Post: #1

Wilderness: "An uncultivated, uninhabited, and inhospitable region." AKA: Nature.

When I step into the wilderness, things begin to change. My hierarchy of needs shifts and my perception of reality transforms.

iPhones become as valuable as the rocks at my feet. Google, like the numbers in my bank account, becomes an abstract concept, with no weight or bearing on my presence. I have a knife in my pocket. Food is not fast. My survival depends on absolutely one thing: myself. The fear of bear is so strong that a twig breaking in the night will make my heart beat faster than any human interaction I've ever had. I am detached from society, completely vulnerable, for once in my life liberated.

When I have camped in a tent and not showered for days, my own stench overpowering, things begin to change. Tea in the morning tastes better. Sleep at night is deeper and my dreams lucid. My body is my focus and my energy comes from within my mind; my instinct of self-preservation above all else. Birds fly overhead and fish swim against the river. Life is pure here.

When I climb a mountain, under the power of my beating heart and my own two feet, things become simplified. The journey is the reward and the reward is every single step I make. I gasp for breath at the high altitude and wonder if I have what it takes to keep moving. A mistake here is not an angry phone call or a reduction in salary, it is the end of my life. "You fall, you die."

At the summit I think about Man, and which among us have stood where I now stand. I think about why a Man would risk his life to see this view when he could have just looked it up on the internet. I think about Nature. About the rocks and the trees far below and the impossible balance of how it hangs together. This mountain is more significant and more beautiful than any human creation yet it stands unnoticed.

It is here, in the wilderness, where game goes away. The pursuit of women does not enter my thoughts nor have any position on my list of priorities. Sex is reduced to a biological need to reproduce at some vague point in the future. It does not drive me; it does not influence my actions. It is wholly irrelevant. Out of sight, out of mind. Could it be so simple?

I have this feeling of ultimate freedom in a place of great hostility. My mind attempts to resolve this notion; of how game is something that, in the city, feels so absolute. It is the one thing I can turn to for answers. Yet the freedom I search for within it always seems just that little bit out of reach, so I try and try again. I search for truth in the game but only do I find it in the wilderness.

But freedom, by its own virtue, is volatile and temporary. The summit I stand on and the feeling it gives me will be reduced to a distant memory in short time. The new girl I had sex with last week has already suffered the same fate. Yet I will continue to pursue more women and more mountains. How do I resolve this contradiction? The questions jump around in my head. Is Man doomed to chase this fleeting feeling that is perpetually whisked away? Are we truly such banal and uninteresting beings? Doesn’t anyone want more than this?

In the distance I see clouds rolling in. My skin begins to tingle as the temperature drops. I can taste the air. It is going to rain, and there is going to be lightning. I could die up here. I race down, pack my tent and begin the long journey back to my apartment in the city, to continue seeking solutions to questions I have already answered. My goal is to return home, though I know I am already there.

Post: #2

(08-21-2013 10:16 PM)BlurredSevens Wrote:  It is here, in the wilderness, where game goes away. The pursuit of women does not enter my thoughts nor have any position on my list of priorities. Sex is reduced to a biological need to reproduce at some vague point in the future. It does not drive me; it does not influence my actions. It is wholly irrelevant. Out of sight, out of mind. Could it be so simple?

I think that this is just because you're distanced from females. Were you to see women on top of that mountain your desire for sex would come back in full force

Post: #3

Go to a several day bush party/festival with women abound. Might start feeling the urge for some modern day caveman game

Post: #4

Reminded me of the documentary "Touching the Void".

This post resonates with me. Especially "Sex is reduced to a biological need to reproduce at some vague point in the future". The fact that technology has enabled us the luxury of chasing pussy instead of chasing rabbits for food is easy to take for granted.

Nice post.

Post: #5

(08-21-2013 10:40 PM)pump_and_romance Wrote:  I think that this is just because you're distanced from females. Were you to see women on top of that mountain your desire for sex would come back in full force

Well, this is kind of my point. My desire to sleep with women is high in the city, so I spend a lot of time satiating this need. Yet when I step out, that need evaporates almost overnight.

So it makes me wonder how much of my sexual pursuits are actually based on need vs. a way to deal with the stress and tedium of city life.

Post: #6

If there were 1 caveman and 1 cavewoman living on a mountain, there would be almost no game. They would fuck.

If there were 2 men and 2 women living on a mountain, the stronger man would probably get the prettier woman.

If there were 20 men and 20 women living on a mountain, most of the men would have a girlfriend, the chief might have a few girlfriends, and a few ugly weak guys would share the ugliest girl.

If 20 more men and 20 more women moved onto the mountain, after 1 year there might only be 20 men and 40 women, because the men fought each other to death. Or maybe they went bear hunting and died. So then each man has roughly 2 women each.

