The Philippines thread

In boracay now staying on the lee side of the island near station two. Roosters crowing like crazy and a bit overcast but not raining. Definitely a bit off of the beaten path but it's gorgeous. The views are majestic from up here on top of the hill. Cranky Scandinavian bitch landlady but she's leaving the island shortly so it's ok.

FC and previous trips to Manila yielded two different girls (one a repeat) without an in between shower (hehe honey how's that taste) in an eighteen hour period in the fort before I left. Long distance mall model was a middling six with snaggletooth syndrome but my repeat was as cute as ever and doubly energetic. Got the nights sleep solo as I left to the airport at four am. My buddy picked up his Ghana and Philippines flags in one purported virgin. She cried during sex but I have to admit jealousy over getting the Ghanaian flag in Manila.

More details to come. Boracay looks like it needs skout. Thankfully the wifi is only somewhat awful.

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(04-11-2014 10:03 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  You guys should just shut the fuck up.

How many of you bang such hot chicks that you have to turn down multiple 8s just throwing themselves at you?

Only BlondeChaser, not the rest of you losers.

You should just sit back and listen to what he has to say. Maybe enough of his game will rub off on you chumps that you can stop banging ugly hookers in Asia with the rest of the 60 year old fat guys.

It's not "ugly hookers," RioNomad, it's ugly DARK SKINNED hookers. Get your facts straight, lol.

Dude, Blondechaser couldn't get a boner off a dark skinned beauty if she was an 18 year old virgin with a voluptuous body wrapped in unblemished skin looking up at him while on her knees, with almond eyes set on a face Genghis Khan would fall in love with at first sight, to take a moment's pause from the two hour long blowjob she just gave his limp, racist dick! GTFO of here with that tripe, lol!

In Manila, absolutely, without a doubt, there are 9's and 10's here. They aren't common, not at all, but they're here. I'm talking girls that make you think the pagan goddesses have returned to walk the earth once more. I mean gorgeous face, statuesque body, an elegant poise...just stunning. 7's and 6's are plentiful, far more so than back home in America. Aside from looks though, these girls, the quality ones I mean, are humble, family-oriented, nice human beings, just going about their life, overcoming adversity far above and beyond what any of us have had to overcome, even in our most revisionist autobiographies, and all while keeping their dignity intact. And what's better than that?

I'll give you this, though, thanks to Blondechaser's bias against dark skin, a bias which is actually extremely common, even in the Philippines, dark skinned girls in the Philippines do, in fact, have an inferiority complex vis a vis light skinned beauties. In a way, this is fantastic for those of us that are color-blind (not literally, lol), because it means a guy that might be usually scoring with 6's or 7's could possibly get an 8 or so, if she's dark skinned. This is because she believes herself to be a 6 or a 7, and so does her society, which means, in effect, that she IS a 6 or a 7, but only to her society. In my mind, and to my loins, an 8's and 8, and that's all that matters in my book.

Man, if someone on this forum doesn't like dark skinned girls, that's fine, everyone has their preference, but they should stay the fuck out of the Philippines, and they should stay the fuck off this thread!

That's all I've got to say about that.

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I wonder if BlondeChaser has the same bias against tanned white girls?

So, this tanned blonde girl...



or this Filipina that is four shades lighter?



(If you don't like the particular aesthetics of my choices, just assume that they have equally attractive faces and bodies. Focus on skin tone only.)

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One thing worth thinking about though...

The white skin obsession is common throughout Asia. They sell whitening products everywhere and it's common for the major celebs to be light-skinned. Westerners hear about this and assume that it has some ties to race. They they are "trying to be white" somehow. That they feel inferior as a race. Etc. I can't count how many times I've heard comments like these. The person speaking them may or may not feel superior themselves. They might even encourage those who want to lighten their skin tone to stop and not worry about it. Whether or not they look down on Asians, there always seems to be the assumption that wishing for lighter skin is somehow race-related. Maybe it's because in the west, especially America it seems, race is such a big issue and people are so sensitive to the slightest possibility that something might be related to race. People are very quick to jump to conclusions that every little undesirable outcome must be because of race if the slightest whiff of racial motivation can be imagined.

Meanwhile, lots and lots of whites go out of their way to soak up the sun to catch a nice bronze tan. In recent years, with all the attention given to sun-caused skin cancer, white people want to be tanned so badly, they literally paint themselves a different color. And yet, no one has ever proposed the notion that whites are ashamed of their race, feel inferior or are trying to 'be' black.

