Post: #1

Anyone have any good openers for these?

I'm looking for something that filters out girls that respond from needs of validation or politeness, aka girls that are potentially interested (as in before i really talk to them, as in i meet their minimum physical type and looks standard)

Keep in mind the site i do this on has a vastly more girls than guys, so it need not be something outrageous just to get noticed from the thousand of mails.

Something normal, non threatening (as in safe) and smooth , while also adding value.

Also keep in mind this is not a dating site per say , it contains alot of girls that have boyfriends ( also many are no longer active on the site and i have little way of knowing) so something about that should also be said.

I already tested out a message but got very poor results ( i made it up while i was fixing my sleep cycle so it was poorly thought out), will make another one tommorow and give it a go.

If you can't think of anything within those parameters list something that could work on a typical dating site (minus the peacocking stuff to get noticed from the hundreds-thousands of mails).

Also feel free to share your experience with mass messaging (also include your looks, as not much game can be inserted in a 1-2 liner and good looking guys do much better on these sites from the experiments i've seen)

Thanks.

Post: #2

I posted this in the wrong forum, could someone move it?

Thanks.

Post: #3

The best idea is to have a mass message that has a personalized line in it. Keeps you from spamming and lets them know you actually read their profile... (If that's your thing)