Post: #1

Living downtown and having a dog, I will have about 5 instances a week (usually while walking dog) in which I'm walking and see a nice target coming my way. It's easy when they make eye contact and my dog is awesome at being cute if a girl so much as glances at him, he'll go into a puppyish crouch and for attention - bang, I'm in.

The problem is that being downtown (especially during work hours) a ton of these girls have "city bitch face" on and are just in that zone where even if Brad Pitt himself was walking they probably wouldn't break their face/mood.

I was trying to think of opening lines to disarm such "cold city bitch mode" and here is the only decent one I came up with.

(with huge grin) "You know I'm going to talk to you....(wait for response). Why are you so intense looking, do you have a huge job interview you're going to?"

variation

"Go ahead and smile - you know I'm going to talk to you...

I feel okay with just having one or two canned lines and then babbling game from there. Roosh's (at least I think it's Roosh's) previous "can I ask you a question... are you single?" (while having phone and "we should totally grab drinks sometime" line ready) is worth it's weight in gold for when you've broken past "bitch face" and need to make a move before heading on. It works at least 66% of the time. The problem is that I need to improve my rate of GETTING to that money/direct question that girls seem to eat up.


Anybody else have any solid opening lines to disarm a cynical city bitch who doesn't much look like talking/flirting?

Post: #2

If you open trying to disarm them, they will almost always see it as an insult. Open saying "Hi" and when she doesn't reply or says hi with a cold stuck-up face, just tell her " Damn girl, I bet you think you're pretty tough, but I know deep down, you're just an insecure little girls". You can be sarcastic, if she has a stone cold face, say " Girl you're so friendly, you're like the friendliest girl I met today, and you're always smiling, I love you"

Post: #3

"Hey do you know where there is a pet store? I just adopted this fella from the animal shelter."

If that doesn't change a bitch face then nothing will.

Post: #4

Telling a girl to smile is weird, dude. If you want her to smile, give her a reason to smile.

Post: #5

Don't tell them what to do. Make them feel what you want them to feel.

Post: #6

Dress better, get a better physique, smile at her. If she smiles back, its game on.

If she stares hard at you, game on.

Hell my greatest success has been walking down the street, seeing a cute girl- cute girl sees me. *** Awkward slight moment. Then I walk up and say

DVY- "Hi" Wink*
Girl- Hi
DVY- Whats your name? full smile
Girl- I am xxx
DVY- Where you headed?
Girl- blah, blah blah
DVY- cool, spin lines of BS for 10-15 seconds. Drop a bit of bait about myself. When I was traveling through Asia, yada yad ya.

Its just a human being. How do you connect w/a new dog or cat? The first 10 seconds is about the same. Dont overthink it.

Post: #7

Do fries come with that shake?

Post: #8

did you even chat up at least few of those allegedly city bitch face girls? seems like you've been mesmerized before even trying anything. oh, there you go, that's actually great thing to say.. "am i supposed to be mesmerized?" with devilish smile

Post: #9

How to disarm/engage women in public?

Use the strategy that men have been using forever..

SMILE!!!

And say -- "Hi, how are you today"