Post: #1

Hello to all .

I've been a lurker on this forum for some time now and have been meaning to get involved here.

I'm 19 years old btw.

My current situation in life is very difficult at the moment, as i have just gone through a very bad couple of years in my life , wich has left me unemployed, no friends or social life and no family. I was always a bad boy or rather a dumbass , lived fast, lived wild and i've hit the wall hard.

I've had a long hard think and have decided that in order to live a meaningful life , go after a good career, bang hot girls and start over completely fresh i would need to move to another country. Preferably within Europe since i'm a European citizen so i won't need to pay for a visa.

I don't have alot of money , about 3300 euros.

I speak 6 different languages and i'm highly intelligent and well versed on most topics despite having only a high school degree. I'm also a sociopath ( not a dangerous one ) .

Since i'm really stuck on how to archieve this and which country to move to and you guys seem like a well-traveled bunch i would appreciate some help or advice.

Thanks in advance.

Post: #2

Your question is very vague and it's fairly obvious that you have not yet put too much thought into what you want. Or maybe you did and didn't post enough detail.

Do you want to bang girls or make money? You can say both but understand that doing one will cost the other. Moving to a certain country because of the girls is not a great idea. You can always make your cash somewhere else and head to a nice country for vacation when you have enough.

Maybe start with scouring job boards in different countries and contact the employers. Maybe send your CV/resume.

Try to figure out what you actually want to do for a job by doing this. Then post specific questions in this thread. There is actually a great oil field thread someone started, I believe for Canada. You bust your ass but you can make lots of money with minimal education.

Visit networking events wherever you are as well. Also as a supplement, meet more forum members in your area.

Post: #3

(04-19-2015 08:40 PM)Cobra Wrote:  Your question is very vague and it's fairly obvious that you have not yet put too much thought into what you want. Or maybe you did and didn't post enough detail.

Do you want to bang girls or make money? You can say both but understand that doing one will cost the other. Moving to a certain country because of the girls is not a great idea. You can always make your cash somewhere else and head to a nice country for vacation when you have enough.

Maybe start with scouring job boards in different countries and contact the employers. Maybe send your CV/resume.

Try to figure out what you actually want to do for a job by doing this. Then post specific questions in this thread. There is actually a great oil field thread someone started, I believe for Canada. You bust your ass but you can make lots of money with minimal education.

Visit networking events wherever you are as well. Also as a supplement, meet more forum members in your area.

Thanks for the advice.

Yeah, English isn't my first language so it could read a little weird.

I'm not moving purely for women, i just need a fresh start somewhere else.

Ideally i'd move somewhere, rent out a cheap hotel or hostel for like a month so i have a place to sleep and can go find a job. Build a social circle and eventually start going to a university or get a degree. I knew a guy who traveled that way but i've lost contact with him so i can't ask him for advice.

The problem is i don't know which European countries are good in terms of jobs for foreigners ( if you don't speak the language) , where people are receptive and accepting and the quality of life is generally good, that's why i'm hoping one of you guys could help me with your experience.

I've looked into going to Canada but i will need a WorkingHolidayVisa and the waiting list for people in my country is very long , add to the fact that the registration period is already over.

Post: #4

There's always the French Foreign Legion. They'll help you start a new life...

If marching til you die isn't your style, I'd suggest thinking about the man you want to be in ten years, then what that man will look like five years from now, and where you'd need to be in one year, then next month, all the way down to what you'll need to start doing today if you want to get there.

Post: #5

(04-19-2015 08:27 PM)Driesinator Wrote:  unemployed

I speak 6 different languages and i'm highly intelligent and well versed on most topics despite having only a high school degree. I'm also a sociopath ( not a dangerous one ) .

Post: #6

1 - don't tell people you're a sociopath.

At least you have some money saved up.

2 - learn some skills.

Post: #7

First focus on knowing what you want your profession to be. For any young male with a HS degree I would advice getting into the Trades. Spend that 3300 on your education while working. Then you'll move freely wherever you want

Post: #8

Unfortunately the trades don't pay that we'll in developing countries due to an oversupply of tradesmen.

Post: #9

Thanks for the advice guys.

(04-19-2015 09:45 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  1 - don't tell people you're a sociopath.

At least you have some money saved up.

2 - learn some skills.

Yeah ofcourse i don't go around telling people i meet IRL that i have this condition .

Any of you ever experienced a situation similar to mine at the moment and how did you get out of it?

Post: #10

You want to get a good job, make money, live in a better place, and bang hot bitches?
Looks like you got your work cut out for you.

