Post: #1

It should be every player’s goal to get a girl into bed as soon as possible. I’m not much of a public sex type of guy so my first step is usually getting them back to my place.

This thread is about the things you say to get girls to go back to your place for the first time.

I hardly ever do ‘dates’—my little harem keeps me busy—so when I do go out I solely look for the ONS. Last night I met a girl, was really connecting with her for about 45 minutes, and I was trying to get her to agree to come back to my place. I asked her if she wanted to have a drink somewhere else, she said ‘where?’ and when I said my place, she shut down. Pushed it too fast. Anyway it got me thinking…

Although some sluts make it clear that they want to go home and get fucked, and all they need to hear is “Let’s get out of here”, many girls need to ration out some reason why they are coming back to a perfect strangers place within minutes of meeting him. Here are a number of different types of ‘bait’ that I have used to get girls to agree to come back with me.

Booze
Number 1 in my book…nothing is hotter than meeting a girl out and then an hour later asking her if she wants to try some good wine. I always have a bottle of malbec…just in case she actually wants a drink when we get home. Another thing that works well is home-infused liquor. I have a jar of jalapeño infused tequila and a jar of rum infused with a bunch of herbs from the Amazon—its an aphrodisiac—the mixture is gurana, cacao and maca…look it up.

Food
Close up there with booze, depends on the circumstance—talking about food with a girl is a good way to get her aroused and excited. I usually have one nice type of cheese in the fridge, some prosciutto, or some homemade hummus—chicks love all those things. On the way back to mine I like to get very sexual with it saying things like ‘I can’t wait to taste you’ and licking her neck. Most of the time we don’t end up eating anything and satisfy our appetites with sex.

Art
I always try to collect something made by a local when I travel. I have amassed quite a collection that is prominently displayed on some shelves in my room. On a trip back in February I had a stitching made of a vision I had under the influence of ayahuasca. I have this framed and on display. Many of my ONS this year have been invited back to come see my ‘vision’ that was created by a shaman.

Music
This was used a lot when I was young and really into the underground scene. I would invite girls to come back to listen to Fugazi records. I still have a few classic albums on record—girls like the novelty of listening to vinyl. Light a couple of candles and listen to the needle hit the record—sexy time.

Absurd Shit
Depending on how weird the girl is and how bizarre our conversation has been, sometimes I will say “you need to come back to my place and use my time machine” or “you know that machine from Honey I Shrunk the Kids…I have one of those”. Again…this sort of silliness is reserved for kooky girls—and girls on drugs.

Drugs
This works especially well with…girls who like drugs. They will sometimes ask me to go do some in the bathroom at the bar and then I say, ‘I like wine with my coke…lets go have some at my place’. I don’t indulge often, but there is usually a little stash of weed and coke in my apartment for situations that call for it.

Plants
There are lots of plants around my abode and I like talking about them and the benefits of living with lots of greenery. Girls react strongly to plant talk if you take it seriously. I led a couple of bohemian chicks back to my place strictly because of flora flirts.

Books
There is a large collection of literature in my room and I have invited girls over to come see a few first edition prints of Vonnegut and Orwell. This works especially well with English teachers and Phd students. There is also a John Waters quote stuck to my refrigerator that says, “if you go home with someone and they don’t have any books, don’t fuck them.”

Animals
When I was in college I had a couple of lizards and a snake. Many girls came over to ‘feed the snake’. And the snake certainly got fed.

Anyone else want to share some strategies that they utilize?

Post: #2

I think it helps to frame your bait as something new to YOU - otherwise it may come across as some bait that you use on "all the other girls." Eg, I just put up this Impressionist painting in my room, we can do a personal art reception." Show some enthusiasm, and again pretend it's new so that you're not just boasting about your possessions.

Post: #3

(06-17-2014 04:43 PM)Basil Ransom Wrote:  I think it helps to frame your bait as something new to YOU - otherwise it may come across as some bait that you use on "all the other girls." Eg, I just put up this Impressionist painting in my room, we can do a personal art reception." Show some enthusiasm, and again pretend it's new so that you're not just boasting about your possessions.

Would a friend come over and look at the picture he knows, or would he come over to look at your brand new piece of art/furniture/electronics/sports equipment/exclusive alcohol brand?
She is a new friend, at least for a few hours.

Post: #4

I just got a cool new personal massager from Brookstone, $150. McQueen saw it and said it would be a great conversation piece to get chicks back to your place.

Also in the past on dates, I talked about my juicer and all the cool shit I'd been making. It was a perfect way to bounce to my place after a hike or even after a bar. We would swing by Trader Joe's and buy ingredients, then I'd show off my skills and make a fresh delicious juice. Bonus points for making fit-juice.com's Blood of Life, which gets the sex drive going with all the beets.

