Post: #1

Hi guys,

been browsing there forums for a while, made an account not so long ago and this is my first thread.

I just wanted to hear your guys opninions on the post nut syndrome and losing attraction to girls you just banged.

For me, I can find a girl extremely attractive and really want to work on her, as soon as the bang has happened I sometimes immedietely lose the passion I previously had. Sometimes it can take a few bangs, sometimes just once... It really depends on the girl, and I am reffering to 6s / 7s / 8s.

With my ex I didn't really have this, but that was a couple of years ago. I've been single for 2+ years gaming in the meantime. Now I'm starting to think I can't settle for a gf now as I will perhaps not want to have sex with her after doing it so much with the game girl...

Not about the post nut syndrome, how many of you experience this? It's basically when you have sex with a girl you immedietely want them out of your reach as soon as you are finished as the bang was only what you wanted.

Post: #2

"It's like as soon as I cum, I cum to my senses" - Lil Wayne

Post: #3

We've all experienced it, especially if the girl is subpar. That is why you go to her place instead of yours, fake a phone call immediately after finishing, say your house is on fire/grandmas in the hospital/the bat signal is calling me, and

Post: #4

Dupe

forgot what the thread was called.

Post: #5

Yep I get this every single time with a new girl. I actually hate it. I'm 21 and never had a girlfriend. Just brief flings with about 20 girls. Banged about 25/28.

I just don't feel any emotional connection with any of them. When I was younger I did, like 16, after that absolutely nothing. I actually don't like it because I feel I'm never going to connect with a woman ever. They really are all the same, a terrible way to look at it I know, but I just haven't found a top chick to keep around. I end up just not caring about them after the 4/5th bang . No interest what so ever after sex. I really do hate it.

I have a theory that cause I didn't grow up with a father that it might have something to do with it. Even though my upbringing was quite red pill. I'm the youngest. Possible sense of abandonment may play a part?

Please someone chime in.

Post: #6

^

Sorry to hear that you are so young feeling that good news is you have alot of time to work this out.

I'm 29. I've met 3 girls that had the looks and personality to keep me around. It took me until 28 to meet the first one of the three. Two were slutty party girls. The third seemed like a good girl, we had too much distance living away from each other.

Good news is Game and practice will help you meet more women and give you more choice because God knows you'll need it lol.

I am focusing on looking outside the U.S..

Post: #7

Well I hope time will tell. Ever since I moved to canada from Ireland it feels like all the chicks I've banged have meant nothing, even the really cool sweet ones. I treated them like shit and they loved it (usual story hehe). But at the same time I just hope I can get an actual connection with a woman. Yeah I definately need the older guys who have been around the block to give me advice. Or time will tell I suppose.

Post: #8

Heartiste's Time to boredom is a hilarious must read showing how with time all pussy becomes boring. The Coolidge Effect.

Post: #9

Don't sweat it man. We all turn back to Bruce Banner after fucking an ok girl.

Try to enjoy it, and if you have nothing else going on go and fuck her again, at least until you start hesitating when she calls you over to bang. You should have another girl by this point anyways.

That being said you're going to experience a lot of girls like this, but don't get down on yourself thinking its something wrong with you, its not. Eventually you're going to find a quality girl that makes you want to stick around and do boyfriend shit with. When that happens let it take you over and enjoy it until it runs its course.

Post: #10

"Sex is like puttin' money in the bank... once you take it out... the interest is all gone!" - Rudy Ray Moore

Post: #11

That feeling is your mind letting you know she is only 'pump and dump' material.

When you start fucking lots of girls it becomes pretty clear that very few of those bangs are fully satisfying. Wanting to leave immediately after means either she's not attractive enough or her personality isn't that great (she's not that feminine super-sweet girl you've been wanting to meet).

Maybe it's time to up your standards a bit or cut off girls earlier in your interactions. If you just want a bang and you're ok with feeling mediocre about if after it, go for it...but if you want to find a girl you enjoy having sex with repeatedly then you probably oughta start nexting girls quicker who don't fit your criteria.

When you do finally meet a chick that you don't mind fucking and then cuddling with, it's pretty nice...albeit rare.

Happens every few years for me.

Post: #12

(11-04-2014 10:44 AM)Spider Wrote:  That feeling is your mind letting you know she is only 'pump and dump' material.

When you start fucking lots of girls it becomes pretty clear that very few of those bangs are fully satisfying. Wanting to leave immediately after means either she's not attractive enough or her personality isn't that great (she's not that feminine super-sweet girl you've been wanting to meet).

