Post: #1

Has anyone here had success reconnecting and hooking up with girls they knew back in HS/college after some years have passed, but didn't bang at that time? If so, via what method did you reconnect? Social networking? School reunion? Mutual friends? How did the situation play out from initial contact to lay? Is this a fertile area to explore, or is it a time-wasting rathole when effort should be applied elsewhere?

Post: #2

I bumped into "the first girl in HS with massive knockers" at the mall years later.

Didn't really like her face in HS or after (though I did love her tits at both ages) but I wanted to add her to my "yearbook". During the convo, we talked about whether we still stayed in touch with anyone, and I was still friends with 1 guy so I suggested we go for drinks and play pool all together. Got the number and when we set it up by text, I told her to bring a friend which upped the reunion meet-up to a double date at the same time. She invited me to a house party the following weekend and we hooked up in the basement pretty quickly. Those were some of the most glorious, massive fun bags I've ever played with.

I'll also mentioned we really weren't friends at all in high school, just knew "of" each other (I was the only brown guy at an all Jewish school) and she was, "the chick with tits", so I was surprised a "reunion" worked.

TLDR; If you can tag in a wingman from the same circle you can position a "reunion" and escalate to a "date".

Bear in mind this was about 10 years ago, before I knew what game was, so this is analysis in hindsight. Looking forward to other, more data based responses for future reference myself.

Post: #3

Facebook allowed me to revisit all the girld I never had the game to bag in highschool

Post: #4

I fucked the shit out of a girl (at reunion) who was barely an acquaintance in college (15-20 yrs ago). And let me say she was one of the few who aged Very well. Slim figure. Natural large breasts.

A damn good notch.

Post: #5

(05-15-2015 07:42 PM)XPQ21 Wrote:  Has anyone here had success reconnecting and hooking up with girls they knew back in HS/college after some years have passed, but didn't bang at that time? If so, via what method did you reconnect? Social networking? School reunion? Mutual friends? How did the situation play out from initial contact to lay? Is this a fertile area to explore, or is it a time-wasting rathole when effort should be applied elsewhere?

Some members seem to detest social networking on here, but I've landed many bangs and meet-ups using it for "reconnecting" with girls from hs and college (on Facebook).

I keep it simple- a few terse messages (calibrate content, tone and length based on her responses and enthusiasm) back and forth and number close/proposal of drinks and "catching up". All of my correspondence is carried out via private messaging, rather than public wall posts or commenting on airheaded status updates. If she isn't receptive/doesn't respond I just drop it.

My profile and information is empty- just some solid profile pics.

Post: #6

If you want to go for it, there's no reason not to, but remember:

The longer you wait, the more you'll be disappointed in their looks/body. Even just a few years out of school some girls had already ballooned up or hit the wall.

Sad, really.

I did get a make out and blow job from a girl who I had a huge crush on in school, despite having found god and was in a committed, no physicality relationship with a "man of god."

Post: #7

Being mod thirties surely don't want to see any "girl" my age. But every now and then i remember the time when the very first week of my bachelor's i met this girl at the copy center that just graduated with me from high school. And she was asking leading questions. And i just had no clue

Post: #8

Quote:Some members seem to detest social networking on here, but I've landed many bangs and meet-ups using it for "reconnecting" with girls from hs and college (on Facebook).

I don't blame them. I probably used social networking to talk with "friends" more than I should - these are both men and women that I chatted with online back in the day in Yahoo chat rooms and shit when I was really insecure and it was the only thing I knew how to do and we kept in touch. Most everyone is in their 30s at this point and the women who are still single have just gotten nothing if not more bitter and cockblocking over the years.

I basically never "like" or comment on shit any of them post anymore because I realized that the only way that these damaged people could react to even helpful or insightful commentary on a post by some middle-aged woman that I'm not even interested in sexually was with gossip and backstabbing and drama. They would often post about their trivial life problems and actually get angry when straightforward, goal-oriented solutions were offered. I came to the conclusion that they don't actually want solutions. It's all about attention-whoring and having a pity party.

I know now that if you spend your time on there as a straight single male liking and commenting on a woman's posts she and her friends will draw the conclusion that you're a terminal loser as surely as night follows day, regardless of the content. I wish I'd realized this earlier, but being an older dude new to game I guess I was slower to grasp the social dynamics of the situation than most.

Quote:I keep it simple- a few terse messages (calibrate content, tone and length based on her responses and enthusiasm) back and forth and number close/proposal of drinks and "catching up". All of my correspondence is carried out via private messaging, rather than public wall posts or commenting on airheaded status updates. If she isn't receptive/doesn't respond I just drop it.

My profile and information is empty- just some solid profile pics.

I was reconnecting with some friends from college on the site and this woman added me after I sent her a request and she accepted because she was one of those "suggested" people things that another person can do. I know it's not the best move to be the one who requests rather than vice versa but it's also kind of like online dating sites for men in that if you don't you'll be probably waiting a long time. I was attracted to her back then but she had kind of a hipster PITA attitude at that point and so I hooked up with some other girls she was friends with instead. She's a bit chubbier after all these years and not what most guys would consider conventionally attractive but I dig it. She's around 31 or 32 I think and I believe I see the wall approaching quickly, however.

I've noticed a few interesting things from that little "sidebar" that shows when people are active on their mobile device - she texts way way less than most women her age. Most single women in their early 30s are active every 10 minutes from morning till night banging away to their orbiters on FB when they're at their office job it seems, but she'll go long stretches where she's mobile with zero activity whatsoever. It's kind of weird and I noticed the difference very quickly. Sometimes 6 or 7 hours will pass on a weekday between like 3 and 11 pm with no mobile activity, which is even less than most of the married women and men I know. It's weird.