Post: #5

A lot of good ideas in the thread.

I'm in the top floor of an a 5 floor, old school building in NYC. We have roof access through a private staircase from our apartment. Mentioning roof access with a solid view in the city is golden.

Lately it's the main line I drop to bring girls back. I always mention the great view of the river and city skyline. Several girls have brought it up later in the date asking to check it out.

Post: #6

(06-17-2014 05:54 PM)Macklin Wrote:  A lot of good ideas in the thread.

I'm in the top floor of an a 5 floor, old school building in NYC. We have roof access through a private staircase from our apartment. Mentioning roof access with a solid view in the city is golden.

Lately it's the main line I drop to bring girls back. I always mention the great view of the river and city skyline. Several girls have brought it up later in the date asking to check it out.

Ah yes, how could I forget the old 'skyline view' lure. When I used to do couchsurfing dates, that used to get the foreign pussy back to mine real quick. "Lets have a smoke on my roof and check out the city skyline."

It works great for chicks who are new in town.

Bangin on the roof.

Post: #7

I really like OP's list

I use the, "hey, my place is right around the corner (from this bar), I've got to grab some more cash cause I'm low right now and then we'll come right back." But definitely should incorporate some of OPs bait.

Post: #8

Some good ideas, thanks!

My brother and I home brew so I always keep a reserve of my "special" homemade ale that I can easily talk up. The amount of chicks who think they're experts on craft beer now is amazing. Showing that I know more and dropping the hint that I've made better (even if I haven't) is a surprisingly good way to get them to come over.

Food is a great idea as you mentioned. I always keep some fresh homemade pasta on hand which we make in my restaurant which is also a draw for some, and some really good coffee.

I don't do drugs anymore but when I did the only one i shared with chicks was weed. I would also say it was some organic stuff my hippy friend grew. I also had a four foot bong which got chicks over all the time in college. I hit more than the four footer most times

Thats about it, besides movies. I keep some classics on hand and a favorite as of late is Tommy Boy. I can't believe how many younger chicks don't know who Chris Farley was and I clown on them for it and talk up the movie which makes them want to see it. Then, lucky them, I have it.

What else are you guys using?

Post: #9

Harry Potter box set. I dont use it anymore but girls who literally go ape shit for that little guy.

Works for shit talking in the club or fishing them over on a rainy night.

I have fucked more girls using HP as bait than any other single item/prop.

I even brought some girls to the expo and I got some photos wearing the hats and scarves.

For even more success combine Harry Potter with weed.

Post: #10

Another thing is massage oil.

Not nessesarily to get them into the apartment but to get things physical once they are in the apartment.

I always leave it out close to the bed -'oh whats this' $$$.

Step one: massage their back 'your bra strap is going to get ruined, im leaving it open' - Pop it off

Step two: focus on their neck, lower back/top of ass, wrists. I planting the seed that Im aggressive in bed.

Step three: Kinda optional but I always do it. While massaging Ill also start biting/kissing their neck and back. Slowly at first but then more sensual and aggressive.

Step four: flip em over: bras undone so tits are out, top is off and they should be soaking wet.

Edit: forgot step five: fuck them. That ones important.
Additional notes: get your massage first if your frame is tight. Extra points for not skipping back days.

Post: #11

They just legalized ferrets in NYC.. What chick wouldn't want to come over to meet your ferret?

"We have to stop at my place for min to feed my ferret"

Post: #12

Heh. Animals are fucking awesome but the problem is they eat and shit. I don't have time for that.

Maybe you could get a stuffed one. How great would it be to invite her over to "come see the platypus" and there he is, mounted on the wall.

Post: #13

Always have an iPhone charger (both adapters) even if you don't have one. Girls phones seem to always be running low and the good ol' "you can charge your phone back at my place" has worked for me before.

Post: #14

(06-18-2014 01:28 AM)Atlantic Wrote:  Another thing is massage oil.

Not nessesarily to get them into the apartment but to get things physical once they are in the apartment.

While I don't generally give girls massages in order to seduce them, this is a tried and true SERIOUS interest creator. I have a massage table and multiple good smelling massage oils in my living room, just because the thing is DAMN comfortable (even just to sit on) and it's easier than putting it away all the time.

It INSTANTLY gets interest and is impressive to most people that walk into my house. Even if it doesn't make girls want to get a massage right away, it definitely piques their interest. I actually take massage pretty seriously (as in I didn't get into it just to massage girls, but obviously that's my preference) and will massage friends (both male/female) from time to time just to help them out (shorter massage) if they've got a specific issue or on the table (longer massage) for money.

