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I'm sure you're aware of the consequences of being thirsty for the company of girls or for sex. If not, at the very least you are aware of the more common society term of being desperate.

This is common from my observation with guys with little sexual experience.

If you have had plenty of sexual experience, it's impossible to be thirsty.

Being thirsty for sex is not the same thing as having a high sex drive. You can have a high sex drive and not be thirsty.

An analogy is to be hungry instead of being thirsty. If you are an animal and you are hungry you are on the lookout for food. However, you can survive time without it because you have eaten plenty and your body has fat reserves to fuel you in times of a fast. If you are thirsty however, you absolutely need to find a water source because you cannot survive very long without it.

Being thirsty for sex will be reflected in your actions and in your body language and will limit your success. Slight feelings of panic, desperate for result, dependence on that result will occur.

Take an approach where you are hungry instead. You want sex because you are a man with a drive but you understand sexual success and the company of different girls can be inconsistent. However, you are not desperate, you know it will come again in due time, and you can focus on other things more important in your life. You'll still make the effort of meeting new girls but with less dependency on result and you'll have a more laidback vibe and you'll avoid that desperate vibe that kills most approaches right away.

If you're still a newbie with little to limited sexual success, this might be a hard change. But with this simple awareness in the difference between being hungry and thirsty you are able to start making changes to your mindset. And in due time you'll acquire more sexual success so you will avoid being thirsty ever again.

Another option is visualization. Imagine yourself vividly having sexual experience with different quality girls. That however is another topic that could be expanded on.

I am someone who had 0 sexual success of any type just over 2 years ago. I've made drastic changes and improvements and am very happy with my progress and reference experiences. If I can do it so can you.

Another mindset tip if you have been struggling is to think of yourself as 'temporarily unsuccessful' with girls. If you have thought yourself to be a 'failure' that is a much harder starting off point. But that's also another topic.

Roosh also has a post that is related to my ideas here: http://www.rooshv.com/be-thirsty-but-not-too-much