Momo and WeChat:
You can only get these apps on smartphones...don't make the same mistake I did; buy your smartphone on like the 26th, 27th of the month, then go to your carrier that day and sign up for a data plan that activates on the first of the next month...trust me, it will save you a big pain in the ass and a lot of money doing this.
WeChat is a WhatsAPP-style rapid-messaging service. You can pull girls off it (go to the 'discover' icon,'people nearby' and 'females only', I try to add 2-3 a week this way). It's international so you can also use WeChat to talk to your people back home, easier than Skype (but not as heavily encrypted...don't talk about sensitive shit over it).
When you approach a group of Chinese girls, getting a number might not be so easy, but getting her WeChat? That's kid game.
Any China-based RVFers can PM me for my WeChat ID.
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Momo is the Chinese Tinder. Set it up, walk to a university and activate it. I know a guy who has absolutely ZERO game that pulls girls off of Momo every few weeks. Only available on Apple and Android platforms.
Momo is good because if you have it, you will get pinged and can ping, so therefore you have an endless stream of prospects, and also because there are a lot of 'okay' but still fuckable girls for easy bangs, but also a lot of very attractive girls if you're fishing for an LTR or a #1 (as I will mention, just because she's on Momo, doesn't mean she's automatically DTF).
There was an English Momo, but they cancelled it in July so I'm back to Chinese. I've had it for 9 weeks and have fucked 7 girls I pulled off it (just ping 5-10 girls a day, keep your data topped up and always stay logged in when you travel - my good friend has had English Momo since the start and has fucked at least 30...but the difference is that I go for 18-22 and 27-32 (23-26 these girls get ultra-marriage minded, stay away), he goes for 18-45, and I only fuck cute girls, he fucks whoever he can line it up with). The oldest was a 33-year old divorcee who drove an Audi, the youngest was 18 (I had a few 18 year olds...most are 19-24). You could only get English Momo on the iPhone from the google store, it was discontinued on July 5th. Chinese Momo is available on Apple and Android platforms.
Momo: How I do it:
I had a bit of a steep learning curve with Momo; having never done any OL thing before, it was all new to me so I had to learn, it took me about two weeks. Anyone coming to China, I hope this helps so you don't make the same mistakes I made. I won't lie and say that Momo guarantees you sex (though once you learn the ways, it's easy), but it guarantees you a steady stream of sexual prospects.
After July 5th 2014, you can only get it in Chinese, but eventually you will learn how it all works. As it is now just in Chinese, you will require a Chinese person you can trust (...) to help you get set up.
Since English Momo is gone (I did not delete it from my Phone in case they bring it back) this will be moot, but nonetheless, they both offer different strengths and weaknesses.
English Momo is in English which is huge, and you can search by location update time (which was clutch) and you could ping anyone; but there isn't a lot of girls on it and you're in direct competition with the foreigners (the gameless, clueless, broke idiot foreigners who only hang out with other foreigners and go to the foreign bars, that comprise about 70% of the foreigners, generally lock into LTRs with mediocre girls within 2-3 months of arrival and stay off Momo; you're up against the big dogs on Momo, shine bright).
Chinese Momo is in freaky Chinese, has a whole bunch of shit that I have no idea what it is, connectivity is unreliable at times (even when WeChat is operational, Chinese Momo will at times be down, I have no clue why) and a 'star system' (the longer you're registered and the more female followers you have, I think, the more stars you get, and I think you can pay for stars too), and you can only ping girls with as much or less stars than you have, but I have found a way around this; you can ping higher-star girls if you follow them. There are WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY more girls on Chinese Momo. I wish I could still use both.
While ostensibly for banging, and you can easily bang the girls you meet on Momo, your approach must be different. Calibrate for culture here, use Momo as more of a face-time app and then bang the girls. Meet, and put in a bit of time if you have to.