My frame is pretty solid this way and despite girls shit-testing me hard about it sometimes, when I pass it definitely makes them interested in fucking me, even if they don't fuck me that moment. From time to time I'll massage right on the beach and it's hilarious the interest it brings.

It's very powerful in women's minds when you can make other people (especially other women) melt at your touch (or wince in pain at how hard you're working out a knot and then be amazed and sing your praises at how much you helped them with just 10 mins of tissue work just with the strength of your fingers/knowledge).

(06-18-2014 01:00 PM)Drazen Wrote:  Always have an iPhone charger (both adapters) even if you don't have one. Girls phones seem to always be running low and the good ol' "you can charge your phone back at my place" has worked for me before.

Yes, totally a way to bring a girl back, never thought of that outright, but I just recently added a charger for iPhone 4, iPhone 5, and both Mini and Micro USB for various generations of Android based products and Go Pros and it has been AMAZINGLY useful. You can find cables online that are extra long, those are really nice to have. I put these right next to my entertainment system so people can charge their phones and be DJ simultaneously. Chicks love playing you their favorite artist/song once they hear your music/nice sound system.

Otherwise, I use the following aspects of my place:

Nice sound system/tv with tv shows/netflix, good music.

Nicely stocked bar and wine rack

Pictures of me doing cool shit (I plan to expand this to some of my photography printed on canvas type display)

Karaoke System!

Patio with a half decent view of the water/pier, BBQ, etc...

Post: #15

I don't have one myself as I don't have the available space, but having a kick-ass aquarium is a real draw. Something unique with lots of lights, etc.

Post: #16

I figured this one out by accident, but it's probably one of the best. Tell her, "I need to pick up my dry cleaning. Come with me." After you pick up the dry cleaning, the next stop is obviously your home or hotel room. You then have her where she needs to be.

Post: #17

Your cock.

Whip it out and start running. If she likes what she sees, she'll run in her heels after you.

Post: #18

I recently bought a blender to make better protein shakes after the gym, but I've used it a couple times as an excuse to pivot back to my place ("let's make some frozen margaritas, I've been dying to try this thing out") that worked well. none of your reasons have to be elaborate ruses, just an excuse to keep the hamster wheel spinning.

Post: #19

(06-18-2014 06:50 PM)kmhour Wrote:  I recently bought a blender to make better protein shakes after the gym, but I've used it a couple times as an excuse to pivot back to my place ("let's make some frozen margaritas, I've been dying to try this thing out") that worked well. none of your reasons have to be elaborate ruses, just an excuse to keep the hamster wheel spinning.

How long did it take for you guys to build this stuff out? This whole gaming to win here is starting to feel like a massive time commitment.

Post: #20

(06-17-2014 04:16 PM)Goldmund Wrote:  Music
This was used a lot when I was young and really into the underground scene. I would invite girls to come back to listen to Fugazi records.

This is the first time in recorded history that Fugazi was used to remove panties

Post: #21

(06-18-2014 10:03 PM)Vaun Wrote:  

(06-17-2014 04:16 PM)Goldmund Wrote:  Music
This was used a lot when I was young and really into the underground scene. I would invite girls to come back to listen to Fugazi records.

This is the first time in recorded history that Fugazi was used to remove panties

Hahaha...they would all say that they 'looooved fugazi' and then we would come back, listen to 2 Fugazi songs...and then put on The Cure because they couldn't handle it.

Post: #22

(06-17-2014 04:16 PM)Goldmund Wrote:  It should be every player’s goal to get a girl into bed as soon as possible. I’m not much of a public sex type of guy so my first step is usually getting them back to my place.

This thread is about the things you say to get girls to go back to your place for the first time.

I hardly ever do ‘dates’—my little harem keeps me busy—so when I do go out I solely look for the ONS. Last night I met a girl, was really connecting with her for about 45 minutes, and I was trying to get her to agree to come back to my place. I asked her if she wanted to have a drink somewhere else, she said ‘where?’ and when I said my place, she shut down. Pushed it too fast. Anyway it got me thinking…

Although some sluts make it clear that they want to go home and get fucked, and all they need to hear is “Let’s get out of here”, many girls need to ration out some reason why they are coming back to a perfect strangers place within minutes of meeting him. Here are a number of different types of ‘bait’ that I have used to get girls to agree to come back with me.

