Post: #1

He's been seeing this girl for 8 months and they're driving each other crazy. For example he wants monogamy but he got frustrated at her slutty past so he slept with another girl and convinced himself it was okay.

They're always fighting for one reason or another, they almost broke up once. They're also seeing a counselor for personality issues. There is a couple more fucked up things I'm leaving out.

Do these relationships last, if so how long? Can he be helped? Bare in mind, he's got 1 year of game experience and about 15 lays.


Edit- They also proclaim they love each other and want to get married down the future, I'm not making this up.

Post: #2

1. She has a slutty past that cannot be undone
2. Her past will always be a source of frustration for him
3. he already cheated on her
4. Counseling? for personality issues?

(03-11-2015 09:02 AM)zombiejimmorrison Wrote:  Do these relationships last, if so how long? Can he be helped?

No

Post: #3

(03-11-2015 09:11 AM)CleanSlate Wrote:  1. She has a slutty past that cannot be undone
2. Her past will always be a source of frustration for him
3. he already cheated on her
4. Counseling? for personality issues?

(03-11-2015 09:02 AM)zombiejimmorrison Wrote:  Do these relationships last, if so how long? Can he be helped?

No

Counseling for relationship OCD behavior I should say. They are starting to see a psychiatrist on their own issues.

Thanks for the answers, have you known someone like this before?

Post: #4

(03-11-2015 09:19 AM)zombiejimmorrison Wrote:  

(03-11-2015 09:11 AM)CleanSlate Wrote:  1. She has a slutty past that cannot be undone
2. Her past will always be a source of frustration for him
3. he already cheated on her
4. Counseling? for personality issues?

(03-11-2015 09:02 AM)zombiejimmorrison Wrote:  Do these relationships last, if so how long? Can he be helped?

No

Counseling for relationship OCD behavior I should say. They are starting to see a psychiatrist on their own issues.

Thanks for the answers, have you known someone like this before?

Yes believe me, I speak from experience.

Post: #5

(03-11-2015 09:24 AM)CleanSlate Wrote:  

(03-11-2015 09:19 AM)zombiejimmorrison Wrote:  

(03-11-2015 09:11 AM)CleanSlate Wrote:  1. She has a slutty past that cannot be undone
2. Her past will always be a source of frustration for him
3. he already cheated on her
4. Counseling? for personality issues?

(03-11-2015 09:02 AM)zombiejimmorrison Wrote:  Do these relationships last, if so how long? Can he be helped?

No

Counseling for relationship OCD behavior I should say. They are starting to see a psychiatrist on their own issues.

Thanks for the answers, have you known someone like this before?

Yes believe me, I speak from experience.

Can you please elaborate on that?

Post: #6

(03-11-2015 09:42 AM)zombiejimmorrison Wrote:  Can you please elaborate on that?

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Post: #7

(03-11-2015 09:02 AM)zombiejimmorrison Wrote:  He's been seeing this girl for 8 months and they're driving each other crazy. For example he wants monogamy but he got frustrated at her slutty past so he slept with another girl and convinced himself it was okay.

They're always fighting for one reason or another, they almost broke up once. They're also seeing a counselor for personality issues. There is a couple more fucked up things I'm leaving out.

Do these relationships last, if so how long? Can he be helped? Bare in mind, he's got 1 year of game experience and about 15 lays.


Edit- They also proclaim they love each other and want to get married down the future, I'm not making this up.

Honestly man,

nothing you can do. I have a friend who is a serial dater, as in he will instantly begin dating a girl and instantly go exclusive and there is nothing else for him. I've never seen him begin dating a girl and go "y'know, she's a little nuts. I'm going to look elsewhere."

Some guys just don't realize their own power as the gatekeeper of a relationship and pressure myself into the first relationship that they're able to find.

Post: #8

(03-11-2015 10:23 AM)Fortis Wrote:  

(03-11-2015 09:02 AM)zombiejimmorrison Wrote:  He's been seeing this girl for 8 months and they're driving each other crazy. For example he wants monogamy but he got frustrated at her slutty past so he slept with another girl and convinced himself it was okay.

They're always fighting for one reason or another, they almost broke up once. They're also seeing a counselor for personality issues. There is a couple more fucked up things I'm leaving out.

Do these relationships last, if so how long? Can he be helped? Bare in mind, he's got 1 year of game experience and about 15 lays.


Edit- They also proclaim they love each other and want to get married down the future, I'm not making this up.

Honestly man,

nothing you can do. I have a friend who is a serial dater, as in he will instantly begin dating a girl and instantly go exclusive and there is nothing else for him. I've never seen him begin dating a girl and go "y'know, she's a little nuts. I'm going to look elsewhere."

Some guys just don't realize their own power as the gatekeeper of a relationship and pressure myself into the first relationship that they're able to find.

That's exactly what he's done man, learned some game, found a girl he clicked with and went into hamster mode. I guess I'll just watch from the sidelines as he crumbles further down the pit. This is something a lot of guys do I assume after they get a whiff of success

Post: #9

(03-11-2015 11:10 AM)zombiejimmorrison Wrote:  That's exactly what he's done man, learned some game, found a girl he clicked with and went into hamster mode. I guess I'll just watch from the sidelines as he crumbles further down the pit. This is something a lot of guys do I assume after they get a whiff of success

If you are really good friends, you might want to think about intervening before he goes TOO far down the pit. I don't want to sound overly dramatic, but you might save his life depending on how bad things do get.

Post: #10

You can show him the way and if he's willing to listen then help him more otherwise leave him to his fate. Don't be too concerned if he doesn't listen as there is nothing you can do. On many instances I have repeatedly tried to help loser/inexperienced friends and have always wasted my time doing so - they're not willing to follow your advice and it just frustrates you. Some people just need harsh lessons of life inorder to understand how things really work.

Post: #11

Thanks guys, I'll do what I can. I already did save his ass from a baby. Knocked up the girl but I vehemently told him having a kid is the fucking end. He did appreciate it after, and dodged a bullet.