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Greetings Gentlemen.

Introduction and Gauging Interest


I've noticed many of you have questions or a curiosity towards bondage and dominating women, and a few of you on here are even experienced dominants. Bondage and domination is an integral part of my game, and one of the few truly unique things I can provide to women that they'll be hard pressed to find elsewhere. Many men claim to be dominant in bed, but I always find women admitting that they're dissatisfied with their previous partner's pussified, uneducated, and confused half-hearted effort into the endeavor. If you're going to do something, you do it right.

Have you ever desired for a woman to melt into a powerless little kitten at the mere touch of your hand or the caress of your breath on her neck? What if I told you that you'd never have a problem with flaking, the woman finding a better deal or a higher branch to swing unto? The psychological impact of properly dominating woman is so powerful and game changing I simply do not have the vocabulary to properly articulate it's effectiveness and and vice grip on a woman's mind, body, and soul. Many of my previous partners have told me they only want to be fucked by me, because the efforts of other men have left them lukewarm at best, bored at worst after i've tied them up, gagged them, spanked them, choked them, tossed them around, pinned them up against a wall, slapped their face, and fucked their brains out.

In today's world, the powers that be seek to neutralize men and falsely apotheosize women onto a pedestal high as the sky, but made of glass. It is natural for women to be submissive to the men, this is why the act of domination is so important and powerful, despite the best efforts of the mongoloid hordes.

A lot of you are probably thinking at this point 'this sounds good and all, but it's going to take some time to convince a woman to have rough kinky sex with you'. That is simply not true at all. I've had many first dates end up exactly how I want them - naked, hog-tied, and ball-gagged. 70 million copies of '50 Shades of Grey' can't be wrong.

I find these women off okcupid. The first thing I do is look at their sex questions. Okcupid has numerous ones pertaining to kinky like 'do you like be tied or do the tying?' 'how does being slapped in the face during sex sound to you?' etc... If a girl answers favorably to them, she's a viable candidate for seduction. If you can attract her attention, it's important you have or are the following:

-Your 'normal' game is tight.

-You're fit, and good looking is always a plus. You're a proud red piller right? You should be hitting the gym, running, and eating right. You need to look the part. Dress well, have good hygiene, basic shit.

-You CANNOT, under any circumstances come across as a bondage obsessed serial killer. When dealing with these matters, women are on extra alert. I wouldn't recommend mentioning your desires to dominate immediately in your opening messages, unless you're a hard 9 or 10 on the looks scale.

-For myself, and most guys, you need to plant the seed and watch the flower of domination blossom. When casually texting or talking on the phone with the girl, I surreptitiously drop tidbits implying my kinky nature. Some of my favorite lines include:

'It seems like your last boyfriend didn't spank you nearly enough'

When she does something catty, abrasive, rude, or sarcastic - 'That's plus 5. She'll ask plus 5 what? I'll say plus 5 spankings' or 'Nothing a little rope and a firm hand can't fix.'

There's lots of way to bait her into divulging her kinky desires and thoughts. If i'm confident I have her hooked, i'll text her a picture of my rope and ball-gag. I've never had a girl react negatively to this. If any member wants, you can PM and i'll copy and paste text conversations leading up to the critical moment.

Once again, it's critical you come off as a solid, well rounded guy with stuff going on in your life besides kinky sex. You don't want to be one of those old, balding, fat lifestyle 'masters' (what a fucking joke) who are so obsessed with the role because they lack actual power and strength in every other part of their life. You are the master and dominant in bed because that is the sexual manifestation of your right as the alpha male. You lead, women follow. Women love being tied up and dominated because the intimacy is unparalleled. They desire to feel vulnerable, and thus taken care of because you're the director of the shower, you guide the hands of her sexual destiny. Women love to be gagged because it takes her ability to vocally protest. She can moan as loud as she wants. Women love to be spanked because especially for women - the threshold between pleasure and pain is very, very thin and they often converges on a single point.


The Tools of the Trade

I have an old Under Armour duffel bag I no longer use for the gym, so I converted that into my 'kit'. My bondage kit includes:

-100 ft of hemp bondage rope
-2 ball gags, one size small, the other medium for girls with bigger mouths
-1 padded spanking paddle
-1 deerskin flogger, for women desiring more intense than the spanking paddle
-1 roll of duct tape
-1 collar and leash.
-EMT safety shears for emergency release

It's a concise collection that communicates you're into this and you know what you're doing, but not extensive enough to be 'creepy'. You can have hours of fun with this, and gathering the tools will only run you $100-200, depending on whether you want to be every professionally made at a sex shop, or you're willing to improvise at Home Depot. I always have this in the trunk of my car, if the date is going well, my date is going to end up bound and gagged by the end of the night

You only need knowledge of a few knots to tie someone up well. Here's a youtube channel I recommend for learning:

.http://www.youtube.com/user/twistedmonkstudios

My favorite positions are the hog-tie for spanking, and a modified 2 column tie (wrists to ankles) for fucking.

