Post: #1

Do you have a special story of some magic carpet ride, or do you use some other proven method?

Maybe you are trying to get back to her place.

Walk me through how you are doing it.

Post: #2

I always try to disable slut-shame through a routine, and then I tell her to come up for a second because I forgot something. Then I offer drinks in the apartment and run the train on the sofa.

Post: #3

What I do all the time in LA is take public transportation to the date and then get the girl to give me a ride home. I say, "do you want to see my place?" and that's it. They park and come up. (I usually end up talking about my apartment at some point during the date.)

In my experience girls love it when they find out that you took the bus or walked to the date. It's intriguing I guess.

(Obviously this wouldn't work in New York. But any city where public transit is under-utilized, this could work.)

I've never had a girl refuse to give me a ride (they don't want to seem like a bitch.) And they park and come up 90% of the time.

Post: #4

There is no Jack and the Beanstalk method that will get you the pussy every time. You will fail but failure is the best teacher.

You will have YES, MAYBE, and NO chicks.

Yes chicks need no explaining.

Maybe chicks may require that you rebuild the attraction, comfort, and qualification that got her out with you in the first place but it will be much easier. Comfort is the key here. Don't forget to change venue also. Hopefully the place is closer to your home. If she says anything about sex, you should know that it's a shit test. I always tell women to "get their mind out of the gutter, I didn't say anything about sex." They want you to just be a man and do it. Don't ask for permission. Keep the sexual tension as high as you can while walking with her also but don't come off as needy. I love making out with chicks and squeezing them tightly then just letting go and walking off a bit. Going from a man's strong embrace to nothing increases their desire from what I have learned.

No chicks can be changed to YES but it will take a bit of investment after you discover she is a NO. You can continue gaming her if you aren't worried about the outcome and don't want to call another chick. The NO chicks knows that if she enters your door, she will fuck you!! She's been there many times. She is trying to prove to herself that her desires for sex don't rule her mind. Every first date NO chick that I've dealt with has always been a YES chick on the second date except for one instance.

One more thing, if it's a week night and it's getting late, you will probably lose to a NO chick on the first date.

Post: #5

@Steve Derekson: So what's the routine you mentioned? Greetings to Madrid!

@Princeton: I'm gonna try that one. Public transport in LA, he he..!

Funny you two guys are the first ones answering, because both of you are from cities I have lived in and love dearly.

@DealCloser: Good rundown! It really depends a lot on the chick, I just want to give myself better chances. You don't happen to be from Hamburg by any chance...?

Post: #6

(12-05-2013 09:42 AM)Dr Feelgood Wrote:  @Steve Derekson: So what's the routine you mentioned? Greetings to Madrid!

@Princeton: I'm gonna try that one. Public transport in LA, he he..!

Funny you two guys are the first ones answering, because both of you are from cities I have lived in and love dearly.

I get into a conversation about how "unfair" the double standards between men and women, and how having a promiscuous past doesn't mean one can't fall in love or have a relationship.

All bullshit, but it works to get the girl out of her sexual shell.

Post: #7

(12-05-2013 09:45 AM)Steve Derekson Wrote:  

(12-05-2013 09:42 AM)Dr Feelgood Wrote:  @Steve Derekson: So what's the routine you mentioned? Greetings to Madrid!

@Princeton: I'm gonna try that one. Public transport in LA, he he..!

Funny you two guys are the first ones answering, because both of you are from cities I have lived in and love dearly.

I get into a conversation about how "unfair" the double standards between men and women, and how having a promiscuous past doesn't mean one can't fall in love or have a relationship. I also talk about how this "one girl", long ago, didn't want to have sex because appartently she "liked me too much". Then I go into a sort of playful banter about how women think the silliest things, and about how I stopped texting because, while she way pretty cool, I got tired.

All bullshit, but it works to get the girl out of her sexual shell.

Post: #8

(12-05-2013 09:45 AM)Steve Derekson Wrote:  

(12-05-2013 09:42 AM)Dr Feelgood Wrote:  @Steve Derekson: So what's the routine you mentioned? Greetings to Madrid!

@Princeton: I'm gonna try that one. Public transport in LA, he he..!

Funny you two guys are the first ones answering, because both of you are from cities I have lived in and love dearly.