Well, we don't have bears in the city, and we don't generally fight each other to the death. So evolution, procreation, and survival depend upon random things like artsiness, prettyboyness, alpha maleness, sports ability, game, money, etc etc.

Personally I would rather take my chances with the bears....

Plus you get nice perks like no boss yelling at you, no time clock, no traffic. Sound of rushing water, starry skies, clean air, etc.

P.S. I have personally lived like this for years. I have lived on communes in the US, Hawaii, and Spain. And it IS awesome if you like the outdoors and pick a place that gets women coming through... Only saw a bear a few times in Arcata, California...

Post: #7

Women are a part of nature. Enjoy them just as you would enjoy nature.

Too much sun will kill you, a lack of water will kill you, animals will kill you. the wrong plant will kill you.

Nature can keep us alive or it can kill us. Women are the same.

Live somewhere with beautiful nature and also beautiful girls.

Take girls camping, etc.

When you need nature, go to nature, when you need women, go to women.

Just listen to your body, trust your internal nature.

Nature is here for us to enjoy. Women are a part of that process.

If you don't wanna swim in the ocean, don't. If you don't want to bang girls, don't.

If you do, do. This is your world.

Post: #8

My cousin once said "women are part of the terrain. Do you ask the terrain what it wants? No, you just traverse it, adapt it to YOUR needs".

When you go out in the terrain of nature, all you have is a bunch of wild animals, trees, and rocks. From all this you make fire, a nice roasted meal, and a hut to live in. Women can be like that raw terrain. They are waiting for someone to put them to good use...

Post: #9

Nice post, reminds me of my own feelings. One thing though do you find it a "novelty". These sensations wear of, and for me anyway my mind wanders back to civilization, pussy, money and the buzz of human interaction. One things for sure you need this time with nature often, it is magic for the soul.

Post: #10

(08-24-2013 11:42 PM)kazz Wrote:  Nice post, reminds me of my own feelings. One thing though do you find it a "novelty". These sensations wear of, and for me anyway my mind wanders back to civilization, pussy, money and the buzz of human interaction. One things for sure you need this time with nature often, it is magic for the soul.

communes, organic farms, retreat centers, and small hippy towns nestled between mountain and ocean all can provide just enough of the buzz of civilization. Northern Cali is particularly good for such a balance... I was living in a commune with new college girls every week, and on weekends we would go to the nightclub in the nearby city for partying.

Post: #11

Great post. If beautiful women lived in rural and wooded areas I would move there in a heartbeat. Unfortunately I feel as though hypergamy draws all the prettiest and smartest women to the cities to date actors, musicians, athletes, and maybe even some stock brokers.

All a man needs is some space and a woman. Exceptionally rare is the woman who would be satisfied with a country life. I've definitely considered becoming a park ranger and importing a Russian bride.

Post: #12

I agree that most women in their 30's probably want the city life. But there are a good number of women, especially in the West coast, that are up for adventure. By this I mean communes near the beach, music festivals in the mountains, etc.. Maybe they only want that lifestyle for 6 months or a year, but thats long enough to get bored of each other anyhow.

And then there are towns where a girl or guy can get educated/ pursuit a career while living close to nature. Many college towns in the west, for example. The south also has an abundance of towns surrounded by amazing nature. Asheville NC and the surrounding college towns, for example, are known for earthy girls.

I think a lot has to do with how the nature lifestyle is portrayed. For example, you can have your main apartment in the city. Then you also have a few spots in the country that you go to when you feel like it. In Atlanta, I have 3 communes I go to which are within 1-2 hours of the city. I can take a girl to any of them to relax. sometimes there are festivals at those places as well as other bigger music festivals at other farms.

A fun city/country lifestyle is really the dream for anyone, girls included. Its just that most people living in the country just don't do it in a fun or interesting way. So the country has a reputation for backwardness and boredom. But that's not nature's fault...ha

Post: #13

This post makes me want to drop it all, go out, climb a mountain, and forget about everything for a couple days.

Post: #14

I have a cottage up north, and it's an absolute requirement in my life right now. The city life, the professional life, the nightlife, the game....
It can all be very draining.

One weekend every 2/3 weeks I go up alone with my dog to the countryside.. and whether I'm doing donuts on my lake with my ATV, staring up at the clear night sky and watching the stars, or just walking with my dog in the forest, it's the only time when I truly feel free.

Post: #15

I think it is time to go to some camping.

Post: #16

After reading this I bought some gear and went out into the wilderness alone with a backpack and sleeping bag. Hiked a total of 30 km in 2 days and slept under the stars in -12C with about 6 inches of snow. I didn't see one other person the whole time.