A white person gets a tan and people don't assume anything about their psychological state other than the fact that many people like a golden hue to their skin. People say it looks healthy.

But I'd bet all the money I have that if a black person tried to lighten his skin tone, he would be vilified by his own as being self-loathing, trying to be white, ashamed of his own race, etc. Michael Jackson comes to mind. (But MJ was crazy on so many levels it's hard to make any speculation about his motivation regarding anything.) But there are many more.

What I think is interesting is that when white people want to be darker, they do it for aesthetic reasons alone. When anybody other than a Caucasian want to lighten their skin, they are trying to be white, they are ashamed of themselves, they hate their race.

Years ago, pasty white skin was idolized. It is thought that it's because our subconscious made the association with being rich. Rich people stayed indoors and poor farmers and laborers worked outside. When most jobs moved indoors and people started traveling to tropical destinations, being tanned was rare and only something the rich could do. So we started liking tanned skin because of what it represents.

In many Asian countries, poverty is still rife. Lots of people have to work outside. Why isn't THIS the first assumption people make? That light skin is preferred because you can't get light skin by working outside. Only if you have an office job (which normally pays much better) or are rich enough to stay indoors all the time can you have light skin.

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(04-18-2014 10:06 AM)Bix Wrote:  One thing worth thinking about though...

The white skin obsession is common throughout Asia. They sell whitening products everywhere and it's common for the major celebs to be light-skinned. Westerners hear about this and assume that it has some ties to race. They they are "trying to be white" somehow. That they feel inferior as a race. Etc. I can't count how many times I've heard comments like these. The person speaking them may or may not feel superior themselves. They might even encourage those who want to lighten their skin tone to stop and not worry about it. Whether or not they look down on Asians, there always seems to be the assumption that wishing for lighter skin is somehow race-related. Maybe it's because in the west, especially America it seems, race is such a big issue and people are so sensitive to the slightest possibility that something might be related to race. People are very quick to jump to conclusions that every little undesirable outcome must be because of race if the slightest whiff of racial motivation can be imagined.

You're right, Westerners are quick to jump to the racism conclusion, due to the Western prism of race, when in the case of Asia, it's more complicated than that. In many parts of Asia, the preference is for lighter skin, even within those of the same nationality or race, for whatever reason. So, yeah, while Blondechaser's comments weren't truly racist in the Western sense of the word (he doesn't like dark blacks OR dark Asians, so he's equally against dark skin, in whatever race it might be found, and he likes black girls, if they're beige, lol, and he likes light skinned Asians), it just gets old when the trolls beat the same dead horse regarding Filipinas being dark, and how much hotter other East Asian countries' women are, because they have more beautiful women (a.k.a., lighter-skinned women), ad nauseum. There's a difference between stating a preference and trolling, and he crossed that line.

Let's hear it for the dark skinned beauties for once, that's all!

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A lot of the girls will say "god I'm so dark". but they aren't really even that dark. most filipinos are between a certain moderate shade.

Yes it's true that you can get high quality if they have a little darker skin.

To me it's not just skin color, but really more about facial features than anything else.

But it is true that many Asians wish they were white (not just skin color but also racially). I know this because many girls say this. They wish they had caucasian features, and this is extremely common in the Philippines. One thing they love most about white men is the longer nose, and you'll get so many compliments for having a big nose.

It's a huge "fad" if you will, in the Philippines to have a half white baby. They constantly consume american media that portrays white people, so they associate that with positive qualities.

Another note about skin color: some girls inject shit into their skin to become pale. I went on a date with a girl recently and I met her friend. I made a comment like "damn, your friend is really white", she looked korean.

Then the girl I was dating said that her friend had injected something into her skin to make it white. She herself had done it before and showed me a pic of herself with pale skin.

I did a quick google search and found glutathione...not quite sure if that's the stuff they use. So if you meet a girl that's light, she may not be natural.

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Yea gluthatione injections. Had a filipina chick tell me her mom got it. Apparently is v expensive too.

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(04-18-2014 11:25 AM)Tenerife Wrote:  To me it's not just skin color, but really more about facial features than anything else.

That's exactly where I'm at, and body, of course, but yeah, facial features are paramount to me. However, the Filipino culture's insistence on light skin being beautiful is pervasive, so many girls take doing their best to be as light as possible very seriously.

