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How to Respond When a Girl Slaps You for Something She Doesn't Like?
3 stories;

1. Years ago, I was at an art gallery opening with my best friend, and one of his new girlfriends from Mexico. The girl we were hanging with was 19 years old, a solid 8-9, came from a good family back in Monterey, and on her way to becoming fully americanized.

So my homie went to the bathroom, and her & I have a normal conversation, albeit with a strongly sexual subtext. Nothing breaking the bro code mind you. Just saying usual arrogant stuff. Her eye contact is super direct. I don't remember my words specifically. She is giving me an intense stare. I talk more. She responds with shorter answers, with a smile. I begin to feel she is actually giving me "fuck me" eyes now. I don't say anything anymore. Just match her stare back. At this point, I think I started to smirk. Then she slapped me hard across the face. Out of nowhere. Yes, this bitch slapped me for returning strong eye contact. I stood there in shock. Then my homie came back. Never spoke of it.

2. Leaning with my back against the bar at a packed outdoor dance club in Scottsdale Arizona. A hot leggy, mediterranean looking brunette orders a drink next to me while dancing in place. I say "nice dance moves". She looks at me. Stops dancing. Stares at me for a moment. Then she grabs my wrist (which happens to be attached to a hand holding a full drink), and starts yanking my whole arm up & down. Effectively forcing my arm to "dance". She doesn't realize I'm holding the drink, and it spills all over the 2 of us.

She realizes what she's done. Looks at me in shock. I was expecting an apology next, but instead she says "[email protected]". Now she's looking at me in contempt. I look at her as if to say "you stupid cunt", but then I relax, and I say "you know what, don't worry about it. Just an accident". To this she gets more mad , yells, "you're acting like it got on you, but it's all over me!", and slaps me. I feel rage bubbling up, but before I loose it, I excuse myself and walk away to the other end of the club.

3. I'm out for a nice day stroll with a new girl I recently started dating. We're out window shopping, when the subject of college comes up. She's telling me about how hers is such a better school, and she doesn't understand what privilege has to do with it when she worked so hard to get in. I proceeded to explain how expensive private schools are these days for many families, and that community college is a great savings deal for the first 2 years. She says, "I guess. But I would never do that." I say, "well that's easy for you to say when daddy paid for it...

...slap.

PS we fucked shortly afterwards
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08-09-2013 12:59 AM
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It sounds too crazy from your version of story.

I would've slapped her back in a full force or grabbed her hair and dragged her down if I was not in U.S

I guess I am glad it never happened to me before.
08-09-2013 01:20 AM
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Respond like burt:





But seriously, I'd probably order her the worst drinks like smoker's cough or cement mixer.

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RE: How to Respond When a Girl Slaps You for Something She Doesn't Like?
Story 1 (my hypothetical response): I'd basically say "what the fuck" to the Mexican chick, pull my friend aside tell him what happened, if I was the one who drove there, I'd say "you two have fun", I'm leaving and peace out. You couldn't slap her back, because of white knights, and legal issues, plus it could ruin your friendship with your bro. On the other hand, I couldn't tolerate that kind of disrespect, and wouldn't stick around hanging out like nothing happened. If I didn't drive there, I would step out, try to call a friend, relative to get a ride or take a bus/cab if need be. After all is said and done then would regroup with my friend and brake down what happened exactly.

Story 2: That girl was a total cunt, unfortunately due to the fucked up current cultural and social norms women feel they can, and for the most part can get away with doing that kind of shit, because they know that there will be an army of white knights and cops to do their bidding. Whereas they can slap a man for no good reason and know 90% of the time the guy won't do shit. In that situation I'd for sure what to slap a bitch so hard she drops to the floor, but I'd definitely compose myself and tell her she's a stupid whore. Then as lame as it sounds I'd try to seek out the bouncers or management and tell them what happened in the hopes they'd kick her out, but 90% chance they wouldn't do shit and maybe even think you're a bitch for telling them. Really there isn't too much you can do in that situation.

Story 3: I'd tell her to choke on a dick and die, and to delete my number and never contact me again. I don't want to have anything to do with her. Next.

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Women don't respect men that they physically attack, and they certainly don't respect a man that doesn't stand up for himself. Due to the ease that a woman can call the cops and have you arrested, it's not worth retaliating and hitting them back. Although you could physically dominate them in other ways, to me it's still not worth it, so I think the best move is to just tell them to fuck off. Even if you stand up for yourself, grab their wrists, push them, pin them, tell them never to touch you again, or you will kick their ass, they will still deep down inside lose respect for you on some level.

A woman slapping a man is the ultimate form of disrespect, and for me a woman slapping me is the last and final straw, the nail in the coffin, from that point on I won't have anything to do with her, even if she's a 9 who loves giving head. Whether it's a chick I've been dating for years or one I just gone out with a few times, if a woman slaps you and you forgive her and continue to see her, it will only get worse.
08-09-2013 02:40 AM
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RE: How to Respond When a Girl Slaps You for Something She Doesn't Like?
Slap her back, then firmly say

"It is not OK for you to hit me"
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I threw a girl out of bed for slapping me while I was fucking her.

