Post: #1

Well schools out and i just spent my whole paycheck trying to get out of my bullshit lease and my friends are dragging me out tonite for one last hoorah together, and im broke. i cant say no to these dudes and they invited out a chick that i has been feeling me lately which i know she is gonna ask me to by her a drink. i dont ever get myself into situations like this but any tips on how to keep it cool. Any suggestions will be great.

Post: #2

DVDutch -

Bring a Chronic blunt.

Post: #3

For buying a drink, I'd say to check out Roosh's recent blog post on buying girls drinks which was excellent, but the blog is temporarily down, so... just remember that you don't have to buy the girl a drink to make her like you. Relax and focus on attraction, not on trivial details. Heck, I just got back home from going out, where a girl bought me a drink,

As for what you'll be drinking, if you're too broke for anything, you can always drink water. Mixx's recent advice on how to turn it into your advantage:

Quote:Well, there is no actual survey per se, I should have written "my experience". You see, throughout the years of sarging women, I've had SEVERAL women tell me that they are open more to a guy approaching them in a club with a bottle of water, vs a bottle of beer/grey goose in his hand.

One incredibly hot blond told me after I approached her that she specifically found me interesting as I am the only guy she's seen in the club (and approached her) with a bottle of water in hand. She hates how guys breath smells like alcohol and usually are tipsy because they are trying to hide their fear of approaching her.

No woman appreciates seeing a guy not in control and cool...ever.

Now, here is a 100% REAL scenario I ran into once:

Target: "what is that in your hand? Is that water? You don't drink?"

Mixx:"Well, on my long flight from Europe a few months ago, I read a medical journal that says alcohol decreases male sexual performance (pause and smile for a few seconds).....and I'd hate to be a disappointment later on"

Notice how I DHV's and escalated the frame to a sexual nature.

A lot of guys drink because they want to "fit in", or not seem like "the only dork" - Fact is, if you were truly alpha, you do what YOU want, not follow what others do. That, forum players, is a major turn-on to women.

If drinking is indeed what you want, then do so..but don't ever give in to what others perceive you should be. You'll be following/copying a herd of idiots......that's beta.

Result: Bang!

Post: #4

(05-13-2011 06:50 PM)DVDutch Wrote:  my friends are dragging me out tonite ... and im broke. ... i know she is gonna ask me to by her a drink.

What is the problem? Roosh has been preaching that you shouldn't buy drinks. Tell her you are broke and ask her to buy you one.

Post: #5

(05-13-2011 07:28 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  DVDutch -

Bring a Chronic blunt.

I cannot agree with this more. My little brother, permanently broke, is a farmer. When sober he is totally beta, but becomes a pimp as soon as he's smoked. Chicks do anything for him when they're stoned, including buying drinks.

Post: #6

(05-13-2011 06:50 PM)DVDutch Wrote:  Well schools out and i just spent my whole paycheck trying to get out of my bullshit lease and my friends are dragging me out tonite for one last hoorah together, and im broke. i cant say no to these dudes and they invited out a chick that i has been feeling me lately which i know she is gonna ask me to by her a drink. i dont ever get myself into situations like this but any tips on how to keep it cool. Any suggestions will be great.

For future occasions when you have some time to plan and prepare: go to a drugstore and buy some cheap liquor and an iron flask.
Hide the flask in the inner pocket of your blazer and go out. Le voila', you have an item that distinguishes you and you will save plenty of money.
Order sodas and cokes for the all evening and then fix your drinks. My wingman does it all the time as he is (rightly) sick of spending $13 or more for a vodka redbull. With $13 you can buy a book or get a meal!

Plus, having the flask hidden can be used as a prop with a girl, it even makes it easier to isolate her. You two order your cokes/sodas and then run into a hidden spot of the bar/hotel to add the liquor unseen.

Post: #7

+1 to smoking up before hitting town if broke. it's also a segue into "let's go back to mine for a blaze"

Post: #8

We have a lot of good advice on the same topic:

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Post: #9

If only I came across this thread 5 hours ago

Post: #10

Mixx Wrote:Target: "what is that in your hand? Is that water? You don't drink?"

Mixx:"Well, on my long flight from Europe a few months ago, I read a medical journal that says alcohol decreases male sexual performance (pause and smile for a few seconds).....and I'd hate to be a disappointment later on"

Notice how I DHV's and escalated the frame to a sexual nature.

and...

Mixx Wrote:A lot of guys drink because they want to "fit in", or not seem like "the only dork" - Fact is, if you were truly alpha, you do what YOU want, not follow what others do. That, forum players, is a major turn-on to women.

Golden nuggets here.

When you escalate it is much better to be naughty than dirty, and being your own man is an aphrodisiac in itself.