Chinese girls don't want to lose face and look slutty; there are many girls that are looking for many different things; friends, networking opportunities, a boyfriend (tons of girls on Momo have boyfriends - my advice is to strike fast, as in if they say they want to meet you, get them to shoot you an address immediately, find a taxi and then fuck them that day - In early July I was teaching in the North end of the city, I pinged a girl after class, she said she wanted to meet me and ten minutes after I got to her house we were in the shower together...a few days later I wanted to fuck her again, but she deleted me from WeChat, had a boyfriend), people to party with etc,. etc,. etc, but the girls that are just looking for banging are few and far between (I only had two). Hell, many girls use Momo just to talk to their friends!
Don't assume that Momo = automatically DTF...bear in mind that like Facebook, it's quite a solid outlet for cockteasing and attention-whoring.
It's really good for finding girls to party with and then bang (or bang their friends - I pinged a girl once and took her to LKF, but ended up liking her friend more and a few days later banging her instead). It was not unusual for me to Momo a girl, agree to a meet (for coffee or drinks, to 'teach English'), and if a day date, drag her back 'to look at pictures of my son' (I don't have a son) and if a night date (and I like the night dates better...once I met a girl in a club, and she was weak so I went home with another girl I met that night) to drink and dance with her and her friends and then bang her a few days later. When I first got it I was outright asking girls if they wanted to fuck (I did get one - who still hits me up on occasion for sex), but I was getting blown out heavy. I am going to offer a lot of data on Momo, but if it's 'Too long, did not read' for you (and if you plan to come to China, you really should read it), the gist:
- Update your location at least once an hour.
- Have a solid profile.
- Ping tons of chicks, and expect to get pinged quite a bit. Go to high-traffic areas.
- Lots of homos and hookers use this app, practice safe judgement.
- Try to stay away from the local girls.
- Don't ping unless she has at least 5 pictures, of herself, in good-lighting at close distance.
- Know and know how to pass the Chinese shit tests.
- Pull them to WeChat or QQ (more girls have WeChat), tell them you're an English teacher.
- Don't be too aggressive.
- Invite them out for drinks, dancing, ice-cream etc., you will need to chuck around a bit of cash.
- The best cure for oneitis? Ping ping ping.
Basic Tips:
- Keep your data topped so you can use it everywhere...I spent about 600 Yuan on Data the month I had it in English (but I fucked 7 really cute girls, so it's a fair tradeoff)
- Be routinely topping up your searches (On English Momo you could go by 'last location update: 15 minutes' so you know they're in the area...in Chinese, no), because it updates your location. I send out a lot of pings, but a few girls have pinged me, too.
- Different areas get you different results. Sitting in my pad, maybe 1 in 5 ping me back; my area is full of dippy, semi-retarded Chinese 18 year olds and there are quite a few other foreigners around and it's a rich area so there is heavy competition. At Chunxi Road, it's 1 in 2 and at Tianfu Square I swear that it's about 3 of 4. If you aren't pinging at least 5 (and ideally 10) girls a day, you won't get the mileage you want out of Momo.
- Have some nice, flattering profile pictures of yourself and a jazzed-up profile ready. I lie through my teeth on my profile; 'Places visited often' are mostly places I've been 2-3 times (but like they care). As with dating websites and FaceBook before it, the eye-catching profile is essential.
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- There are two shit tests these girls chuck at you; The first is 'We cannot communicate!'. How do you overcome this shit test? Easy, just lie through your teeth, say you speak Chinese and make sure you look sexy when you meet them.
- The second shit test, sadly, is much more difficult to parry, but I have found a way to beat it at least
some of the time; 'Oh I am so busy/out of town/can't see you for at least _________'. How to respond? 'Ok', THEN IGNORE THEM. This test is basically a brush-off, and in my experience, about 2 out of 3 of them will not message you back (so they weren't into you, oh well), but that 1 in 3...give them a few days and 'Wa! Why is you the ignoring me!?






!!!?!?!?!?!'. Tell them you're a busy man and don't like to wait and then try to see them in the next few days...The hottest girls on this thing (After pinging just about everything within range in the start, now I only message the ten percenters - I'm getting less quantity but more quality these days) are bothered night and day. You probably assume that the average Chinese guy is a pussy (a correct assumption), but don't think that he ain't bold from behind his smartphone; as it is the world over hot girls get TONS of male attention.