I get into a conversation about how "unfair" the double standards between men and women, and how having a promiscuous past doesn't mean one can't fall in love or have a relationship. I also talk about how this "one girl", long ago, didn't want to have sex because appartently she "liked me too much". Then I go into a sort of playful banter about how women think the silliest things, and about how I stopped texting because, while she way pretty cool, I got tired.

All bullshit, but it works to get the girl out of her sexual shell.

Post: #9

The date should take place within walking distance of your well located apartment, then after the first stop (cafe, bar, etc) you start walking and say "oh darn I have to charge my cell" or "I have to get my bank card, or some cash" lets go to my place right quick. At your place, you obviously have some booze to mix up so you offer her a drink, or snacks, make her feel comfortable. Maybe put on some music, in Colombia, I'll put on some salsa and get her to show me some moves. You should have some pics or videos on your laptop to show her, something to make yourself interesting, escalate accordingly.

This usually works, but not always, I had a girl in my apartment a few days ago and fucking blew it, oh well, onto the next one.

Post: #10

@Dr Feelgood

I'm from San Francisco, California but live and work in Berlin, Germany. Hamburg is a nice city though. I prefer it over Berlin.

Post: #11

(12-05-2013 09:55 AM)scotian Wrote:  I had a girl in my apartment a few days ago and fucking blew it, oh well, onto the next one.

We've all been there. It's a rookie mistake but they creep up on the best of us sometimes. Like you said, onto the next one!

Post: #12

"Come on, let's go for a walk down on the sand, it's beautiful out."

When I walk back up it's not to wherever we started, but towards my place very close to the beach. Or sometimes the opposite with grabbing a bottle of wine and a big towel (and condoms just in case) at my place and then walking down to the sand.

You know what girls like more than long walks on the beach? Moonlit walks on the beach with heavy makeouts, fingering, and sometimes fucking.

I actually do enjoy long walks on the beach, but I'll take a short walk and long sex instead.

I guess my point is that my place sells itself. Once inside, I've got it laid out half decently for hosting and I have an area converted to a bar. Big HDTV, nice sound system, low lighting, comfortable couch, etc...

Lately I've been leaving my massage table out which leads to some interesting conversations/results.

Post: #13

@TheDealCloser: While I prefer Hamburg as well, Berlin is a great city! Additonal question: At what percentage do you encounter YES, Maybe and NO girls?

Post: #14

(12-05-2013 09:31 AM)Princeton Wrote:  What I do all the time in LA is take public transportation to the date and then get the girl to give me a ride home. I say, "do you want to see my place?" and that's it. They park and come up. (I usually end up talking about my apartment at some point during the date.)

In my experience girls love it when they find out that you took the bus or walked to the date. It's intriguing I guess.

(Obviously this wouldn't work in New York. But any city where public transit is under-utilized, this could work.)

I've never had a girl refuse to give me a ride (they don't want to seem like a bitch.) And they park and come up 90% of the time.

This is a good one.

I have a similar one, which I call "the taxi move".

I usually offer to pick the girl up in my car, but if she prefers to meet me at the bar, I never go with my car. Both of you driving to the place means 100% you're not getting laid that night. So I take a taxi and meet her there and say "I didn't want to drink and drive, so I decided to take a taxi". Then after the date ends, I mention that I have to find a taxi and most times she will offer to drive me home instead.

Then after she parks to drop me off, I proceed to escalate inside the car and try to get her either up to my apartment or to a love motel down the street.

It's a purely logistical move.

Works better on second or third dates and it's key to pick a date place that is not more than a 15-minute drive from your place.

Post: #15

I just ask if they wanna smoke a blunt, if they say they don't smoke I know it won't work out

Post: #16

I start the date off in my apartment.

I usually text something like:

"Let's meet at my place, and then we'll decide whether to go out to eat, or stay in and watch a movie."

This gives them plausible deniability to come over.

Once she comes in offer her a drink and pop in a movie.

If she's not willing to meet me at my place I usually next her, unless she's worth the effort.

Post: #17

It's a combo of...

- setting up date when she's free [Key IMO cause there's nothing better than a loooong evening/night with a cute chick. I hate those last minute dates when a girl want to go out just to see me and is 'not prepared' to spend time with me]

- physical comfort

- disarming asd/lmr

- making girl's invest

- leading

Post: #18

1) Live in a great part of town
2) Have drink at bar within 3 block radius
3) Run comfort-building game
4) Lead/Invite girl over for nightcap, dessert, movie, fucking Jenga, doesn't matter