Post: #1

I'm looking for advice on how I can transition into sexting with a girl I haven't banged

In general, I don't engage in heavy sexting or getting nude pics with girls pre-bang because there's a large risk of putting them off I think.

However, there is a situation in which I think it's beneficial- in online game in which you're meeting quickly just for the purpose of sex.

My texting/messaging game is good and my sexting game is good-I've had many girls tell me that I'm very good at getting them hot via text.

But I'm never sure exactly how to go from normal texting and light flirting into getting explicitly sexual.

Do you guys have any advice about topics to bring up or even better, specific lines to use that can help me transition smoothly into sexting?

Post: #2

(08-05-2013 01:05 PM)MrXY Wrote:  I'm looking for advice on how I can transition into sexting with a girl I haven't banged

In general, I don't engage in heavy sexting or getting nude pics with girls pre-bang because there's a large risk of putting them off I think.

However, there is a situation in which I think it's beneficial- in online game in which you're meeting quickly just for the purpose of sex.

My texting/messaging game is good and my sexting game is good-I've had many girls tell me that I'm very good at getting them hot via text.

But I'm never sure exactly how to go from normal texting and light flirting into getting explicitly sexual.

Do you guys have any advice about topics to bring up or even better, specific lines to use that can help me transition smoothly into sexting?

I'm assuming you're not going to attempt the Anthony Weiner patented "Wiener Picture" method. Can be effective, but also could result in an embarrassing internet publishing incident.

With dirty talk in general I would always suggest you work up to it with "lesser" dirty stuff. Make little comments about things you'd do that are intimate but not necessarily sexual and see how she responds. If she reciprocates then escalate the same way you would when you were actually doing it. If she balks when you start talking about her panties, back up, lighten the mood with some humor, then try again in a little while.

Even if she resists she will become desensitized to your attempts and allow you the latitude to escalate. Can take time, but in my estimation the biggest mistake in game is to rush things.

Post: #3

Basically, you gotta bring up the topic of sex using indirect means such as "Whoa! just saw this girl flashing from her office window!" or "Damn! just caught this couple going at it in the parking lot, you should've seen the look on their face!".

It should be pretty easy from there.

Post: #4

http://www.girlschase.com/content/text-message-flirting

Post: #5

(08-05-2013 06:26 PM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  http://www.girlschase.com/content/text-message-flirting

That guy's texting strategy seems way too try-hard for a girl you haven't banged yet. Stuff like this:

Quote:Better get your stuff together, five-o is coming for us and they mean business. You rob another burrito joint or something? I can't leave you alone for five minutes, troublemaker.

just doesn't pass the jumbotron test. It's exactly the kind of shit she'll show to her girlfriends so they can all have a laugh.

I've really come around to the view that the optimum pre-bang text game is to be icy, purely logistical, and use as few words as possible. While I'm far from an expert on "sexy texting," the success I have had with it has universally come after I've already gotten the initial bang. Once you've already had physical intimacy it's so much easier to switch the topic to sex.

Two that have had pretty consistently good responses for me are "8===D" (can use it out of the blue but best in response to a stupid question or shit test) and "Rape fantasy" (thanks Gmac!)

Post: #6

Innuendo. Double meanings. Make and take jokes the wrong way. Accuse her of being a pervert. As usual with women, communication must be on two levels at once. You can only really get explicit once she's really turned on.

Post: #7

(08-05-2013 09:12 PM)Menace Wrote:  Accuse her of being a pervert.

This is an excellent tactic. Works well on the more prudish, family oriented chicks. The virgin and first boyfriend types.

Post: #8

I like sending that picture text of the orange peel carved out to be a stick figure with a dick with the caption "Bet you want an orange now" or something like "Got your dose of vitamin C today?"

then if they get sexual about it you just call them a pervert like Menace said, then follow with "all you woman are only interested in one thing"

Post: #9

I usually start with innuendos and feel it out.

"What are you wearing?" Is a good one to test the waters.

Last night this new girl I haven't banged told me she was wearing volleyball spandex and a sports bra. She followed up with, "but not for long."

Once I read that I knew it was on. Started telling her a story of how me and her would go to the carnival and I would fuck her on the Ferris wheel etc.

But I do it slow and not to graphic leaving a lot for the imagination. Also get her involved and ask her questions like, "what are you doing while I'm kissing your neck?"