The best part was the warmth of the fire and the comforts that came along with it-- a warm stew at night, the ability to dry my wet and frozen clothes/shoes, a simple cup of coffee and warm oatmeal in the morning when you feel the chill deep into the bone.

I made the mistake of going without a map or compass, so a few times I felt legitimately lost. Not panicking, but thinking I may have to stay out an extra night without the necessary supplies. The only thing that came to mind was food, something Ive never had to worry about before in my privileged life. It was humbling.

Upon return to civilization, I had a few hours of the most incredibly clear thinking of my life. Everything had a purpose and I was certain of the paths I would take.

For anyone who is on the fence about having wilderness adventure, I highly recommend it. Just take the plunge.

Post: #17

I was thinking the same thing tonight as I was walking my dog through the snow under the moon light. The cold air, the snow and ice crunching under foot. It is good to come into true with yourself, to break from the walls and omni present electronics, you feel real, more in the now, at peace.

It is those moment I can see why Diogenes lived in a tub or the monks took to their isolation.

Post: #18

(08-23-2013 01:18 PM)kavakid Wrote:  If there were 1 caveman and 1 cavewoman living on a mountain, there would be almost no game. They would fuck.

If there were 2 men and 2 women living on a mountain, the stronger man would probably get the prettier woman.

If there were 20 men and 20 women living on a mountain, most of the men would have a girlfriend, the chief might have a few girlfriends, and a few ugly weak guys would share the ugliest girl.

If 20 more men and 20 more women moved onto the mountain, after 1 year there might only be 20 men and 40 women, because the men fought each other to death. Or maybe they went bear hunting and died. So then each man has roughly 2 women each.

Well, we don't have bears in the city, and we don't generally fight each other to the death. So evolution, procreation, and survival depend upon random things like artsiness, prettyboyness, alpha maleness, sports ability, game, money, etc etc.

Personally I would rather take my chances with the bears....

Plus you get nice perks like no boss yelling at you, no time clock, no traffic. Sound of rushing water, starry skies, clean air, etc.

P.S. I have personally lived like this for years. I have lived on communes in the US, Hawaii, and Spain. And it IS awesome if you like the outdoors and pick a place that gets women coming through... Only saw a bear a few times in Arcata, California...

Yes, but, think about how ugly cave women were.

I believe that beauty is a result of breeding.

Post: #19

What is the essential equipment for camping in the mountains? I'm not talking about snow peaks, I'm talking moderate climate and regular woods with small rivers full of fish.

Post: #20

(08-23-2013 01:18 PM)kavakid Wrote:  If there were 1 caveman and 1 cavewoman living on a mountain, there would be almost no game. They would fuck.

If there were 2 men and 2 women living on a mountain, the stronger man would probably get the prettier woman.

If there were 20 men and 20 women living on a mountain, most of the men would have a girlfriend, the chief might have a few girlfriends, and a few ugly weak guys would share the ugliest girl.

If 20 more men and 20 more women moved onto the mountain, after 1 year there might only be 20 men and 40 women, because the men fought each other to death. Or maybe they went bear hunting and died. So then each man has roughly 2 women each.

Well, we don't have bears in the city, and we don't generally fight each other to the death. So evolution, procreation, and survival depend upon random things like artsiness, prettyboyness, alpha maleness, sports ability, game, money, etc etc.

Personally I would rather take my chances with the bears....

Plus you get nice perks like no boss yelling at you, no time clock, no traffic. Sound of rushing water, starry skies, clean air, etc.

P.S. I have personally lived like this for years. I have lived on communes in the US, Hawaii, and Spain. And it IS awesome if you like the outdoors and pick a place that gets women coming through... Only saw a bear a few times in Arcata, California...

This experiment you speak of is called "A canadian tree planting camp" 100 college aged guys and girls stuck in the woods while dirty sweat and gross.

Most girls are too self conscious about being horribly dirty to bang while the obvious sluts do the men in positions of authoritative or resource power ie. the bosses or the guys with the nice warm mansion tents.

This becomes more obvious in a spring snowstorm or heavy rain/flood. The girls just flock to the dudes with the dry tents, begging to sleep there...they don't go begging from other girls.

Post: #21

This is interesting. A buddy of mine is a Genetics Professor. Young good-looking guy. When he takes students into the field for days at a time (places like the rainforest and the Galapagos, he says the women become crazy horny, try to fuck everyone, and lose societal inhibitions)

Post: #22

(01-20-2014 05:57 AM)funkyzeit Wrote:  What is the essential equipment for camping in the mountains? I'm not talking about snow peaks, I'm talking moderate climate and regular woods with small rivers full of fish.

It depends on how long you'll be out there, what the climate is like and what type of camping you'll be doing. There are, however, certain things that are necessary in all situations.