Examples:

1. In Manila, I've seen girls dart over and between bushes NEXT to the sidewalk, just so they can remain in the shadows. THEN they reach the end of the shadow, and it's like they're seriously considering whether they should turn back and and miss work, to avoid making the dash through the sunlight to the next shadow, lol.

2. I told a girl, "you're beautiful," only to have her turn her stunning face down to look at her tanned arms and say, "no, I'm morena (morena means dark)." Face-wise, she was top 1% in the Philippines, top .01% or better in America. Body, she was a 7.

3. I see girls here walking under umbrellas every day. It's not raining.

4. Department stores have entire rows filled with skin whitening cream.

5. When I walk around with a girl here (I love walking, I'll walk over 5 miles some days, just exploring), sometimes, if I happen to be walking around in the sun, I can tell by their movements and discomfort almost immediately upon entering the sunlight that they're looking for the first opportunity to get back in the shade. They'll follow where I lead, but I can tell what they're thinking, lol.

Just a few observations.

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(04-18-2014 11:25 AM)Tenerife Wrote:  Another note about skin color: some girls inject shit into their skin to become pale. I went on a date with a girl recently and I met her friend. I made a comment like "damn, your friend is really white", she looked korean.

Then the girl I was dating said that her friend had injected something into her skin to make it white. She herself had done it before and showed me a pic of herself with pale skin.

I did a quick google search and found glutathione...not quite sure if that's the stuff they use. So if you meet a girl that's light, she may not be natural.

I wasn't even aware of that. Nasty side effects, according to a medical website:

"IV injections can easily cause glutathione overdose due to sudden increase of glutathione in the body causing side effects like stomach ache, diarrhea, kidney failure, blood poisoning, Stevens-Johnson syndrome (SJS) and toxic epidermal necrolysis (TEN). Because of this, the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) issued an advisory disapproving its use as skin whitener."

"Taking capsule forms, though approved by FDA, also poses its own danger. Among its side effects experienced by the users were skin rashes, diarrhea, headaches, itchiness, chills and acne breakouts, which take time to manifest and less severe compared to injection."

That's horrible. Society shouldn't pressure women into taking these kinds of measures. Eating healthy to look one's best and maintain a high level of physical and mental well being is something I adamantly support, but this kind of stuff? No way, it's not right. Imagine if you had a daughter that was dark, and you saw her injecting this filth into herself? We can do better than that.

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(04-18-2014 12:16 PM)Spaniard88 Wrote:  That's horrible. Society shouldn't pressure women into taking these kinds of measures. Eating healthy to look one's best and maintain a high level of physical and mental well being is something I adamantly support, but this kind of stuff? No way, it's not right. Imagine if you had a daughter that was dark, and you saw her injecting this filth into herself? We can do better than that.

"If I ever catch you with an umbrella and it's not raining, I'll slap that shit out of your hand." -Me

Now to get this thread back on topic:

Where is the best part of the island to find the blackest girls that no one on RVF wants? I'm not a tourist anymore so it doesn't matter if it is off the beaten path that's hard to reach. As long as they've got a hotel with aircon in the place haha. I hear Mindinao is good but does this apply to Davao? What parts other than Davao are safe-ish?

I'd smash the hell out of Lyla Lei (Not Pinay but still):

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I'm in Davao now. Online game definitely "feels" different here. I have to message more girls, chat for longer, etc to get the meetup. Feels like more work.

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What would be the best way to find good modern apartment or even small house in Davao ? I obviously don't want overpriced internet site where they are targeting only foreigners, place where "rich" locals would go search for it ?

Thanks.

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Bigboyz - Are you in Davao now?

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Not yet, will get here in about 2 weeks.

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(04-19-2014 12:45 PM)JJJames Wrote:  I'm in Davao now. Online game definitely "feels" different here. I have to message more girls, chat for longer, etc to get the meetup. Feels like more work.

It is more work. Don't say I didn't warn you.

Another factor fucking everything up: holy week and summer holidays.

It's ridiculous how many girls are in the province right now, or at a beach. Most of my top girls are out of town. It sucks. I've still got girls every day, but I wish I could be at a white sand beach now instead of paying for this apartment lease. Time for island hopping.

