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Being with a girl with big breasts
Big meaning anything over a D. Have been on and off again with a girl with huge breasts. Went through a phase last year where this was all I wanted. Small body, very skinny legs and ass, no tummy, just a rail thin girl with giant real breasts. She loves to get dressed up in dresses and heels, she looks good when I take her out. She's got the best body of any woman I have ever been with. But EVERY guy checks her out, every where we go, even when she is not dressed up. It doesn't bug me, and I don't get jealous, but for some reason it makes me think everyone is looking and thinking she is a slut, even though she doesn't dress or act like a slut, and is a pretty successful girl. Lets say I take her as a date to a work gathering, and people being people talk shit about her/us because of the fact she has this freakishly amazing body. Would some of you steer clear of a woman like that, for the simple fact it draws so much attention? I feel like a lot of guys would, and prefer a less noticeable woman. Personally I like it, especially knowing I am going to hit it real good at the end of the night, but I am guessing there is a big percentage of guys that avoid women like this.
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RE: Being with a girl with big breasts
(08-04-2013 10:17 PM)puckman Wrote: Big meaning anything over a D. Have been on and off again with a girl with huge breasts. Went through a phase last year where this was all I wanted. Small body, very skinny legs and ass, no tummy, just a rail thin girl with giant real breasts.
Yeah I don't understand guys who like girls with small breasts or flatter chests. Girls lose some attractiveness with me if they are less than a C. This is supposed to be hardwired into our genes too.
(08-04-2013 10:17 PM)puckman Wrote: It doesn't bug me, and I don't get jealous, but for some reason it makes me think everyone is looking and thinking she is a slut, even though she doesn't dress or act like a slut, and is a pretty successful girl.
This comes across like you still have some internalized beliefs about shame and societal emphases on prestige/accomplishment. If she's dressing/acting the way you want when you're out together, don't stress. Also, assuming she isn't failing at life, don't feel like you have to date a resume either.
(08-04-2013 10:17 PM)puckman Wrote: Lets say I take her as a date to a work gathering, and people being people talk shit about her/us because of the fact she has this freakishly amazing body. Would some of you steer clear of a woman like that, for the simple fact it draws so much attention? I feel like a lot of guys would, and prefer a less noticeable woman. Personally I like it, especially knowing I am going to hit it real good at the end of the night, but I am guessing there is a big percentage of guys that avoid women like this.
I think the guys on here would steer TOWARDS a woman like that if she's as good a package as you described.
Keep in mind the "big percentage" of guys that would avoid those women, are the typical masses that wouldn't have the courage to approach, wouldn't know how to lead on a date, and would immediately have doubts as to whether they deserve, or could handle a beautiful woman.
In regards to other women, if you haven't heard this already, you'd be surprised at the number of women who gain or lose attraction to a man solely by which girls they see him with.
The same way your clothing gives clues about you, seeing a cute girl on your arm does a lot of explaining about your life and what type of man you are.
Also, just in regards for posting this in the first place, I'm sure it leads to good discussion, but you may wanna check yourself in terms of how you're feeling about her, or the last time you hit up other girls. Just to keep that confident, abundance mentality, as well as decreasing anything else that might create cortisol.
Hope this helps.
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RE: Being with a girl with big breasts
(08-05-2013 02:19 AM)Hotwheels Wrote: (08-05-2013 12:42 AM)soup Wrote: I believe that we can start a breast lounge because breasts are more than just size. There are multiple attributes to consider when evaluating breast, and while size is important, some the other qualities can make a huge difference.
I'm with Soup on this.
The unfortunate thing is my phone was destroyed over the fourth.
If not for that, you would be able to gaze upon the best natural tits ever bestowed upon a woman. She lives in Green Bay.
Serious as a heart attack here. I think I sent them to Mech....
*She also squirts fucking RIVERS...
Shoulda wifed her up. May have been worth it...
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RE: Being with a girl with big breasts
(08-05-2013 12:09 AM)LeBeau Wrote: This comes across like you still have some internalized beliefs about shame and societal emphases on prestige/accomplishment. If she's dressing/acting the way you want when you're out together, don't stress. Also, assuming she isn't failing at life, don't feel like you have to date a resume either.
let me explain a little more. here is my hunch, the typical modern american male, especially if they tend more to be of the hipster persuasion, hate being seen with a very hot sexy woman. either they think its sexist or attracts too much attention, whatever. If this were not the case, more women dress a lot better and take care of themselves more.
Personally, I love it, especially if she is taller than me in a 6 inch pair of heels. This one isnt, shes a shorty and the perfect height with heels. But as I said above, I actually enjoy it, I just happen to be in professional and social circles where NONE of the women look or dress this way. And since so many in my immediate view are with boring flat chested women, I have to believe there is a reason for that.
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RE: Being with a girl with big breasts
(08-04-2013 10:17 PM)puckman Wrote: It doesn't bug me, and I don't get jealous, but for some reason it makes me think everyone is looking and thinking she is a slut, even though she doesn't dress or act like a slut, and is a pretty successful girl. Lets say I take her as a date to a work gathering, and people being people talk shit about her/us because of the fact she has this freakishly amazing body. Would some of you steer clear of a woman like that, for the simple fact it draws so much attention?
Embrace the feeling and enjoy it even more. She is your slut, your property (metaphorically speaking), and the guys are damn jealous of you... be proud of it. They would bang the shit out of her, but you're the one doing it, and they can't get a piece... hate guaranteed. Show them how proud you are of your trophy.... They'll bitch about you/her, but secretly look at you being a rocknrolla (Guy Ritchie's movie parallel); deep inside of them there will be strong envy, and the primal feeling of them being losers as they never get poon like her.
Normal guy is afraid to have a girlfriend like this because their scarcity mentality makes them fear of losing her. They just don't have enough balls to handle this feeling. But in their minds, everyone would do her like in craziest mazohist porn scenes. We probably all had the same feeling back in beta years of our lives.
(This post was last modified: 08-05-2013 08:32 AM by MeshTryOut.)
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RE: Being with a girl with big breasts
(08-04-2013 10:17 PM)puckman Wrote: Big meaning anything over a D. Have been on and off again with a girl with huge breasts. Went through a phase last year where this was all I wanted. Small body, very skinny legs and ass, no tummy, just a rail thin girl with giant real breasts. She loves to get dressed up in dresses and heels, she looks good when I take her out. She's got the best body of any woman I have ever been with. But EVERY guy checks her out, every where we go, even when she is not dressed up. It doesn't bug me, and I don't get jealous, but for some reason it makes me think everyone is looking and thinking she is a slut,
I think its more the mismatch of situations where its a guy with a well dressed hot girl in an environment where there are none. The counter is similar to if you took some hipster tattooed skrillex girl to a back woods tractor pull. People react poorly and assume stereotypically negative things.
I have to endure this all of the time and its entertaining as I've gotten older but younger was dudes wanting to start fights all of the time. In short this is whats happening in other guys minds
"You don't look like the alpha in our social circle, you shouldn't have a girl that hot"
In girls minds they are thinking
"You don't look like the alpha in our social circle, that girl must be a hooker, slut"
They are looking at you and her and trying to rationalize why you are getting away with 'breaking the rules'
Why do the heathen rage and the people imagine a vain thing? Psalm 2:1 KJV
(This post was last modified: 08-05-2013 09:13 AM by Dr. Howard.)
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