So I would like to know from those of you have experience with China and living there:
- what it is like to live there
Depends on the city in China. Hong Kong doesn't count as China. The rest of my review is going to be based on Shanghai specifically.
- is it easy to find mid term accommodations (say 3-6 months)
Yes, although the price will go up a bit. My leases have always been 3-6 months long. You can get a nice 1 bedroom place in the French Concession for 600-1000 USD a month. The French Concession is definitely the spot in town you want to live in. Other pretty good places include Jingan, Zhongshan Park, People's Square, Nanjing Road West (Nanjing Xi Lu), The Bund.....I think those are all on subway line 2.
Look on
http://www.smartshanghai.com in the housing section.
- which would be a good city to select for my base given that I dont want to be in a place that is too cold. But I want a city with fairly good infrastructures, reliable and fast internet (vital for me to run my biz), fairly safe, open minded and sexy girls who are foreigners friendly etc...
Shanghai wins again for all of those things, although it is definitely pretty cold in the winter. Considering you are Canadian, it's nothing too unbearable though. I would compare it to winter in Paris, which is by no means horrible. Summer is very hot and muggy, but if you are okay with Bangkok then this will be nothing.
You will not get better infrastructure, services, and overall level of modernity than Shanghai anywhere else in China. The internet will be reliable and fast but many sites that you are accustomed to using will be blocked, including facebook, youtube, most porn sites....and a bunch of other stuff. You will have to purchase a VPN in order to get around that but apparently China has been cracking down all over the place in general to quell potential revolutionary activity.
Tons and tons of foreigner-friendly chicks everywhere. Start with smartshanghai dating, throw up a profile, and start messaging some chicks.
I have not been to Shanghai for a long time and apparently the nightlife has completely changed. You might like any of the clubs on the Bund, especially Bar Rouge, where Euro expats and hot Chinese chicks meet up to bang. It's classy and expensive but nice. You will probably meet alot of gold diggers here. I ran into a lot of brazilian pros at Bar Rouge.
I frequent places like Muse, Guand
ii, Mint, Babyface a lot. These are your typical gigantic clubs with tables and outrageously loud music. I dont really like those spots but my friends and professional network like to go to those spots so I end up coming along. Those places are worth checking out anyway, though.
Theere is something called "Guanxi Service" where you text the name of an address (ex. Bar Rouge Club) in English to a certain number and you will get the Chinese character's back on your phone, which you can then show to the cab driver. They will take you to where you want to go. I'll discuss this with you in more detail if need be, I dont exactly remember the number but can find out.
Definitely get a new SIM card when you're in town because it makes life so much easier, it's so cheap, and it makes the logistics of banging way easier. If you walk into pretty much any grocery store and point to your cell phone, you will be able to communicate through body language that you want a SIM card for your phone. Ask for a 100 RMB one, or write down "100 RMB" on a piece of paper. They'll get what you want and will help you install it.
- how are the people generally speaking? (friendly? foreigner friendly or hostile and racist)?
You will never have any problems in Shanghai. Shanghai has a history of being the commercial port open to the world, hence the BRitish/French/German quarters. Shanghai has been designed to be China's glamorous face to the world. Don't worry about it. The worst thing you will experience is some very persistent beggars.
Oh, and as always, drunken and violent groups of British guys watching UEFA on tv.
- cost of living: would $2-3k/month be enough to have a comfortable lifestyle (decent apart in a nice area of town, eating out all the time, going out 4-5 times a week etc...).
At 2-3K a month you will be okay. This is the assumption that you have an 800 USD a month apartment in the French Concession, are eating out a lot, and going out twice a week. Alcohol and rent will be your biggest expense and it is entirely realistic to spend 3K very quickly if you are not watching yourself. For some reason when guys get drunk in China, the RMB starts to feel like monopoly money and they spend outrageous amounts of dough without thinking about it. A friend of mine dropped a grand in a night to his dismay the next day. Oh wait, that was me, fuck.