I went to some clubs the other night. It was a complete sausage fest. Worst I've seen it. All it was was foreign sausage clogging the club. All the girls are out of town, along with many filipino dudes, so you've got a bunch of foreign guys roaming around.

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I just started using the dating app Skout the other day.

I'm not sure how I feel about it.

It's extremely popular in Phils, and is a bit badoo-like in the sense that it tries to get you to make micro payments using points that you buy, to unlock certain features. For example, if a girl is really popular, you can only talk to her if you pay some points. A little chili peppers shows up on her face as you scan for new prospects.

The disgusting thing is that many of these "hot" members are ladyboys.

I saw one of these people was popular, but then 20 minutes later that chili pepper came off so I started chatting and transitioned to viber, where I asked if it was a ladyboy. Turns out, yep.

I keep getting messaged by ladyboys on it. Seems like kind of a pain. We'll see if it produces any results.

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I tried SKOUT out in Boracay. I got a ton of messages from dudes (Wtf, until I realized I was set to men looking for men, is that the default setting in the Philippines, just asking). Then after correcting the setting, I got messages from ladyboys, dudes, a few girls far away from Boracay, and a manicurist who wanted to know if I needed a clipping and polish.

Overall, not worth the time, and I didnt even spend any money on it. Also, I downloaded some other app to get points credit, and like I recall from before, Skout didn't give me the free credits for the download. Deleted.

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(04-20-2014 12:50 AM)Tenerife Wrote:  

(04-19-2014 12:45 PM)JJJames Wrote:  I'm in Davao now. Online game definitely "feels" different here. I have to message more girls, chat for longer, etc to get the meetup. Feels like more work.

It is more work. Don't say I didn't warn you.

Another factor fucking everything up: holy week and summer holidays.

It's ridiculous how many girls are in the province right now, or at a beach. Most of my top girls are out of town. It sucks. I've still got girls every day, but I wish I could be at a white sand beach now instead of paying for this apartment lease. Time for island hopping.

I went to some clubs the other night. It was a complete sausage fest. Worst I've seen it. All it was was foreign sausage clogging the club. All the girls are out of town, along with many filipino dudes, so you've got a bunch of foreign guys roaming around.

Also, Mindanao girls are a LOT more conservative than girls from elsewhere, to the point that you have a lot lower chance of banging them on a first date. It's frustrating. Especially since your exotic value is so much higher in a place like Davao compared to Manila, but the girls simply won't put out, or even go to your place at all.

Even in Manila if a girl is from a rural Mindanao province, my chance of banging her is not that good.

Case in a point, a girl took a taxi straight to my place, got her to the pad, and I asked where she's from. misamis! god damn it. she's currently on the otherside of my apartment just sitting there and completely rejecting my advances.

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Tenerife - You in Davao now? Wanna meet up?

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How is it renting a motorbike in the Philippines? Havent done it since 2006. My guess its like every other southeast asian country. Under the table.

Anybody will be in Cebu? Will be there by this weekend.

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(04-21-2014 12:59 PM)JJJames Wrote:  Tenerife - You in Davao now? Wanna meet up?

Hey JJJames,

Are you the same guy I met in the Marco Polo lobby? The Pearl Dev?

You mentioned a group of guys meet on Thursdays?

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Nope ... ... Not me but if there's a meetup on Thursday, I'd love to check it out.

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http://www.theguardian.com/world/2014/ap...hilippines

Guy got killed by a security guard he fired cause the guy showed up drunk for work. It sucks how many guns are floating around, am surprise that this kind of stuff doesn't happen more frequently.

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(04-22-2014 01:35 AM)ChrisGambi Wrote:  http://www.theguardian.com/world/2014/ap...hilippines

Guy got killed by a security guard he fired cause the guy showed up drunk for work. It sucks how many guns are floating around, am surprise that this kind of stuff doesn't happen more frequently.

What do the number of guns "floating around" have to do with random acts of violence?

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(04-22-2014 02:33 AM)Dagnasty Wrote:  

(04-22-2014 01:35 AM)ChrisGambi Wrote:  http://www.theguardian.com/world/2014/ap...hilippines

Guy got killed by a security guard he fired cause the guy showed up drunk for work. It sucks how many guns are floating around, am surprise that this kind of stuff doesn't happen more frequently.

What do the number of guns "floating around" have to do with random acts of violence?

oh nothing. if he hadn't had a gun he would have inflicted the bullet wounds with a knife.

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