A good knife, tent (if you are certain that there are caves or shelter you can maybe skip this), multiple sources of fire (matches and lighter minimum and fire steel if you have it), sleeping bag, some sort of metal cooking pot and spoon, sleeping bag, the right type of clothing for the climate, good waterproof shoes (preferably already broken in), 2x pair good socks (important), string/rope (paracord is best), a roll of plastic bags can be quite useful, toilet paper, and of course food and water.

Personally I like oats, nuts dried fruits for breakfast. canned tuna fish and crackers are good for lunch. For dinner I like something warm, usually pre-prepared, but it's all very dependent on climate.. It is more difficult to store prepared foods if your in a warm climate and food can freeze if the climate is too cold.

The rest really depends on climate and terrain.. If you will be able to fish, take a fishing pole and/or cast net and bring less food if your certain you can catch fish.
If you're by fresh water and/or snow you can always boil it and bring less water.
If you want to be sure that fire won't be an issue you can bring one of those portable gas stoves--they make them very small nowadays and they're quite efficient.
If you'll be doing a lot of moving around a compass and topographic map are something you will be very glad to have--especially if there aren't any trails or if they are unmarked.
If you will be out for a long time or there are dangerous animals in the area a gun wouldn't be a bad idea. Pistol if you'll be moving around alot and okay with food, obviously a rifle if you need to hunt.

It's all common sense I think. Keeping yourself warm and dry is the most important--quality clothing (many layers in colder climates, waterproof in rainy climates, breathable yet protective in warm) can't be understated. If it's subzero out, it's also important to dry your clothing and shoes over the fire at night.

Most importantly you'll need a bit of survival knowledge--how to start a fire in non-ideal conditions, how to fish and clean fish if you plan that route, if there's any specific woods/trees in your area that are toxic to burn, any types of berries or plants that are edibile if you're in a bind, how properly read a map and use a compass, and the ability to keep your mental agility if something goes wrong. If you're going to hunt you should definitely know how to skin and clean the animal. Also if there are dangerous predatory animals in your region, it would be wise to learn what attracts them and keeps them away, as well as how to react in a situation where you encounter them.

If you're just planning on going out for a night or 2 the danger is very low so long as you have the right clothing and don't get lost. Even without food and water you can survive that long no problem.



Edit: I'm not a survival expert by any means. I've gone on 5 lone-man expeditions--the longest one being only 3 days in favorable conditions, so theres a good chance I've missed some stuff. But heres a good start in any case.

Post: #23

(01-20-2014 05:57 AM)funkyzeit Wrote:  What is the essential equipment for camping in the mountains? I'm not talking about snow peaks, I'm talking moderate climate and regular woods with small rivers full of fish.

You should start just camping a few days at a campground. Try to not buy anything once you have arrived at the campground. It will give you an idea of what is essential and what is not. Be sure to hike at least 5 miles a day to get used to the gear. If its summer you can take just a tarp, not even a tent. Or perhaps just a rainjacket. Read about lightweight backpacking. The technology can make the experience a lot more fun. I have a heavy $500 backpack that i love for long long trips overseas. But for a light jaunt up a mountain range it might not be ideal. For example, a lightweight backpacker might pitch a tarp over a pile of pine needles or dry leaves, saving the weight of a full tent and sleeping pad. Bugs are less of an issue than you think if your body is covered, though a small screen for the head is nice. If you live in an area with a lot of ticks that carry lime disease then you might want a tent or take precautions.

Post: #24

RVF camping trip?
Being able to fend for yourself and be one with nature is uber manly. Technology ain't shit when the world's collapsing, the real man will be able to keep his loved ones safe and comfortable under any circumstances.

Post: #25

(01-15-2014 01:03 PM)FrenchCanadian Wrote:  I have a cottage up north, and it's an absolute requirement in my life right now. The city life, the professional life, the nightlife, the game....
It can all be very draining.

One weekend every 2/3 weeks I go up alone with my dog to the countryside.. and whether I'm doing donuts on my lake with my ATV, staring up at the clear night sky and watching the stars, or just walking with my dog in the forest, it's the only time when I truly feel free.

That's a great looking spot. I think those kinds of getaways are invaluable for men to have access to as they move through life. It's like a weight is lifted off your shoulders when you're out there doing your own thing.

I have heard many people say that, in regard to spending time outdoors in nature, that it's about "striking a balance" between working, city life, and being outdoors.

I used to accept this at face value, but I am beginning to challenge it. The longest isolated outdoor trip I've done was 26 nights. No internet/phone/hot shower/etc. While I certainly missed the creature comforts of home, I was never particularly stressed out, angry, or otherwise in a bad mood.

Contrast that with how irritable I get just driving down a crowded highway these days, and there is a strong case for finding a chill girl and whisking her away to a log cabin in the woods, and living the simple life.