For spanking, I prefer to use either the soft, padded paddle so I can REALLY lay into her and use some muscle, or my hand hard enough to leave my hand print on her ass. You always want to aim for the lower, meaty part of the ass, and away from the upper part where her lower back and spine are. Never strike anywhere that isn't protected by a good layer of flesh and muscle. Stay away from bones and joints. Women when aroused, can take more pain than you can probably anticipate. Don't be afraid to try and hurt her. She wants it.


Safety:

If you're using rope to tie your partner rope, always have scissors or preferably a pair of EMT shears on hand, incase something goes awry (she looses circulation in her limbs, she starts to choke on her gag, she freaks out, whatever) better a scared submissive than a dead submissive.

Always assign your partner a safe word and a safe signal if you plan on gagging her. The safe signal I use is the rapid snapping of fingers.


If you're starting out and have any questions, feel free to post here or PM me. If you're experienced and want to discuss the awesomeness that is BDSM, post here.


Here's a picture of my date from last night. This was the first time we met, and I had her tied up in my car to start the session in less than a hour. I took her to a hotel room, let her cool down because she's never be tied up before. Then when she collected herself, I hog-tied her as pictured, introduced her to Mr. Ball-Gag, went to town on her ass with the paddle, then fucked her for hours. Went at it again in the morning. Had her mumbling 'Thank you sir, may I have another?' through the ball-gag after paddle swing.

If you can build the proper rapport and your game is tight, you can easily get away with this on the first date.

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She just texted me

'Thanks again for everything. I really enjoyed our time last night, not to mention you're absolutely hilarious. I have 167 unread messages in my inbox folder and I know none of them can give me what you gave me. Hopefully see you soon.'

She thanked for everything. See attachment

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I'm a fan. i've since upgrade to hemp from twisted monk.

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Always have EMT shears with you. Please.

Post: #5

NSFW will be good in the title, before someone gets "tortured" by their boss.

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(08-19-2013 02:37 PM)Aliblahba Wrote:  NSFW will be good in the title, before someone gets "tortured" by their boss.

Thanks for the heads up

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I think alot of girls want to be dominated. But don't realise it. It seems alot of girls have parts of their sexual psyche which are unexplored until a man guides her in that direction.

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All i see in this thread is chest beating. Dominance is 99% physiological and 1% ropes and paddles which you don't seem to understand.

You tie up OKC trash and have sex with them and then the slut texts you about how your the best out of 167. Only problem is 162 of those dudes are borderline retards or 60 year olds. Your comparing yourself to the bottom of the barrel.

I didn't learn anything from this data sheet.

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(08-19-2013 03:18 PM)Jaylow Wrote:  All i see in this thread is chest beating. Dominance is 99% physiological and 1% ropes and paddles which you don't seem to understand.

You tie up OKC trash and have sex with them and then the slut texts you about how your the best out of 167. Only problem is 162 of those dudes are borderline retards or 60 year olds. Your comparing yourself to the bottom of the barrel.

I didn't learn anything from this data sheet.

Oh okay.

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(08-19-2013 03:18 PM)Jaylow Wrote:  All i see in this thread is chest beating. Dominance is 99% physiological and 1% ropes and paddles which you don't seem to understand.

You tie up OKC trash and have sex with them and then the slut texts you about how your the best out of 167. Only problem is 162 of those dudes are borderline retards or 60 year olds. Your comparing yourself to the bottom of the barrel.

I didn't learn anything from this data sheet.

I have to concur that if you really dominated her down to the bone (in more ways than one), she wouldn't be sending you a message about the other men. She wouldn't mention other men around you because you'd be the only man in her mind. You'd be her Jesus.

I still like some of the points you make in that sheet, and if I ever to find a girl who I want to spend that much time and energy on, I will refer back to your manual.

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I see where that point has merit. But I'm really indifferent towards the other men factor. We both mutually enjoyed the session and that's all it takes to make me happy. At this point I have at least one girl per weekend asking to 'hang out' so I'm satisfied with what I've accomplished so far. They could be fucking aliens from plant Zod for all I care but they keep coming back so I must be doing something right.

I hope you get to dip your feet into the BDSM pool soon. It's quite fun.

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(08-19-2013 03:22 PM)A War You Cannot Win Wrote:  Oh okay.

