Post: #1

I've gotten about 10 one night stands. With the girls I don't care about i can usually hit them up late night another time and theyre more than willing to come over again for another session. I got a couple of dimes that I banged after meeting them that night. Obviously i want to continue banging them. Both of the times they added me on facebook after....looking at the forum now i think that i shouldn't have accepted their request. I say hi to them all the time and regularly have conversation (i see them at the college I go to in the dinning halls and such) they reply to all my texts but ignore my ones when i ask them to meetup for a drink or hangout. The sex wasn't the problem as they both said they had a great time and would love to do it again. They both weren't hammered but definitely had a nice buzz. I was wondering what strategy do you guys use to repeat one night stands. Maybe there is nothing I can do as the girl might have been looking for some dick that night and now feels like a slut or regrets what she did or is satisfied with that one time ocurance. Let me know you're input as I'm very curious to hear what you guys think

Post: #2

I don't think of my ONS as completely separate experiences.

Yes, they do have some differences, but my ONS are all linked.

The ONS is a spirit of the game.

I engage that spirit, and the girls aren't really individuals but expressions of that spirit.

It's the experience that they are attracted to. To them, you are the embodiment of that ONS energy. ONS comes to life because you, the girl, and the night are there to pay tribute.

Ha- that's my game spirituality.

I'm starting conceive of different aspects of the game as currents or forces of nature. Kind of like the greek or pagan gods.

Give hommage to the ONS god!

Post: #3

(08-14-2013 10:51 AM)legend44k Wrote:  I got a couple of dimes that I banged after meeting them that night. Obviously i want to continue banging them.

Here we go. Another guy that only SNLs 10s.

I call Big Baller Troll

Post: #4

(08-14-2013 12:06 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

(08-14-2013 10:51 AM)legend44k Wrote:  I got a couple of dimes that I banged after meeting them that night. Obviously i want to continue banging them.

Here we go. Another guy that only SNLs 10s.

I call Big Baller Troll

There is no such thing as a dime.

There are situational ratings- she's the hottest girl at the party etc., but 10s don't exist in real life.

Post: #5

(08-14-2013 12:17 PM)soup Wrote:  

(08-14-2013 12:06 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

(08-14-2013 10:51 AM)legend44k Wrote:  I got a couple of dimes that I banged after meeting them that night. Obviously i want to continue banging them.

Here we go. Another guy that only SNLs 10s.

I call Big Baller Troll

There is no such thing as a dime.

There are situational ratings- she's the hottest girl at the party etc., but 10s don't exist in real life.

Maybe not a ten, but still very attractive

Post: #6

I'd rate the girl in the pic at least an 8.5, although a 9 in my book, she could have bigger tits, but as an assman and brunette lover I am pleased.

Post: #7

When it comes to ONS, I've had mixed experiences. Some girls became part of my stable, while others vanished. It all depends on how you handled the initial interaction and ultimately what the girl was looking for to begin with. Also, great sex doesn't hurt when it comes to turning these girls into repeat offenders.

Post: #8

(08-14-2013 01:02 PM)legend44k Wrote:  

(08-14-2013 12:17 PM)soup Wrote:  

(08-14-2013 12:06 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

(08-14-2013 10:51 AM)legend44k Wrote:  I got a couple of dimes that I banged after meeting them that night. Obviously i want to continue banging them.

Here we go. Another guy that only SNLs 10s.

I call Big Baller Troll

There is no such thing as a dime.

There are situational ratings- she's the hottest girl at the party etc., but 10s don't exist in real life.

Maybe not a ten, but still very attractive

Buddy, that girl is a 7 in my book.

Post: #9

7.5 face, but I like her body style a lot, so I would bump her up to a 7.8

Post: #10

2/10 WNB.

J/k. She's a solid 7 to me. Quite bangable albeit.

Post: #11

(08-14-2013 10:51 AM)legend44k Wrote:  I was wondering what strategy do you guys use to repeat one night stands. Maybe there is nothing I can do as the girl might have been looking for some dick that night and now feels like a slut or regrets what she did or is satisfied with that one time ocurance.

If you think the girl is high quality then:

Let her stay over and fuck her again in the morning.

Make breakfast or go for a walk before you part ways.

Run some more game in the morning to show here you are actually a cool guy.

Text later that day something that makes her feel like less of a slut-
'Fun night superstar, maybe catch you again sometime '

Be discreet and make the whole thing seem like it wasn't that big of a deal.

Try make some plans to hang out again around 4-5 nights later. Something like a movie at yours or going for a swim (I have a pool in my apartment building). Something that is easy, comfortable and ideally in or close to your apartment.

I usually don't bring them back out to a bar again. Thats just taking a step backwards. I am trying to keep it behind close doors from now on.

Basically I am trying to set the frame of being a cool guy, who is a good fuck, who doesn't mind what she does as long as she comes around occasionally for a good session. I am the guy she calls when she just wants to chill and fuck.

My ONS to fuck buddy conversion rate is pretty tight.

Post: #12

I'm gonna give you your due credit there bud. That girl is at least an 8. Good job.

Post: #13

(08-14-2013 11:20 PM)nek Wrote:  I'm gonna give you your due credit there bud. That girl is at least an 8. Good job.

Yep. Not sure how guys can call that anything less than an 8.

She's looks around age 20-22, great skin, perfect legs and ass, nearly no fat, and perhaps her nose is a bit off but it's not serious. If she had a perfect nose and bigger tits then she'd be a 9. A slightly more shapely ass and she'd be a 10.

Post: #14

To answer the OP:

To avoid the one night stand thing, you first must act like you slept together not just for the sex but because you enjoyed her company.

Make it seem like what you did wasn't a big deal, and then make sure to set up plans for the next time you'll meet. Get her number in the process. Set the frame. You're the man.

If she thinks it was only just a fuck, then there's nothing you can do and it's time to find a new girl.

Post: #15

Thanks for the advice guys, I didn't mean for this to turn into a dick measuring contest and I love the fact that some people picked up on the fact that I said that "I banged a couple dimes". I'm not trying to say that I bang 10s it was a figure of speech.
Anyways, looks like I should start hanging with them in the morning (cooking breakfast, go on walk ect.).... I appreciate that advice. I never really noticed her nose til you guys pointed that out but I guess it is a little hooked. With her eyes not blocked out you don't even notice it, but I figured I'd protect her identity just out of respect.