Now, I have read elsewhere that teaching English in China, while it may not pay much, is a great way to meet locals, make contacts for business and also, meet girls, on top of being an obvious way to get integrated into the social life of the city. Would you guys agree that it might be a positive thing to teach English, say on a part time basis, not for the extra money but for the social aspect of it?
Not sure. In general if you are an English teacher you are not considered to have much social value in China. I could be wrong - the jobs certainly pay prety handsomely considering it's English teaching. I am not the right person to ask about English teaching jobs.
Also, I'm starting in 2 weeks time, a Japanese course in the local college. Do you think it would be counter productive to learn at the same time, both Japanese and Mandarin? While I'm good with learning languages having self taught to near fluency Italian and Brasilian Portuguese, I never learned 2 languages at the same time. So would you advise on focusing on one at a time or is learning both at the same time, not going to be a problem? What do you guys suggest on this?
No, learn Mandarin only. It's hard enough as it is. Focus doubly on getting your Chinese as good as possible before you leave. I dont know why anyone in the world is learning Japanese anymore.
Here is where I'll deviate from talking about SHanghai specificaly. Shanghai is not the best city when it comes to learning Mandarin. In fact, besides places like Guangzhou, it might be the worst since Shanghainese people speak their own dialect and you will be surrounded by expats and ENglish language all the time.
If you want to learn Chinese and really get a bigger bang for your buck in terms of cost of living, I suggest cities like Chengdu, Kunming, and Harbin. They will be a bit harder to get adjusted to as a foreigner for a first-time China experience.
Chengdu is the capital of Sichuan province, which is known for its laid back culture, super spicy hot pot cuisine, and beautiful women (by Chinese standards, which means snow white skin and long legs). Kunming is the capital of Yunnan province, which borders Burma, Laos, and Vietnam. I personally plan to go to Kunming for about three months to do an intensive Mandarin bootcamp before I begin working in Shanghai.
http://www.keatsschool.com
Harbin is the capital of China's northeastern province, also known as Manchuria. It has a strong Russian influence, which you can feel from the architecture and all the Russians. The Mandarin spoken here is similar to that spoken in Beijing and is considered 'standard.'
If I was just going to do
mini retirments for the next year or so, this is what I would do:
-First,
Go to Thailand for 3 months. Alternate between Phuket, Bangkok, and Chiang Mai - spend one month in each location, doing intense Muay Thai bootcamps. This will get me into ridiculously good shape and help me lose some weight. Ten pounds a month is the
minimum I"ve seen people lose on average. While doing muay thai bootcamps and getting fit, working on expanding my internet business.
-Second, go to Kunming and do an intense Mandarin bootcamp for 3 months. I've heard of people going to that school Keats and going from novice to high intermediate level in 3-4 months, which makes sense considering its total immersion and four hours of one-on-one customized tutoring five days a week. During my off time, continuing to aggressiely expand my business.
-Third - Go to Shanghai and totally ball out. At that point I would be lean and sexy, my Mandarin would be sick and I could reward myself for reaching my new income goals/targets. Assuming that I spoke a billion languages like Vacancier, including French, I would finagle my way into working part time with one of the many French importers of wine into China, since that would be a sick business to be involved with and Chinese people can't seem to get enough of it.
http://www.nextstepdirectory.com/import-...ne-paradox
At the end of 6-8 months, you would be fit, have seen lots of Thailand, have reached a solid level of proficiency in what is arguably one of the most important languages in the world, boosted your entrepreneurial income, and snuck your way into a high growth industry in China - imported French luxury goods. After getting proficient in Chinese, I would cold call that French wine importer, or maybe a different one, and tell them in French that I speak a ton of languages, including Chinese, and am intersted in becoming involved with their company in some way. It would secure you a work visa and you'd make more professional business connections that way.
A true Vacancier Permanent I would imagine is someone who makes a living importing Henessey into the world's hottest growth market.