Have you ever desired for a woman to melt into a powerless little kitten at the mere touch of your hand or the caress of your breath on her neck? What if I told you that you'd never have a problem with flaking, the woman finding a better deal or a higher branch to swing unto? The psychological impact of properly dominating woman is so powerful and game changing I simply do not have the vocabulary to properly articulate it's effectiveness and and vice grip on a woman's mind, body, and soul. Many of my previous partners have told me they only want to be fucked by me, because the efforts of other men have left them lukewarm at best

I just think this paragraph is ridiculous to say right before you talk about OKC trashbags. You are tying them up and fucking them, you are not owning their souls like you describe.

WIA and Fisto could give us a great lesson on dominance.

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Any good souces you can recommend on knots and ties?

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(08-19-2013 03:38 PM)Jaylow Wrote:  

(08-19-2013 03:22 PM)A War You Cannot Win Wrote:  Oh okay.

Have you ever desired for a woman to melt into a powerless little kitten at the mere touch of your hand or the caress of your breath on her neck? What if I told you that you'd never have a problem with flaking, the woman finding a better deal or a higher branch to swing unto? The psychological impact of properly dominating woman is so powerful and game changing I simply do not have the vocabulary to properly articulate it's effectiveness and and vice grip on a woman's mind, body, and soul. Many of my previous partners have told me they only want to be fucked by me, because the efforts of other men have left them lukewarm at best

I just think this paragraph is ridiculous to say right before you talk about OKC trashbags. You are tying them up and fucking them, you are not owning their souls like you describe.

WIA and Fisto could give us a great lesson on dominance.

Each to their own, my good man.

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The knotty boys, twisted monk. Those are good knot resources

Twisted monk also sells hemp rope and kits

I'll post some links from an old post I made here for good books and info.

Google Shibari and go from there also.

I think the easy book is called "every day Shibari"

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(08-19-2013 03:39 PM)germanico Wrote:  Any good souces you can recommend on knots and ties?

http://www.amazon.com/Bondage-For-Sex-Ch...0977723801

I highly recommend this book. The pictures and how-to's on the knots and ties are very simple and easy to understand. Twistedmonk has a lot of good shit too. I linked to Twistermonk's Youtube channel that will give you the basics you need.

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lol, 167 messages for that fat whore? i'd probably need to get paid and some viagra to do all that. sheeeet.. look at those cankles

your intentions with all that bd stuff are all great.. please upgrade.. much hotter whores can be had. they all want that

Post: #19

Thanks for this, AWYCW. I did find this post valuable, particularly as regards identifying girls who are into this and moving in this direction early. I've done quit a bit of this kind of thing with girls, but I wouldn't have thought of getting into it on a first date off OKC.

I haven't read Bondage for Sex (the book recommended); I have heard that it isn't the best step-by-step guide to knots, in that it used photographs, not drawings, and actually teaches a few knots incorrectly.

If you don't want to get into learning knots, or, like I do, worry about trying to remember how to tie them while you are excited and she is watching, I recommend something like this: http://www.adameve.com/sp-under-the-bed-...11112.aspx Super easy to use, you can leave it set up under your mattress so it is always ready, and you can detach the cuffs to use separately if you just want her hands behind her back or something. I've been very happy with this purchase. The only issue is the cuffs are sort of furry and really pick up dust from under the bed, so it's best to store them separately or keep them wrapped up (like in a plastic bag) until you are ready to use.

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I was into the "scene" years ago and had a good collection of equipment then had a series of relationships and got completely out of it, though I retained the propensity for rough sex. I've been wanting to get back into it

I don't agree with the criticism, I found this post to be helpful and informative and appreciate the OP posting it

Post: #21

Not sure why people hating the guy.

Compared to a western guy talking about 'the way of game' because he got some actions in SEA, this has much more value.

Post: #22

I am kind of surprised at the multiple 1 star ratings. I thought it was a decent thread. Oh, well.

Post: #23

I'm interested to see how this thread progresses.

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@A War You Cannot Win

Awesome thread topic. I agree with BDSM being insanely powerful and game-changing stuff. If you're just fucking a slutty girl, she might very well be fucking other guys. Even if you're fucking her so hard, your dick won't be that special. Now, if you dominate her psychologically and monopolize her soul, you'll be on her mind all the time. And only you.

I agree with the some of the others that the content is a bit flimsy. But hey, it's a forum and not a monologue so we can all add to it. How do you psychologically dominate a girl? It's definitely not by knowing how to tie some knots (while that's an essential skill nonetheless).

P.S. Please do not fuck girls like that. She's fat and looks dirty. Don't reward that.

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(08-20-2013 02:40 AM)TheSlayer Wrote:  I am kind of surprised at the multiple 1 star ratings.

Theres a guy with two posts giving him a one star!?
Maybe people with less then a hundred posts should not be allowed rate threads.