Maybe it's time to up your standards a bit or cut off girls earlier in your interactions. If you just want a bang and you're ok with feeling mediocre about if after it, go for it...but if you want to find a girl you enjoy having sex with repeatedly then you probably oughta start nexting girls quicker who don't fit your criteria.

When you do finally meet a chick that you don't mind fucking and then cuddling with, it's pretty nice...albeit rare.

Happens every few years for me.

This post just made me think about the whole situation in a different way. I hope what you said refers to me, and to be honest it seems like it does as I do feel that these girls are just pump and dump material and I should up my standards (this is what I was thinking before I read your post). Maybe this is the resolution. Only time will tell.

Post: #13

Just happened to me last night, an old plate I haven't seen in awhile came over and we banged, I immediately wanted her to leave. She woke me up in the middle of the night to bang again by jacking me off.

I wasn't having it and rolled over, I was half asleep and talking without making any sense.

Here's the thing, when I bang regular plates once I bust a nut I want them out, I don't want to cuddle at all and/or go to sleep.

With a HB 8 like my main for example, I'm always trying to bang again, however, there are some times where I want to pass out, usually our sessions are more passionate and hardcore, compared to my regular plates.

Post: #14

I was blue pill in college, then learned years later that, out of pure instinct, I had made my one drunk hookup (outside of the LTR at the time) do a 5AM "walk of shame." In retrospect, it was the right choice.
Circumstances permitting, try it!

Post: #15

(11-02-2014 09:26 PM)Lanky0 Wrote:  Hi guys,

been browsing there forums for a while, made an account not so long ago and this is my first thread.

I just wanted to hear your guys opninions on the post nut syndrome and losing attraction to girls you just banged.

For me, I can find a girl extremely attractive and really want to work on her, as soon as the bang has happened I sometimes immedietely lose the passion I previously had. Sometimes it can take a few bangs, sometimes just once... It really depends on the girl, and I am reffering to 6s / 7s / 8s.

With my ex I didn't really have this, but that was a couple of years ago. I've been single for 2+ years gaming in the meantime. Now I'm starting to think I can't settle for a gf now as I will perhaps not want to have sex with her after doing it so much with the game girl...

Not about the post nut syndrome, how many of you experience this? It's basically when you have sex with a girl you immedietely want them out of your reach as soon as you are finished as the bang was only what you wanted.

All men feel aggressive afterwards, does not want to be touched, and sometimes even disgusted after the nut. It's totally normal.

That said, only my current wife makes me not feel that way. She's the one I kept. All the others I felt like tossing outta of the bed. Never did that, just being honest. Exwife included.

Post: #16

Be proud of having men's instincts.

Women are selective when it comes to choosing a sex partner.

If we easily fall in love with girls we sleep with, we won't have choices.

Guys complain about girls not putting out easily. Girl's complain about guys changing after sleeping with them.

That is a totally fair game.

Post: #17

I feel either two things after having sex with a new girl:
- I don't want to be around her anymore
- I enjoy being around her

I am now focusing on meeting girls that I will enjoy being around after I bang them. That means that they are more attractive to me and they are more fun to be around. At the moment there is very little to motivate me to put in work to bang a new girl that I don't want around. That's just my current mindset.

Ask yourself, are you doing it for the notch, or for the experience? I see those as different things. An experience I look back on fondly afterwards, a notch is just.. a notch. Who cares.

Maybe it's time for you to make some changes as well? Just an idea.

Post: #18

Orgasm crashes your dopamine levels for awhile, among other short-term (hours or days) alterations in neurohormone levels. You can kinda biohack around it, although I wouldn't bother outside of an LTR-ish situation: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coitus_reservatus

Post: #19

Ah, I feel you bro.

I get severe post nut syndrome - most of the time I want to be in my own orbit and definitely need my house to be free of guests, so I can do me after a lay. It does become harder for me to hide my desire to be chilling without company as soon as I bust.

The one tactic that I found worked the best was the one that didn't eliminate options. When I feel like I don't want to this is sparta a chick out I usually text my buddy(ies) to call me and run interference (he/they know the routine) - and invite me somewhere for somethin' urgent/important such as

- Need to help my friend fix his broken front door
- Need to help my friend and his dad move shit out the garage etc.

And of course, the convo is "real" - you can hear my buddies voice etc.

So once it subsides, I may get the urge to fuck again at a later date without having compromised/redoing the work put in to get notch.

Post: #20

The solution is to find a girl you have a good mental rapport with. Easier said than done.