Post: #1

So I'm at a smallish house party. I'm bro's with a couple of the guys and there are an even number of hot girls (all of them 7+, being serious). guys are same level though, kinda the odd one out.

My problem is I literally cannot make fun/interesting conversation outside of clubs/classes. I just make everything concise and I suck at bull shitting so long random conversations never happen, nor am I humorous. I was thinking of taking scripts but that got shot down by other users on this forum.

Mentioned also in another thread that I have to repeat myself often, sometimes I don't enunciate nor say it loud enough, but I'm well spoken (in class/clubs and anything career related.)

So what do I do? I've done a ton of interesting stuff (believe me) I just suck at spinning it in an interesting way for people to hear. I'm extremely smart but conversation is my bane.

So I went to the house party and literally left after 20 minutes because I ended up going on my phone a lot since I had nothing to say, and I was just standing around and beginning to look like a weirdo on the side. (people started noticing, making comments).
I probably spoke for less than 1 minute of the 20.

Post: #2

Get on a topic and think of a story that it reminds you of and tell that story. Keep it short and witty.

Take improv classes and read some material on story telling.

Make fun of them in a nice non dick head way.

Make fun of Lindsay Lohan.

Stay confident. Hold the frame. When in doubt ignore them and just let them see you having fun with your friends. Be the life of the party. Plant seeds here and there. Go up to them say a few things and walk away. This way you keep it fresh and when you come up to them later you will have a small history and there will be some mystery/suspense there.

Post: #3

(03-13-2014 12:11 AM)MidniteSpecial Wrote:  Take improv classes and read some material on story telling.

Gotcha, signed up for one next semester. Any recommendation for drills/exercises or material for story telling? Been reading random articles to help

Post: #4

Definitely be seen having a good time with your friends. That'll keep their minds on their own insecurities rather than speculating as to what yours are.

Post: #5

Hey Blackliter,

I used to struggle with this a lot. I'd be in my own head trying to figure out the right thing to say.

Just remove the filter between your mouth and your brain. Say whatever comes to mind.

For example, when you're approaching a group or a person you'll notice something about them. Like a girls eyes, hair or shirt she's wearing.
I've gone up to girls and said "Hey, you're eye are so pretty? Where did you get them?" with a slight smile. Then if they're in a good mood they'll play along with you. If they don't them move along to another girl. Hit her up later in the night when she's had more to drink.