Post: #1

I went out with this chick on Thursday, we had a really great vibe going on. I kept her out too late so couldn't get her back to my place but we agreed to hang out again.

On Friday, I end up going out with a different chick, we're posted up at a fairly relaxed bar - talking, touching, etc. Next thing I know this group of girls gets up from a table in the corner and walks by us. Lo and behold Thursday night girl is in the group and we make eye contact and exchange "hi's". It threw my out of my rhythm for a bit. Friday girl knew what was up.

Anyway turns out Thursday girl and I are going to the same event today (Saturday) and I'll see her there. Is it safe to assume being seen with another girl increases my value in her eyes? Any tips on how to handle the "so who was that girl you were with last night?" question if it gets dropped?

Post: #2

Girls are always jealous over what another has. You increased your own value by being seen with another girl. I would play neutrally to avoid getting both parties pissed at you or you will get you none. If scenario B does happen next both because they will expect you to suck up and play by their rules.

Post: #3

I like "just a friend." It leaves something to the imagination while also maintaining appearances.

Post: #4

A number of ways to play it, but the main thing is being comfortable being a player, being a man, being alpha.

What might play out
1) she avoids you
2) she talks to you and says nothing
3) she talks to you and confronts/teases you

If she avoids you, you must seek her out. Sometimes chicks are threatened by competition, threatened enough to give up.

if she talks to you, an doesn't confront, you have to cement your hold over her. Remind her why she wants you.

If she confronts and teases you, you must take control of the conversation. But you don't play tit for tat. She accuses you of being a player, you don't engage in her attempts to put you in a box, you change the game. (see all the various posts on this subject)

Keep in mind you've done nothing wrong and promised her nothing, but because of the Feminine Imperative, where the man is supposed to be chaste and the woman is free to do what ever - You feel like you're in some kind of hot water.

You're not.

This is how it's supposed to be.
She's supposed to see that you're desired by many women.
They all are supposed to see this. Nothing gets a chick more than parading some other hussy/floozy/tramp in front of them.

She's supposed to do more to make you happy, or step out of the way for a better woman.

Your role is to remain Alpha. I rarely recommend that Stoic/Swaggering stereotype of game, but this is where it's needed.

Underlying all of this is a solid belief in the principles of game.
You don't chase, you replace.

These minor kerfuffles are as annoying as the sock sitting on your bedroom floor. i.e You'll get to it when you fee like it.

Thursday chick is disposable. Not because you have Friday chick, but because you always have a chick, and they are always disposable.

No chick is central to your life. Much like Hollywood, the love interest is a sub-plot.

Moving from Beta to Alpha, often means that women are not the most important thing in your life.

WIA

*You have to be careful with this sort of logic, because plenty of beta schlubs are thoughtlessly building the next man's empire foolishly thinking that his time at work is in service to himself. No one wants to be a slave to pussy, meanwhile they're slaving for some intangible corporate cock.

Post: #5

(01-25-2014 09:19 AM)redonion Wrote:  Is it safe to assume being seen with another girl increases my value in her eyes? Any tips on how to handle the "so who was that girl you were with last night?" question if it gets dropped?

I agree with Polymath, say 'Just a friend'.
And yes, it will increase your value in her eyes. Even if she legitimately is just a friend. This is in my opinion one of the few reasons to have females friends and acquaintances, women love guys that socialize and schmooze with attractive women frequently.

Also a good reason not to ever turn down the chance to talk to a 8/9/10 chick... Even if it goes nowhere with her, never know who might be watching you in their peripheral.

Post: #6

WestIndianArchie posted a gem. That is the mindset you need to have without a doubt. Women are replaceable and you can find 8s and 9s on the streets. There are millions of women you can game always keep that in mind. Also stoicism/swagger are necessary in some parts of game, but confidence trumps it all. Being confident, self-aware, and at times playful you can pull harder than most guys out there who don't show that radiance. Be confident, be strong, and do your best. Best of luck to you mate.

Post: #7

(01-25-2014 09:19 AM)redonion Wrote:  I went out with this chick on Thursday, we had a really great vibe going on. I kept her out too late so couldn't get her back to my place but we agreed to hang out again.

On Friday, I end up going out with a different chick, we're posted up at a fairly relaxed bar - talking, touching, etc. Next thing I know this group of girls gets up from a table in the corner and walks by us. Lo and behold Thursday night girl is in the group and we make eye contact and exchange "hi's". It threw my out of my rhythm for a bit. Friday girl knew what was up.

Anyway turns out Thursday girl and I are going to the same event today (Saturday) and I'll see her there. Is it safe to assume being seen with another girl increases my value in her eyes? Any tips on how to handle the "so who was that girl you were with last night?" question if it gets dropped?

Simple responses:

"That was your competition"

"Oh her, she is trying to win my heart"

"She's cute right? I can hook you two up"

Post: #8

It turns out that if you appear with one woman in front of the other, it can increase the interest of the woman with whom you are and can arouse the interest of another woman... this happens ONLY BY THE DISPUTE BETWEEN THEM.

That's the problem!

When one loses interest in the dispute, the other may lose interest instantly in you.

Post: #9

(01-25-2014 04:17 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  .....
Thursday chick is disposable. Not because you have Friday chick, but because you always have a chick, and they are always disposable.

No chick is central to your life. Much like Hollywood, the love interest is a sub-plot.

Moving from Beta to Alpha, often means that women are not the most important thing in your life.

Yes that is what you should be thinking but subconsciously when you do find an 9-10 and all is going well how do you stop the thought pattern of:
'My god shes beautiful, this shit doesn't often happen to me - I don't want to do anything to loose her as how long will I wait to find someone as good again?' Yes I know its about making it true that you can get a new girl any week you like so who gives a shit, but in practice for some of us who struggle, it doesn't work like that. Especially when you are older and the pool of half decent chicks is shrinking.

"Just a friend" simple enough explanation.