(And bitch please; you do manicures for a living [the 3 most common professions I encounter are; 1) clothing sales, 2) esthetics and 3) nurses...students, hookers, singers, artists, bartenders, dancers, models and office girls are sprinkled in for diversity], and have a 5-star rating and 300 followers, how busy can you be?)
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- There are a lot of bots on this thing, at least 2-3 times a week a bot tries to 'Follow' me. How can you tell a bot? They send vague messages, that when you reply, they do not, and a lot of them register on the same day. Block them.
- There are also a lot of prostitutes on Momo. Their first message asks for money (and you get pinged in a nightclub), chances are it's a hooker. I am not confident enough in my 'shoring' ability to do it in Chinese.
- There are also a lot of gays on Momo. 90% of the time I block, 10% of the time I troll for a few minutes and then block.
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- Let's call this segment 'Lessons Learned the Hard Way'. Lessons Learned the Hard Way I: Once you get this set up, you'll want to ping everything that moves (I know I did - bear in mind there is a limit to how many girls you can ping a day, I think it's 20)...so you sit on your couch in your apartment and see who's close by...and damn, she's fine and DAMN! Just 40 meters away, 'PING!' Hey

, and she responds, and yadda yadda, she comes over 'to see a movie' and you fuck her, and it is fun. Ok, right? But then the next day she wants to come over again (because these chicks aren't getting fucked right - your big Western dick and mad porno-style fucking is exactly what they want - though the little ones, think 5'1 85 lbs, you gotta be gentle with their pussies the first few times), and the next day, and the day after, until finally you tell her you're busy tonight (likely with work or another girl met on Momo), so you get home a few hours later than usual and you just want to relax...and there she is, waiting at your door. This EXACT THING happened to me (and I'm sketchy on the details totally but to at least two friends of mine something similar went down); I fucked a 21-year old who lives on the 17th floor of my building (I'm on the 8th), and every day for almost two weeks she would roll over around 6:45 (I get home from work around 6:30), and at first it was cool; she was really cute and as soon as we got into my place I'd pick her up and carry her to bed...and it was good, I'd fuck her and she'd catch a shower and then she'd leave an hour later...but then it was a shower, she'd cook and then leave two hours later...and then she'd ask to stay the night...and then she'd ask to stay in my place during the day (my place is way better than hers was. I have no idea what this chick did for money, I think she has rich parents)...TLDR?
Try to stay away from the local girls. One of my favorite things to do? Going on the metro and pinging chicks at every stop it makes, and at least once a week I pull a girl's WeChat from the metro, win win.
- Lessons Learned the Hard Way II: These girls false advertise like crazy. I pinged a girl who had 5 pics, in which she looked pretty cute, and I went to meet her, and while yes, her body was great (awesome legs and ass, bigish tits), she had bad skin and snaggle teeth; I'm a white 6'3 foreigner with green eyes, I don't do butterfaces...what makes this worse is that I ping them and bring them to WeChat (for push-button translate), and after I met this girl for coffee and bolted, she bothered me for a week on WeChat, and while I'm kind of an asshole because I know what it takes, I have trouble doing so to people I feel don't deserve it (as Chinese girls on the surface are sweet, to foreign boys at least)...in order to get her to fuck off I had to tell her that she was not cute enough for me and send her pics of the girls that I had already banged in China...made her sad, she blocked me on WeChat, and I'm sorry, but I'm not sorry (the whole 'As a woman it's my god-given right to demand a tall, charming, rich, handsome man but a man is wrong to want a beautiful, young woman!' double standard does not exist in China, these chicks know their place, which is clutch).
Don't ping girls who don't have good, clear pictures of themselves on their Momo profile. Dead giveaways are makeup, the distance from which she is photographed and the lighting she uses...and the real and honest truth? Even if she's amazing in her pictures, she will ALWAYS look better in her her pics than she does when you meet her at the club or she pops into your house.
