Post: #1

I'm pretty good with game but since I'm working 50 hours a week and traveling a lot, I'm having trouble dating 2-3 women at the same time. My rotation dries up quick after every month. How do you keep your stables full?

Bar every weekend? Tinder? Match? Common friends? Language classes?

Can anybody share their top 3 places?

My stable is weak but

1) public transportation/street approach
2) tinder
3) common friends

Post: #2

1. Tinder
2. Cake/cupcake/doughnut shops (ones not belonging to a chain!). Anyone standing in line at one of these loves to talk about it & they're already in a relaxed mood. Great, ready conversation starter.
3. Bars

I used to try OKC earlier & have had success there but that app is just not worth it anymore.

Post: #3

Starbucks
Gym
Clubs

Post: #4

OP, great thread.

We're pick up guys so we're not solely focusing our efforts on Convenience Game.

I still think clubs are the best bets for guys who have some combination of:

1. Good looks/great style
2. Social butterflies/party animals
3. Great dancers

Otherwise, club game is long on frustration and short on ROI.

I've concluded online game is probably the best way for white guys to meet DTF chicks, but the majority of women in that arena are low-quality.

For Black guys, hit the clubs, same dynamic, DTF, but low-quality women.

Post: #5

1) campus day game
2) hosting CouchSurfing girls (only with host 7+ that request me... happens roughly once a month)
3) bars and clubs

Post: #6

1. "High End" Clubs
2. "Connector" Friends (I can go out any night and be with 5 to 25 different girls)
3. Misc, every so often I get approached on the street or I'm at some random bar/gathering/event where I meet a chick (It's almost guaranteed I'll meet atleast 1 chick without actively doing anything)

In the past it was high end clubs, daygame streets and misc but I've ultimately stopped going out due to my craziness. (Lost about 10-12 phones) Now I just "catchup" with friends majority of the time with the occasional EPIC "misc" one-offs

Post: #7

(02-19-2015 05:39 PM)jariel Wrote:  For Black guys, hit the clubs, same dynamic, DTF, but low-quality women.

For Black guys, hit the clubs, because Tinder sure as hell ain't working.




1) Social Circle
2) Private Parties / House parties ...... an extension of 1, granted......
3) Special club nights - like label parties. Have a more favorable ratio than your average club night.


I definitely need better options, heh.

Post: #8

Good question OP

- restaurants + restaurant bars (especially the new L.A. style communal seating restaurants that are becoming popular)
- weeknight bar game
- lunch approaches (this takes a lot if you have a hard and stressful job but you got to take advantage of time)

Out of the 3, lunch approaches have the worst % return because of various parameters including:
- can't do it too much in front of co workers and I work at a big company
- you have to time it right and go to the right places (lizard love salad bars) and usually its hit or miss with the 2% of good looking office lizards
- if you drive you cut into approach time since you have to get back

I've been trying to incoporate before work coffee game but no results this year. Thinking about adding gym yoga game too.

Post: #9

I know it's a bit disappointing but I don't really have a rotation; I'm in an hugely-beneficial LTR but every month or two I'll try my luck with a tourist or two. As such I mostly stick to highly-transited tourist attractions where I can rapidly bounce-on to another candidate if I'm rejected or things do not seem to be going too well. So here it goes.

1. Cafés;
2. Outdoors (walking around Trafalgar Square for example);
3. Bars.

I've tried to open in the Underground but the last time I tried I was incapable of maintaining the vibe; everyone is a hurry and in a bad mood!

Oh yes, I'm so privileged you literally can't even.
Interested in joining the FFL? I tried (and failed).

Post: #10

I really tend to play up the young black professional vibe in my city as much as possible, but since guys like me are not that much of a rarity here, it's only moderately effective. Never been much of a day gamer but even as I've improved (better shape, better job/money prospects) over the last couple of years, the quality I'm picking up from online dating has dropped through the floor. I also need to work on expanding my social circle.

1. Networking Events
2. Tinder
3. Social Circle

Post: #11

1. Bars
2. Tinder
3. Class

I find Tinder is best in narrowing down the field to those who are looking to be incorporated into a stable (alpha-shopping) and bars are best for ONS but are more difficult in keeping in the rotation. Class is great for either but they get skittish easier.