Booze
Number 1 in my book…nothing is hotter than meeting a girl out and then an hour later asking her if she wants to try some good wine. I always have a bottle of malbec…just in case she actually wants a drink when we get home. Another thing that works well is home-infused liquor. I have a jar of jalapeño infused tequila and a jar of rum infused with a bunch of herbs from the Amazon—its an aphrodisiac—the mixture is gurana, cacao and maca…look it up.

Food
Close up there with booze, depends on the circumstance—talking about food with a girl is a good way to get her aroused and excited. I usually have one nice type of cheese in the fridge, some prosciutto, or some homemade hummus—chicks love all those things. On the way back to mine I like to get very sexual with it saying things like ‘I can’t wait to taste you’ and licking her neck. Most of the time we don’t end up eating anything and satisfy our appetites with sex.

Art
I always try to collect something made by a local when I travel. I have amassed quite a collection that is prominently displayed on some shelves in my room. On a trip back in February I had a stitching made of a vision I had under the influence of ayahuasca. I have this framed and on display. Many of my ONS this year have been invited back to come see my ‘vision’ that was created by a shaman.

Music
This was used a lot when I was young and really into the underground scene. I would invite girls to come back to listen to Fugazi records. I still have a few classic albums on record—girls like the novelty of listening to vinyl. Light a couple of candles and listen to the needle hit the record—sexy time.

Absurd Shit
Depending on how weird the girl is and how bizarre our conversation has been, sometimes I will say “you need to come back to my place and use my time machine” or “you know that machine from Honey I Shrunk the Kids…I have one of those”. Again…this sort of silliness is reserved for kooky girls—and girls on drugs.

Drugs
This works especially well with…girls who like drugs. They will sometimes ask me to go do some in the bathroom at the bar and then I say, ‘I like wine with my coke…lets go have some at my place’. I don’t indulge often, but there is usually a little stash of weed and coke in my apartment for situations that call for it.

Plants
There are lots of plants around my abode and I like talking about them and the benefits of living with lots of greenery. Girls react strongly to plant talk if you take it seriously. I led a couple of bohemian chicks back to my place strictly because of flora flirts.

Books
There is a large collection of literature in my room and I have invited girls over to come see a few first edition prints of Vonnegut and Orwell. This works especially well with English teachers and Phd students. There is also a John Waters quote stuck to my refrigerator that says, “if you go home with someone and they don’t have any books, don’t fuck them.”

Animals
When I was in college I had a couple of lizards and a snake. Many girls came over to ‘feed the snake’. And the snake certainly got fed.

Anyone else want to share some strategies that they utilize?

This is an awesome post!

Getting girls back to your house is such an important part of getting sex.

I feel like this topic deserves some attention.

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Here my strategy:

I tell every girl that I just bought a new condo with a sweet view of the city. (I actually bought the condo 5 years ago and it only has a view of one part of the city)

I suggest alcohol and weed.

I mention that I have HBO and Showtime. (Most college girls do not have these expensive cable channels)

I bait them with offers of food. (college girls are sick of cafeteria food)

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My suggestions for a date are always something like this..

wanna come over and help me make sushi?"

"wanna come over later, im gonna get chinese food and watch game of thrones"

"wanna smoke at my house later, i got a new vaporizer and im gonna get a pizza"

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I always ask what her favorite food is.. What her favorite tv shows are.. What her favorite music is.. Her favorite beer, etc.

I remember those things so I can use them to "bait" her later..

If she tells me that she likes Italian food, German beer, and romantic comedies..

I will say..

"hey, what are you doing later? I'm gonna make my famous spaghetti with meat sauce if you wanna hang out. I'm gonna get a 6pack of Hefeweizen also"

I might even text her a picture of the food and drinks just to further engage her emotions. (just like a fast food commercial on television)

I don't "bait" her with things I LIKE, I BAIT HER WITH THINGS SHE LIKES!

Post: #23

I just got a notch by suggesting playing video games on my original super nintendo. She was the nerdy, artsy type though. I doubt this would work well for most.

Post: #24

This past weekend my place was kinda far from all the action (but still walking distance). I used my "i gotta grab some cash quick, I'm all out of cash" very successfully. Bitches want you to buy them drinks and heaven forbid you don't have the cash. If she says no to you to get some cash so you can buy her more free shit then she's not going to go with you.

Surprisingly, only once did i get shit-tested "why don't you just go to an atm" the answer's easy...I don't have an ATM card (or I left my atm card at my place with the cash!)

Post: #25

Most recently I've been using Mustang Wanted, the Youtube stuntman to some success. Always tower cranes up in the cities, and if not a bridge, high building, etc, so it flows to say OMG, ever see those Ukranians who do the crazy stunts? And they say fear and excitement are related... Otherwise I'd echo that food has been a reliable standby.