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- On Tryouts: Expect a lot of tryouts. While yes, some girls will be down to 'come over and watch a movie', most of the time, they will want to meet you and 'vet' you first to see if you pass the test. I have had some bullshit tryouts. Girls that I thought were DTF (because they said they wanted to meet NOW) wanting to go get tea or go for a walk...but this is not a good attitude to have. Go on the tryout, let them see how much you can talk with them and that you are who your profile says, and then a few days later bang them...and if not them, these girls will invite you to the club or to KTV with their friends...go into tryouts with a bit of a long game in mind. My favorite tryouts are the clubs; in addition to once these girls get a few drinks in they loosen up, there are always other girls around.
- That being said, if I go for a tryout and then we continue to talk and it's clearly a no, she gets dropped. For a while I was meeting and bringing to WeChat 2-3 girls a DAY from Momo, so many of them (in fact, I have recently had to purge about 20 of them from WeChat because I no longer speak with them).
- Have good translation software. I use Pleco, because it's offline and can never go down (unlike Google Translate). I also bring the girls to WeChat/QQ (though some don't have) and push-button it, but sometimes it gives you a fucky result.
- Tactical Gambit: Tell these girls you are an English teacher looking for students. Invariably some will say 'Not just over micro-message (WeChat)?', say 'That doesn't help your speaking'...because you might find that many Chinese can read and write English fairly well even if they can't speak...speaking (the most important part of any language) is not heavily taught in Chinese schools.
- For meetings, I try to get girls to meet me, if not at my place, at a place nearby...I can't read Chinese, and I've had a few girls that I couldn't bang and wanted to bang because I went to meet them and couldn't find them. Unless she's absolutely smoking fit or suggests a place you know well, try to pull them to you. At worst settle for the club.
- When speaking with a girl with zero English, speak in as rudimentary English as possible so she can translate it easier. Not 'We can go see 'Mission Impossible 3: Ghost Protocol' on Monday Evening', 'We watch movie Monday', get me?
- By age, while yes, I do like them 18-22, it is the most difficult racket; Despite dressing and acting provocatively, don't forget that these girls aren't generally slutty and are naive (though curious) about sex. The only way I'll ping a girl 23-27 is if she's super fine, and older than that is the easiest (have given up on getting married, and they have money - the 33 year old still invites me over to bang occasionally)...but I like a challenge and I love a youthful, sexy body; I will continue to bleed it out for university-age pussy, and I know you guys here know why. I'd rather fuck three 19 year olds in a month than ten 30 year olds.
- Most girls will be on the fence about meeting and banging a foreigner. The game is different in this part of the world. Nonetheless, there are three game tenets that have consistently worked for me (granted, you need to apply them in as simple terms as possible, and just properly); extreme disqualification ('I think I'm too _____ for you!', 'You're not ___ enough for me!' etc,.). agree and amplify ('What!? Who says I want to have sex with you?') and vulnerability game ('Oh, I'm so sad because I can't talk to anyone!' blah blah).
- I usually ping girls, and if they get back to me, Pleco a thing or two up and then try to bring them over to WeChat, which has a translation feature and has the added perk of ensuring that you are speaking to a real person. You can also go through girls' pics on WeChat to see if they're worth fucking.
- ...But all that being said, you can get into a WeChat rut...girls can think you just want to be friends. Whenever I do this, the next ten girls I ping, I chat a bit then ask what they're doing tonight...and yes, I have 'I love sex', in Chinese, in my WeChat favorite messages to go apocalyptic.
- All this being said, what you really want to know...'How many girls do you have to ping before you fuck one, NP?'...about 1 in 25, but again, that's me; you might fuck 1 of every 8, you might fuck 1 of every 50, context, and again, rarely is it 'Come over and bang, here is the address', it's 'We'll go for a walk/coffee/dancing and then afterwards bang.'
- Just because it's for banging doesn't mean the the girls will flock to foreigners...many will avoid and delete your message before reading it and in fact Chinese girls can be just as flaky as their North American counterparts. Double-book.