She was texting mad apologies right away. We're still good friends now, but boy was I pissed.

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RE: How to Respond When a Girl Slaps You for Something She Doesn't Like?
Am I the only one who has reflexes quick enough to catch their arms before the slap connects?

Try it.

It will stop them in the tracks. And you can't be charged with anything since your just defending yourself.
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Anyone who slaps you asking for it..
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Circumstance, circumstance, circumstance... There is no one answer.

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RE: How to Respond When a Girl Slaps You for Something She Doesn't Like?
Raise your voice and say "HEY, that is not OK"

In addition you can grab her arm while saying that.
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It's happened to me a few times before.

I never respond with physical violence, only the veiled threat of it in the way I stare her down and position my body.

I remember the time I got cig burned by some idiot in a bar because I was flirting with her friend and she wasn't the center of attention. Her friend was sitting next to me, and the attention whore was across the table, so she reached over and cig burned me on the arm. I believe she said 'stop stealing my friend away from me'. I immediately stood up and pushed my chair from behind me, and shouted 'what the fuck' at her. I didn't verbally berate her or anything, the only other thing I said was 'don't you EVER do that again.' The whole time I was giving her the death glare, and feeling the rush of adrenaline and rage coursing through my veins.

For the next few minutes everything was a bit subdued, and she shut right up for the night. I think it was extra surprising just because I'm a very relaxed, good-humored guy, and far from aggressive or confrontational. But I guess that just made it even better Laugh

Didn't get with her friend that night though hahaha

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(08-09-2013 09:03 AM)Gmac Wrote:  Circumstance, circumstance, circumstance... There is no one answer.

Good point. I've been lightly slapped as a 'joke' before, and all I'll do is pause and say 'don't do that' in a serious tone, then just continue where we left off.

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(08-09-2013 12:59 AM)Courage Reborn Wrote:  "I would never do that." I say, "well that's easy for you to say when daddy paid for it...

...slap.

PS we fucked shortly afterwards

This deserves some elaboration. Stories of spoiled, drunk women acting badly are common. It's all nice that so many macho forum members punished the women. But unless subsequent sex was involved, these stories belong in a self-esteem forum, not a game forum.
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Bitches put their hands on me then Bitches get tossed. Simple.
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To make it about game...

(and not about rightfully slapping the living shit out of a cigarette-burning whore)

... for girls that you're fucking, slapping is a way to speak to you. They're saying you need to dominate them. That you're being a pussy. The slap is an extreme move, a last try, to see if you have what it takes. To see if you were genuinely alpha, or faking it. You slipped up and you now need to step up. Speaking from experience here. She craves a strong man and is trying to find him again.

She slaps you? Go beast mode on that pussy, and remember the lesson.
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i'd restrain her, look her dead in the eyes, and say, "are you through?"
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(08-09-2013 04:17 AM)aphelion Wrote:  I threw a girl out of bed for slapping me while I was fucking her.

She was texting mad apologies right away. We're still good friends now, but boy was I pissed.

I like it when a girl slaps me during sex. A girl who slaps you is actually asking you to slap her ; she's asking for rough sex and trying to get you to ramp it up.

I've never been slapped or punched by a random girl in my life, only by girls I was dating and that is a different situation altogether

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When I got slapped I just smiled and said 'So, that's what turns you on.'
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*Victim Blaming Alert*

Guys are you giving off bad vibes or what? Try to chill the fuck out. Don't get slapped.

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If a girl slaps you in a bar there's really nothing you can do.

In private, you could at least slap her back.

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If a girl slaps you in a bar and you're holding a drink, immediately dump it on her head and walk away. It will fuck up her hair/makeup and ruin her night. You might get kicked out of the bar but it's a move that's much less likely to draw the ire of bouncers and white knights than slapping her back or making a big scene by yelling at her.

I've never done this myself, but I've seen it executed twice in person with great results. In both cases the chick just stood there with her mouth agape for a few seconds, unable to believe what had just happened.

Some would call this a bitch move, and I would agree if we're talking about throwing a drink in her face, which is lame because it always splatters all over everyone nearby. But turning the drink over and dumping it on her head is a totally different move. It doesn't convey anger and petulance as much as simply putting the chick in her place like she's a spoiled child. You just calmly and nonchalantly dump the drink on her head and walk away. Women don't expect a guy to do this and it always seems to catch them by surprise.

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Quote:If a girl slaps you in a bar there's really nothing you can do.

In private, you could at least slap her back.

Most women know better then to slap a man in private. Unless they are trying to extract a bit of the ol' ultra violence on themselves (rough sex).

Think about this way: 99% of the biggest arguments are in private, yet I would bet that 99% of the time its in public that a female slaps a man.

Without the knowledge that 7 cops and 12 white knights will kick your ass for retaliating or defending yourself against her, a woman will fall back into the natural pecking order of the animal kingdom.
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I've been slapped twice. Both times I laughed in there face right after as to say, "hahah you think that even phased me!?"
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Thinking about it more, if a girl slapped me in a bar the best thing to do would be to give her a titty twister

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