your dick.

I don't really have any other options, one or two lukewarm girls and a girl from out of town who wants to come visit me.

I'm 21 so everything born with a vagina passes the boner test, its more about what I'd regret later on haha.

I ended up banging, but probably wouldn't have if I had to do anything but drive to her house and bang.

I need to approach way more offline though, its a bit of a drive to get anywhere good for gaming so I"ve been relying on online. Just deleted POF/OKC profiles, lets see how this goes ahah.

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I would put this in the approach thread, but they approached us for a lighter. Met 2 girls in smoking area with my mate last night, used cocky/funny game to build attraction. Basically, one of them mentioned she went to school with Helen Flannagan (British soap actress) and expected me to be wowed, and instead I used it to tease her about how they were dressed, did their makeup etc. For Americans, she's a bit of a joke and wears too much makeup, like a lot of British girls, and dressed in a stupid overly slutty way etc. Anyway, resulted in kiss/number close with the girl I was talking to, whilst the other girl was better looking, my mate got nothing out of it.

Even if you're an avid non-smoker, at least go with friends when they smoke - for reasons mentioned here plenty of times.

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Last night I think I was too drunk and missed an obvious invitation to close...

At a bar with my friends, I pulled up a chair and sat with 3 girls, eventually inviting them to chill with my friends. It was going ok, but we were just all talking nothing sexual, no isolation. Either way, the cute girl I was interested in seemed to be digging me.

It was last call, by this time we were all drunk and getting cabs. I hadn't even kissed the girl or anything, and kinda felt like "fuck I wasted my time."

We were getting cabs and the girl I liked and her friend were going back to her place, and I was going to my place, which was nowhere near. It was the three of us, and I thought because I hadn't kissed her and her friend was crashing, there was no shot.

I say, "yeah, I'm going home to X" and they're like "You're going alllll the way there?" and I'm like "yeah". They hail a cab, and they're like "you're sure you're going there?" and my drunk ass was like "Yea of course I'm going home"...

Such an idiot, I had completely psyched myself out because after more than an hour of talking we hadn't kissed I thought the night was blown when this chick was basically casually asking me back to her place after last call... FUCK

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I like this thread.

Last night I went outside with my homeboy for a smoke, saw this chick standing on her own. Zeroed in on her, opened with "hey", talked for a bit then kissed her after about 5 mins. Then she goes back inside the bar...
I don't see her till about an hour later, and lo-and-behold she's acquired a fucking orbiter. Dude sticks to her like glue, making out with her, you can tell from her body language that she's not that interested...but what are you gonna do? Bummer

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Put my newest girl in leather cuffs last night and banged her so hard she restarted her period this morning She said I "knocked something loose" and thought it was funny. Said its only ever happened with guys with big dicks.
Have a meeting shortly with a hot blonde sorority girl type from SA

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Rocking a dope suit + dress shirt + pocket square.

Went on a date yesterday w/a family friend. Sushi+ drinks then watched MMA. She hated it and would wince at all the blood. I had a good time. No bang. Dropped her off, then went to the hookah bar near me.

Ended up sitting w/some friends who were already there. Some young-ish looking girl stared hard at me.

I said "Hi". Then asked her name. She told me "____". I then told her to stop screaming across the room, and patted the empty seat next to me. She came. 18-yr old girl, just graduated HS. We started chatting, vibing a little, she loved my pocket square. I teased her on her dorky glasses (shes hot underneath). Her friends were leaving so I # crunched. We have a vague date for later this week.

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(05-26-2013 12:45 PM)space Wrote:  I like this thread.

Last night I went outside with my homeboy for a smoke, saw this chick standing on her own. Zeroed in on her, opened with "hey", talked for a bit then kissed her after about 5 mins. Then she goes back inside the bar...
I don't see her till about an hour later, and lo-and-behold she's acquired a fucking orbiter. Dude sticks to her like glue, making out with her, you can tell from her body language that she's not that interested...but what are you gonna do? Bummer

Walk up and say hi to her. Then say hi to the orbiter, then grab her hand and say "Name of girl, lets grab a quick smoke/drink"

Easypeasy.

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