I'm not even sure what you're asking. It seems pretty trollish to waste everybody's time approval seeking on the internet when you could just start calling numbers from the classifieds, talk to hot girls, or packing your shit to move.

Post: #11

(04-20-2015 07:14 AM)Driesinator Wrote:  Thanks for the advice guys.

(04-19-2015 09:45 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  1 - don't tell people you're a sociopath.

At least you have some money saved up.

2 - learn some skills.

Yeah ofcourse i don't go around telling people i meet IRL that i have this condition .

Any of you ever experienced a situation similar to mine at the moment and how did you get out of it?

Dude at the end of the day it's really very simple - if you have a skill that is in demand you can go wherever you want, live and work there, and hook up with chicks.

Your only goal needs to be figuring out a type of work that you're interested in and that is fairly in demand, and work on it. It really doesn't matter whether you're in Germany, France, or Holland, or wherever - if you speak the language that is. In your situation I would probably suggest going to Berlin, Germany. There are many people doing their own thing there and living an "unconventional" life. If you're a EU citizen, you will probably be able to collect social security in Germany while you look for a job / apprenticeship / internship / education.

Post: #12

Don't look at your past and where you are as a negative. Look at it like a opportunity cause that exactly what it is. Your 19 man, the world is yours.

Make self improvement your hobby. Never be satisfied.

Post: #13

Which 6 languages do you speak? The countries that speak those languages would be a good start. Do you have any work experience?

Post: #14

If you really speak 6 languages then you have a skill set that you can leverage. Start throwing up advertisements for language tutoring. Buy a beginner books to get a lesson plan laid out that you just have to copy, or just look up some free online stuff.

Start taking on clients, meet them in a public library or coffee shop if you don't have a place at home or they can't use their homes.

You'll be your own boss, so there's no need to worry about resumes or your past job history.

that would be a good first step.

Post: #15

If you speak german, I can recommend Austria for studying. Studying in Austria is only 20 € per semester for all EU citizens. You can even get monthly support from the government (up to 500€ per month) if you can prove that your parents aren't making enough money to support you and if you are making less than 10.000 € a year yourself. This is probably the fastest and cheapest way to get a degree in Europe. Finding a side job in Vienna (which is a really nice city btw) to support your studies should also be easy for you, since you speak 6 languages. I know a Hungarian guy who just came to Vienna to study. He is fluent in german and works part time as a waiter in a Cafe. He is also making some money teaching other Hungarians german.

Post: #16

(04-20-2015 08:02 AM)the-dream Wrote:  Which 6 languages do you speak? The countries that speak those languages would be a good start. Do you have any work experience?

I speak Dutch, French, German, English, Spanish and Italian .

Yes i've done all sorts of jobs.

Post: #17

Dude, you are 19. I don't care what you've done, you have not "hit the wall."

What excites you? Go do that.

And meanwhile, read "So Good They Can't Ignore You." You've got plenty of great adventures ahead. There is no right path.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #18

(04-20-2015 09:01 AM)Dipar Wrote:  If you speak german, I can recommend Austria for studying. Studying in Austria is only 20 € per semester for all EU citizens. You can even get monthly support from the government (up to 500€ per month) if you can prove that your parents aren't making enough money to support you and if you are making less than 10.000 € a year yourself. This is probably the fastest and cheapest way to get a degree in Europe. Finding a side job in Vienna (which is a really nice city btw) to support your studies should also be easy for you, since you speak 6 languages. I know a Hungarian guy who just came to Vienna to study. He is fluent in german and works part time as a waiter in a Cafe. He is also making some money teaching other Hungarians german.

This is probably the most solid advice you are going to get on this thread. I do know Scotland has FREE education for ALL EU citizens that are not British. Seeings as English is one of your languages and you speak many others you could teach English in Scotland for some money. I can't give advice for typical rents or utility bills but €3300 (£2350) may just about cover you for a 6 month house share. Jobseekers allowance is something around £65/week for food. We do have an upcoming election so it is probably best to make your moves prior to election day (May 7th).

Biggest problems I do see is that you may not have enough qualifications to grant you enough credits for a uni place. There are only so many non academic credits you can obtain. I believe you may be just about entitled to 1 years free college in the UK but do not quote me on that. (I know 19 is the last year of free college education but that may just be for British citizens only.)

Post: #19

Hi everyone it is not easy to everyone to start their life again in a new way and it is not similar to the others life which smooth and healthy but to make an effort towards it is not a bad idea.

Post: #20

You're fkn 19 ur in no difficult situation, in fact the opposite..ur a lucky cunt..ur still a kid u have the rest of ur life ahead of you. Work out some goals and go from there..jesus