- I know I need to tell almost none of you this...but don't get hung up on any one girl; there are so many of them (that said, there are three or four, who were really cute who I was talking to and had met but didn't bang, but fell out and I was a little let down when that happened). You know what's happened to me twice now? I pinged a girl, got her to WeChat and she liked me so we firmed up plans, but a few hours before she flaked and I did not fuck her that night...so what happened? I met another girl that I had previously pinged instead, fucked two of them that night. Tons and tons of girls, my girl backlog is so intense that usually about one day a week I ping a few of them on WeChat, ask them if they want to bang and if yes they come over, if no I cease all contact (I only delete the ugly ones). There is LITERALLY a bottomless well of hot young Chinese pussy on Momo. The best cure for oneitis is the ping.
- My learning curve was steep because I had not mastered the proper affect something like this requires. At first I was too aggressive with my 'come over and fuck' vibe, then I was too passive with more of a 'let's be friends!' vibe; you need to find that middle ground. Chinese girls are weird; it's a no-no to tell them to just come and bang, but it's perfectly fine to send (and request) pictures and ask them if they like foreigners and think you're cute. You have to constantly be oscillating between kind, sweet niceguy and aggressive alpha, master the push and the pull, get the bitches lining up outside your flat. Once you have exchanged maybe 15-20 WeChat messages, ask them if they want to meet for ice cream, skating, a movie, at the bar etc,.
1) Go to a place where people gather. The best place for Momo in Chengdu is BY FAR Tianfu Square; an endless cycle of girls coming through because it's the central subway hub and it's right downtown; 3 of the girls I banged in June I pinged initially in Tianfu Square (1 from my apartment, one on Chunxi Road, two on the outskirts)...Chunxi Road, the Global Center and Tongzilin are also good, as are areas with few foreigners on the outskirts.
2) Ping some chicks...be aware that they lie about their age and post fake or doctored up pics on this thing so be careful. A safe rule of thumb is to not ping girls who have less than 8 photos and list their age as 18 or older.
3) I try to ping at least 5 chicks a day, sometimes up to ten...and if I had more free time I would wake up, get on the subway and every day go somewhere new and bump up those numbers.
4) When you get one on the line, don't just offer your dick...it doesn't work so well. Yes, you will get the odd one that's DTF, if so get her over to WeChat and have your address in your favorite messages.
5) ...HOWEVER, most of the time you have to warm them up first. Yes, when you suggest to meet you will get 'Oh why you want to meet me!?'...I hope before this you mentioned that you are an English teacher. 'I'm an English teacher and I'm looking for students!' and 'I want to improve my Chinese!' are both effective. Offer to take them skating, to the movies or for coffee. If they like to go clubbing, go clubbing with them, they will dress their best and will be with friends.
6) When you pull them to WeChat, chances are they have a Chinese name (...), GIVE THEM A UNIQUE ENGLISH NAME! Trust me, if you can't read Chinese (I don't know how ANYONE can read Chinese...) and you ping a ton of girls you will lose track of these girls quick. My single-day record for Momo-WeChat conversions is 6 (I banged 1 of them later), easy to lose sight.
7) Strike hard and strike fast; most of these girls like to party so your refractory period is minimal, 3-7 days. Either offer to teach them English at Starbucks, or to go dancing with them.
8) Don't get too drunk if you go dancing and fuck them at the end of the night...but if she's with her friends don't be let down that she won't come home with you...gotta keep that face, after all...book her for later.
Conclusion: If you want a maximal stream of fresh pussy, you should have a 5-pronged approach to the game;
1) Taking care of yourself, looking sharp, making money, learning the language, being a little more beta then you are in the West (what we on RVF realize is 'normal game')
2) Going clubbing and dancing to pull them back for one-night stands (I get an ONS about one in every 5 times I go to the club, and there have been at least 5 times when I could have pulled a girl back, but either I didn't like something about her appearance, or we were going to the club later...and I never leave without at least 3 new WeChat contacts).
3) Momo (remember to update your location whenever you go somewhere new!)
4) WeChat (Remember to update 'People nearby: Females only' whenever you go somewhere new!)
5) QQ (and sadly I don't have QQ...I need someone to set me up)