Post: #1

Here it is the girl i meet Here I finally got her out and took her out for ice cream then we went to a park near by. We hooked up and I fingered her, she seemed into it.

So fast foward to this week, I call her and ask her what she is doing today, she says nothing , so i suggest we kick it, she is down( we only have a hour and a half to kick it because she has to meet her dad). We go to my house (I live with my mom tho she is gone for this week) where we watch Mulan.

During the movie she is snuggling up next to me, I make some awkward movements at the beginning but then settle down and we start making out and I start to fool around with her, but she dosent seem as into it as she was at the park. shortly after she ask what time it is because I have to take her to meet her dad ( she told her dad she was at the local Jounior College, when we were really kicking it)

Now, I only have a day or two until my mom comes home and im trying to smash. I asked her what her schedule looked like tomorrow and she didn't seem to sure, she said she didn't want to commit to hainging out because she dosent know what she will be doing.

Tomorrow is essentially my last shot at getting her over to drink and hangout. Im thinking I should just call her after my work ( i get off round 7ish) and then go from there.

I feel like the sex gods are teasing me

What do you all think? You thoughts and critics are welcome.

Post: #2

Did you just stop escalating when she "didn't seem into it" during the movie? Shoulda backed off slightly at resistance, kept her simmering, and escalated again 5 minutes later. Persistence.

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So... why can't you just bang her when your mom's home? You didn't answer that in the other thread you linked.

I banged all kinds of girls at my parents' place growing up. I didn't realize it until later, but my bedroom floor (over the kitchen) is reaaal thin so any time I was banging, they knew. Which means they knew I was cheating on my LTR with a bunch of different girls, I guess. They never said anything about it to this day.

If you really, really can't just bang this chick at her house or yours, which I don't get because the girl is 19 and IDK how old you are but I assume around the same, well, you might just not get the lay. It happens to the best of us.

Public sex is an option, just bang her someplace secluded after dark. Take her to a movie, tease her by rubbing her pussy and pinching her nipples through her clothes through the whole movie, and fuck her in your car in a parking lot on the way home. Or, you know, any number of variations on that theme.

I banged a girl on a dock along a canal after school once, like 3 pm in the afternoon in broad daylight. Bang her in your car, I had sex in my car plenty of times when I was in my teens. In the HS parking lot in broad daylight more than once. Got caught by a cop when I was a freshman in college, banging this girl at a state park after the park had closed in the back of her Cherokee. He was cool about it, just made sure we were both legal age. I've been blown in hotel stairways and on crowded buses. I could go on for awhile. Think outside the box, man!

My point is, don't get all desperate and pushy because you feel like your window is closing. There are plenty of other options besides banging her at your place. Just be cool. You might have to disengage for awhile and reconnect later. But if you come off as desperate you for sure won't get the lay. Ever.


P.S. Are you trying to meet other chicks? You should be, don't just focus on one. You'll be much less inclined to do desperate stuff when you have options.

Post: #3

(07-24-2014 12:48 AM)Sketness Wrote:  (I live with my mom tho she is gone for this week) where we watch Mulan.

Watching Mulan Was Beta. Watching the porn spin off of Mulan would have closed the deal.

Post: #4

(07-24-2014 01:15 AM)weambulance Wrote:  Did you just stop escalating when she "didn't seem into it" during the movie? Shoulda backed off slightly at resistance, kept her simmering, and escalated again 5 minutes later. Persistence.

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So... why can't you just bang her when your mom's home? You didn't answer that in the other thread you linked.

I banged all kinds of girls at my parents' place growing up. I didn't realize it until later, but my bedroom floor (over the kitchen) is reaaal thin so any time I was banging, they knew. Which means they knew I was cheating on my LTR with a bunch of different girls, I guess. They never said anything about it to this day.

If you really, really can't just bang this chick at her house or yours, which I don't get because the girl is 19 and IDK how old you are but I assume around the same, well, you might just not get the lay. It happens to the best of us.

Public sex is an option, just bang her someplace secluded after dark. Take her to a movie, tease her by rubbing her pussy and pinching her nipples through her clothes through the whole movie, and fuck her in your car in a parking lot on the way home. Or, you know, any number of variations on that theme.

I banged a girl on a dock along a canal after school once, like 3 pm in the afternoon in broad daylight. Bang her in your car, I had sex in my car plenty of times when I was in my teens. In the HS parking lot in broad daylight more than once. Got caught by a cop when I was a freshman in college, banging this girl at a state park after the park had closed in the back of her Cherokee. He was cool about it, just made sure we were both legal age. I've been blown in hotel stairways and on crowded buses. I could go on for awhile. Think outside the box, man!

My point is, don't get all desperate and pushy because you feel like your window is closing. There are plenty of other options besides banging her at your place. Just be cool. You might have to disengage for awhile and reconnect later. But if you come off as desperate you for sure won't get the lay. Ever.


P.S. Are you trying to meet other chicks? You should be, don't just focus on one. You'll be much less inclined to do desperate stuff when you have options.

To anwser some of your questions i dont feel that i could disrespect my moms house by banging a girl while she is there i would feel weird im 23 and just graduated from college. I thought about banging in my car but im a pretty big guy so the both of us would not fit that well.

I like what you said about disengaging for a while then reconnecting. Ive been approaching other girls as well. I think the main thing like you said is not to come off as desperate