Post: #1

If you're starting out in game-seeming thirsty works against you.

What are smart ways to defeat that scarcity mindset so many dudes on the street (at least in the US) have?

Post: #2

(06-29-2014 10:10 PM)J556 Wrote:  If you're starting out in game-seeming thirsty works against you.

What are smart ways to defeat that scarcity mindset so many dudes on the street (at least in the US) have?

There's no easy way.

You won't leave the scarcity mindset until you experience the abundance that life has to offer.

Most people are too scared to try.
Those who try, are often too scared to keep going.

And then you find those few souls who push past everything and ask themselves, "Is this all there is?"

WIA

Post: #3

The only way to experience true abundance is to travel and see it first hand.

Post: #4

Everybody seems to think that an abundance mentality is always better than a scarcity mentality, but is it? Can you have too much of an abundance mentality?

I have turned down great job opportunities thinking I could do better, but then had to settle for less.

I have turned down attractive girls for stupid reasons and then had to go through a dry spell and settle for about 2 points less attractive ones.

I understand that optimism and over-confidence are generally good, within reason, but becoming delusional is not a good thing.

Post: #5

The key in my mind is go where your skill level and look will put you in the upper echelon compared to your peers.

If you do not have the talent nor style to pull models in a high end lounge, don't go there.

A Cosplay convention will have a fuckton of herbs. That's low competition to a beginning player.

Go where you stand out.

Post: #6

Women are like elevators and buses. Wait 2 minutes and another one will come right on by.

Post: #7

How to change from Scarcity mentality to Abundance mentality: Perception.

When I was reading a book on The Millionaire Mindset, the author mentioned a story on how he had never seen a champagne colored Bentley in his 50 + years and decided to buy it on the spot. He noticed that after he bought it, he was able to spot like at least 4 Bentleys of that color after that.

When you've never heard a word in your life, then you hear it twice in a day. The reason the richer get richer and the poorer get poorer.

"Tell me what books you're reading, your actions, who are your mentors, who are the 5 friends you hang out the most, and I'll tell you who you are and who you'll become" - Can't remember who said it.

It's all about putting yourself in a position where you can see abundance and abundance becomes your new operating system.

If you're broke, save up your money and eat at a real expensive restaurant, maybe even take out a rich guy and invite him to an expensive meal and pick his brain and go for the ultimate experience, your brain will start catching a pattern and this will become your new normal. Make rich friends, hang out at Country clubs, Fly in first class, expensive bars.

If you're learning to have an abundance of women, practice game and hang out with guys who get laid a lot, this will become your new normal and you'll begin mirroring their success, you will think in different ways and you will see success where there was none. Like WIA said, experience will be the best teacher. You can find them at your school, Gym, seminars, at VIP tables in clubs, bartenders and photographers (these guys get laid a lot). Also rich guys like in the above paragraph (sometimes though).

Also, Visualizing. Every night before you go to sleep, picture yourself with money, pussy being thrown at you, whatever you want and actually feeling like a king. Feel satisfied and you'll find that when you go to sleep, your subconscious will be working towards that goal. Next morning you'll find yourself "wanting" to go explore different places, maybe running into girls and feeling attracted towards them, approach them. Trust your Gut, it will point you in the right direction.

Surround with pictures of girls being bubbly, happy, giving you sex eyes and biting their lips, get comfortable seeing this, and you'll find more where that comes from. The first thing I look at when I come into people's houses is their decoration and misplaced items because it says a lot more about them than their words ever will (kinda like that show from MTV, Raid my House, where the girls "dated" someone based on the guys' rooms or house items). Keep it organized.

Look at the books you read, your mentors, your friends, your goals and plans. Trust me, pussy will seem to fall out of the sky.

Simon

Post: #8

(06-30-2014 08:37 PM)Brodiaga Wrote:  Everybody seems to think that an abundance mentality is always better than a scarcity mentality, but is it? Can you have too much of an abundance mentality?

I have turned down great job opportunities thinking I could do better, but then had to settle for less.

I have turned down attractive girls for stupid reasons and then had to go through a dry spell and settle for about 2 points less attractive ones.

I understand that optimism and over-confidence are generally good, within reason, but becoming delusional is not a good thing.

I find having an abundance mentality makes me lazy and complacent. The times when I do go balls to the wall and game hard are when I haven't pulled in a while. Likewise when I'm making money I'm comfortable doing what I'm doing. When I'm broke I really start to hustle and get out there.