She also posts stuff to her wall only occasionally and it seems to be mostly family or travel related. There's the usual army of 60 people "liking" it but what's interesting is that there doesn't seem to be a male orbiter in her age range in sight. It appears to be all women and much older guys.

Maybe went militant lesbian along the way somewhere? She was banging dudes when I last knew her but that was ~12 years ago.

I tried sending her a humorous/sarcastic text when she added me but I actually don't know if she received it or not - it never actually said it was read. So I'm not entirely sure if she received it and ignored it or what.

TLDR: Would like the notch, she lives 30 minutes from me, doesn't seem to have a bunch of orbiters, may or may not be gay. Don't know if there is any way to proceed now after the possible text message non-response. wat do?

Post: #9

There's something magical about being out of school for a while. Suddenly, the girls you couldn't get in high school/college are now well within your reach. Why? Well, in my case, many of the so-called "popular" kids at my school never left the town we grew up in. For these people, a class reunion really wasn't necessary since so many of them have never fallen out of contact. Most of these people "peaked" in high school and have since become disillusioned at how hard life is in the real world, a place where not every guy becomes a star quarterback in the NFL nor does every girl have what it takes to become "America's Next Top Model".

A quick Facebook search will reveal most girls you knew have probably been married and divorced at least once, had a few kids and probably gained an appreciable amount of weight since you last saw them. If you've done anything right in your life, you moved away from the shitty town you grew up in. If you're not making big bucks, ideally you're at least pursuing a dream that means more to you than money. If nothing else, hopefully you've at least taken decent care of yourself. Now the sexual tide has turned, your value in the marketplace has gone up and their value has gone down. Even if they've not been married, had kids or gained weight, they'll still be past the prime 18-23 age so their stock price is still less than it once was.

In most cases, all it takes is sending a random message to get the ball rolling. I recommend sending a message before sending a friend request, as I feel it doesn't come off as needy. She'll likely send you a friend request if your message is well-received. Once that's happened, it's really just a matter of bringing up your shared history, even if you didn't run in the same crowd, you'll likely still know some of the same people and can equal parts reminisce/gossip. Once you've broken the ice, you can start to test the waters by throwing out some bait to see whether or not she's interested. As long as you keep your bait at least somewhat plausibly deniable, you can always back out if you sense she isn't feeling it and still save face. If you put too much out there at once, you can't take it back so just exercise caution but don't be afraid to take a risk. After all, you really don't have much to lose.

If she's still stuck in a small town and you now live in the big city, even better. She'll likely be very interested to know what your life is like. Now if you're smart, I don't care if all you do when you come home from work is plop your ass down on the couch and watch Netflix 'til you fall asleep, you make it sound like your life is filled with the kind of excitement that only living in a big city provides. At this point, you can mention how if she's ever out your way you should grab a drink, or alternately she might ask when you ever make it back home to visit. Now, what's great is whenever she does come there or you return home, you'll be working with a time constraint. She'll know that if something physically is to happen between you, it'll have to happen during that time period. Otherwise, it may mean a long time before having such an opportunity, or possibly never again. Anyone who has ever studied "The Mystery Method" knows the power a time constraint can hold, whether that constraint is false or real.

The best part is both of you should pretty much know what to expect getting into it. She's not likely to pack up her whole life and try following you back to the big city nor will you return to the sparrow fart town you grew up in when your time together is through. I've done this several times, with several different girls and am still in contact with them to this day. It's actually a pretty easy way of having sex with no real strings attached. If you end things well, you'll likely be able to hookup with them again in the future. It should never feel like a breakup at the end, more of a "see you next time" time type vibe.

Post: #10

^ Funny I should see this today, as I posted it about a year ago as the "old me."

After a year of game experience and a decent number of notches on my belt, well. It's interesting how perspectives change. I went to a pretty "high powered" high school - several students from my graduating class were admitted to Harvard, Yale. The town I grew up in wasn't shitty in many ways..the median income is pushing 100k. But that posed its own set of problems as I was the "poor kid."

I checked out my school's Facebook alumni group. It's true, most girls are either married or on their second marriage with kids in tow. Big time beta bucks marriages in their late 20s for most of them, 200k weddings in the Hamptons, and so on. We're in our 30s now...some of the girls have taken pretty good care of themselves but many, as you say, have put on a lot of weight.

The guys aren't in much better position, working their asses off at government jobs in DC, or in medicine, education. One male friend of mine from way back has already been fucked in a divorce once. Same old story - married a girl that anyone could have told him was going to balloon up after the wedding (just look at her mother seriously that's how it's going to go down), she did so right on schedule, he lost sexual interest and started running up big bills at strip clubs.

But he was back at it again in no time and is married once again. His ex-wife soon married an omega and is heavier than ever.

It's basically a parade of nouveau riche suburban McMansion douchebaggery and chronic anti-game mistakes. Meanwhile I've been hooking up with girls in their 20s.

I mean, I suppose there might be one or two who were gamable. In the main, however, they didn't like me then and I think they certainly wouldn't like me now. A single straight man in his 30s who hasn't been married at least once? Suspicious. Likely a player. Probably not good at climbing the corporate ladder.

But seriously, it hardly seems worth the effort.

Post: #11

Just wait a few years and you can hook up with their daughters.