Post: #1

Have you guys ever met a girl and built up an elaborate story that is so far from the truth but ended up quite liking her but not being able to go further because the you'd have to explain yourself. For example, fake name occupation etc....

Post: #2

(06-08-2013 05:56 PM)Jsprint Wrote:  Have you guys ever met a girl and built up an elaborate story that is so far from the truth but ended up quite liking her but not being able to go further because the you'd have to explain yourself. For example, fake name occupation etc....

On my OKC profile I've lied about my age stating I'm 34 when I'm actually 41. One girl I've been seeing the last few weeks (she's 28) googled me and confronted me about my real age. I casually owned up to it and simply said "yeah, should have told you that up front" and that was pretty much the extent of the conversation. Didn't affect her being into me in the least as she left my place this morning after another night and morning of crazy sex.

Post: #3

Don't make big lies to girls. It's not game.

The age thing is no big issue. I've been telling people for just over a year that I'm 3 years older than I actually am. One girl I told I lied to her and told her my real age, she wasn't arsed.

Little white lies, okay. It's a part of life for most people.

Big lies, just don't bother.

Don't bother telling girls you're this, that and the other in an effort to seduce them. Work on your life to have exciting and true things to tell girls.

Post: #4

why are you lying?

to impress women.

already you've put them on a pedastal.

Post: #5

(06-08-2013 05:56 PM)Jsprint Wrote:  Have you guys ever met a girl and built up an elaborate story that is so far from the truth but ended up quite liking her but not being able to go further because the you'd have to explain yourself. For example, fake name occupation etc....

Hmm, lying. You mean like someone who might be a feminist pretending to be a guy on the Roosh forum and asking personal questions to get incriminating info on PUAs?

No, I'd never personally lie to that extent.

Post: #6

(06-09-2013 12:32 AM)Que enspastic Wrote:  why are you lying?

to impress women.

already you've put them on a pedastal.

Yeah, good point, but na I'd never go to crazy extents just the small ones

Post: #7

(06-09-2013 12:32 AM)Que enspastic Wrote:  why are you lying?

to impress women.

already you've put them on a pedastal.

No. The opposite is true.

Who do you value more: Someone you tell the truth to, or someone you lie to?

When I lie to someone, it's because I don't give a damn about them. I could care less what happens to them or if I hurt their feelings. Since they are expendable, I lie in order to shamelessly manipulate someone for my own ends.

It is the opposite of pedastalization.

Post: #8

I'm pretty sure I've lied about at least one big thing in all of my bangs, including girlfriends. When I tell the truth, I don't get laid.

From my job, my place of residence, my family, how many women I'm seeing, to my hobbies, or even my real name, I only tell them what they need to hear.

Post: #9

I give fake names to people all the time. I don't really tell people anything about myself unless they specifically ask, either, and depending on my mood, even that will probably come out skewed.

I actually saw one of the girls I'd banged under an alias today. She didn't notice me, though, so all was well.

For a pump and dump I don't give a fuck, if it was a girlfriend or whatever, I'd tell them it's a nickname or something. Me and my friend both gave his now girlfriend fake names when we first met her. They don't really care, as long as you're not weird about it

Post: #10

BRUTAL HONESTY - Whether they like it or not.

Post: #11

(06-08-2013 05:56 PM)Jsprint Wrote:  Have you guys ever met a girl and built up an elaborate story that is so far from the truth but ended up quite liking her but not being able to go further because the you'd have to explain yourself. For example, fake name occupation etc....

This is more about your overall world view and code.

If you want more lays, you tell a chick what she wants to hear. This goes back to your code.

If a chick wants to hear, "I love you, and I'm never going to leave you, no matter what" - do you tell her that to get your dick wet, knowing full well a week from now you're trying to get with a new chick? - this is what separates the boys from the men. Can you be cruel in order to achieve your goals? It's the sort of thing that ties men's souls into knots.

A woman though? She has the luxury of living in the moment, making long term promises on short term information, and having the prerogative to change her mind.... I say this to remind you that only you value your own code, your own word. This is an internal battle above all else.

If you can't stomach doing what is necessary, and you're compelled to do what is "right" © Athlone McClinnis- then you have to go the other way and use brutal honesty © AnAmericaninBangkok.

In that case, being super honest is a great filter. You will filter out a lot of chicks, and selectivity CAN (but doesn't always) increase your overall attractiveness. And the mechanism for this increase in Mojo is primarily internal, not like you get an external glow everytime you tell a unique snowflake she's like all the other bitches. No Becky is gonna hop on instagram and bitch about being rejected by you, moving your stock up on her social network.

But the internal buff that comes from handling your shit, getting what you want - it opens your own eyes as to what you want, and what is possible - and there may be a latent effect on the people you interact with.

Now I don't mean going out of your way to inject your "honesty" at every point. The manosphere is full of chodes doing that, and claiming red pill, when they just want a license to be rude and/or hurtful.

WIA

Post: #12

(06-10-2013 03:38 AM)Samseau Wrote:  I'm pretty sure I've lied about at least one big thing in all of my bangs, including girlfriends. When I tell the truth, I don't get laid.

From my job, my place of residence, my family, how many women I'm seeing, to my hobbies, or even my real name, I only tell them what they need to hear.

This is some serious truth. I imagine you would still get laid if you told the truth though .

There is much more potential for negative consequences if you lie to someone who lives in the same town AND knows where you live.

Post: #13

(06-08-2013 05:56 PM)Jsprint Wrote:  Have you guys ever met a girl and built up an elaborate story that is so far from the truth but ended up quite liking her but not being able to go further because the you'd have to explain yourself. For example, fake name occupation etc....

And why are you doing this in the first place? Seems like you should start focusing on building an actually interesting life first before getting some girls.